SELKIRK, Man. — A Manitoba man is suing the mother of his child, claiming he shouldn’t have to pay child support because he was asleep when she had sex with him.
In a statement of claim filed in Manitoba Court of Queen’s Bench last week, the man from Tyndall, Man., claims he was visiting the woman from Selkirk in late 2006 when he fell asleep.
The man alleges he woke up and found the woman was having sexual intercourse with him.
The man says when he “demanded that she cease and desist” she complied. But about nine months later the woman gave birth to a child that he agrees is his.
No statement of defence has been filed and the allegations have not been proven in court.
According to court records, the woman launched a court action for child support in Manitoba Court of Queen’s Bench last year.
The man is seeking damages including mental distress and anxiety, as well as reimbursement for all child support expenses paid and payable by him.
Now, I already know- this is Canada- he ain’t getting shit- one, he’s not getting damages because it’s family court, and two, the courts have stated that the child must not suffer, so he’s not going to get back child support, especially since he already started paying it, and technically he IS the father biologically, but what do you guys think about it?
http://www.edmontonsun.com/News/Canada/2008/10/07/pf-7002151.html
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October 9, 2008 @ 9:12 am
I vote this guy off the island.
October 9, 2008 @ 9:18 am
He’s suing for the wrong shit.
Niggas and whities always sue for mental anguish but never get it. "Mental anguish for being a father" is not grounds for a suit.
He could have sued for rape and extortion and had a better case.
Nigga shit knows no borders….
October 9, 2008 @ 9:38 am
I dont know what to think…
But I do know that this is a damn shame…what fool goes to court for this. Okay I just answered my question…Fool
October 9, 2008 @ 9:54 am
men just need to fall in line and understand… our shit stays internal, so we get the "my body, my choice" treatment… since y’all get to bust all over creation, messin up curtians and shit- you get the "once it leaves your body (on purpose or not), you are fucked" treatment.
it is what it is…
October 9, 2008 @ 10:07 am
claiming he shouldn’t have to pay child support because he was asleep when she had sex with him.
The man says when he “demanded that she cease and desist” she complied. But about nine months later the woman gave birth to a child that he agrees is his.
So he woke up and she was riding him and he demanded that she stop- hmm must not have been to good cause i dont know no man that would do that.
October 9, 2008 @ 10:21 am
The man says when he “demanded that she cease and desist” she complied. But about nine months later the woman gave birth to a child that he agrees is his.
So he woke up and she was riding him and he demanded that she stop- hmm must not have been to good cause i dont know no man that would do that.
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thats what i said.. HOWEVER.. if and only IF he actually said "i demand you cease and desist" then he should win.. i mean thats pretty damn clear- all we gotta say is "no" lol
im sorry.. i think there are assholes that just want to get off scott free, and i think that a woman has the right to choose,etc.. but there are some cases (and i dont know enough to call this one of them) where you really have to say- WHY is this man responsbile for this womans actions?
October 9, 2008 @ 10:26 am
WHY is this man responsbile for this womans actions?
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yeah I agree on some instances (IDK about this one) but there are some… But that just like the whole can a man be raped by a woman thing…
October 9, 2008 @ 10:44 am
The problem is you can’t put the toothpaste back in the tube…if he felt this situation was foul, why not do something about it before she comes 9 months later with a kid? Then, once you pay support consecutive instances, it’s an admission that this child was had with your consent.
He can’t get that.
And to claim emotional stress would mean it kept him from maintaining his way of life- you can’t claim that AFTER you’ve already been paying.
October 9, 2008 @ 10:50 am
And to claim emotional stress would mean it kept him from maintaining his way of life- you can’t claim that AFTER you’ve already been paying.
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THIS is logical
October 9, 2008 @ 10:57 am
First things first…
how attractive is this woman.
Cuz that might change my opinion.
October 9, 2008 @ 11:02 am
"Cuz that might change my opinion."
Yeah if she is on the uggo side Im going with dude all the way.
October 9, 2008 @ 11:13 am
*having flashbacks to "You Can’t Fade Me" by Ice Cube*
And the baby came out, it was a life saver
Lookin like my next door neighbor…
…But no I just told the hoe who laid me
Excuse me bitch it’s a switch
You can’t fade me
October 9, 2008 @ 11:15 am
October 9, 2008 @ 11:17 am
This nigga here…..
October 9, 2008 @ 11:41 am
But seriously, he never charged her (mistake #1), he paid up, and the kid is like, 2 now (mistake #2), and he’s suing for damages in Family Court (mistake #3, and one his lawyer should have advised him had no grounds). Plus- it’s his kid. Nobody disputes that.
Plus, how does somebody ride you and you don’t know they are? A blowjob, maybe- a hand job, possible…but somebody is bouncing up and down on your dick and you don’t realize it?
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*having flashbacks to "You Can’t Fade Me" by Ice Cube*
October 9, 2008 @ 11:45 am
This one is especially for Naj….
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QT8q9SMYjlw
October 9, 2008 @ 11:59 am
Plus, how does somebody ride you and you don’t know they are? A blowjob, maybe- a hand job, possible…but somebody is bouncing up and down on your dick and you don’t realize it?
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Ahhh Jaeda…maybe he didn’t "feel" it.
Maybe her womb resembled an open air stadium or maybe as Adele Givens once said it was tiny like giving a whale a tic-tac…
Aside from that though, I can’t see myself fuckin nobody raw, then not having a convo like
"bitch you know I was asleep…if you get pregnant, I’m filing charges…fuck that let’s go to Wal-mart right now for one of dem ‘pills’, you can’t fade me!"
October 9, 2008 @ 12:01 pm
Damn IHNC, I can’t even open it. I have been feeling real West Coasty lately too.
After watching the NWA special on VH1 I find myself listening to NIGGAZ4LIFE like it just came out…
Always Into Somethin >
October 9, 2008 @ 12:02 pm
That’s why I’m your NAFTA wifey…
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*in JJ Evans voice*
I knooooowwwwww…
Time for lunch-not doing shit today is a tough job that requires a break.
October 9, 2008 @ 12:09 pm
A blowjob, maybe- a hand job, possible…
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im not buying that either… if a woman (or man, if you roll that way) is manipulating your dick in anyway and you are unaware you A- need to look into AA or NA or B- need to look into that person not manipulating your penis whilst you are awake or asleep until they step thier sexual prowess game up
October 9, 2008 @ 12:10 pm
Classic…
nigga in the video got his eyes all chinky lookin like me and shit.
October 9, 2008 @ 12:12 pm
Thats that BLACK SUPERMAN from Above the Law…
Everytime I hear that song I gotta stop what I am doing … put my hands up and bounce…..
October 9, 2008 @ 12:12 pm
Seeing as how men get erections in their sleep…
I could see a person initially thinking they’re having a wet dream.
Cuz sometimes them shits be extra real.
October 9, 2008 @ 12:16 pm
On the real yall…I aint never had some chick touch my shit and i not know about it. Chick cant even do her nails beside me and my dick not know…shit dont make sense.
October 9, 2008 @ 12:18 pm
Please and thank you
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On the real yall…I aint never had some chick touch my shit and i not know about it. Chick cant even do her nails beside me and my dick not know…shit dont make sense.
October 9, 2008 @ 12:23 pm
I could see a person initially thinking they’re having a wet dream.
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key world initially… ok, i see that.. but thatshit is know eventually lol
October 9, 2008 @ 12:27 pm
Hold up jadea …Im still gon side with dude. He was led a stray by ole girl… and plus us men have to stick together against the tyranny of feminine ways
October 9, 2008 @ 12:36 pm
Hold up jadea …Im still gon side with dude. He was led a stray by ole girl… and plus us men have to stick together against the tyranny of feminine ways
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then you must be a fool right along with him… he would have had to cry "violation" from jump.. not claim the baby, start paying cs then two years later cry rape.
if a chick waits 2 days people wanna crucify her, but you giving dude two YEARS?!?
October 9, 2008 @ 12:41 pm
then you must be a fool right along with him… he would have had to cry "violation" from jump.. not claim the baby, start paying cs then two years later cry rape.
if a chick waits 2 days people wanna crucify her, but you giving dude two YEARS?!?
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Nope…two years or not. a crime is a crime ole girl should really go to jail.
Let me stop before I get shot at.
October 9, 2008 @ 12:58 pm
Nope…two years or not. a crime is a crime ole girl should really go to jail.
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then guess who gets the baby?
and we not going to shoot you. we arent lawless rouges like you violent ass texans. shootin electricity all up in innocent people all the time lol
October 9, 2008 @ 1:03 pm
‘if a chick waits 2 days people wanna crucify her, but you giving dude two YEARS?!?’
Yes.
Us men are under tremendous pressure jae.
October 9, 2008 @ 1:04 pm
October 9, 2008 @ 1:10 pm
Dude needed time to recover from the mental anguish.
Cut this man some slack.
October 9, 2008 @ 1:25 pm
and we not going to shoot you. we arent lawless rouges like you violent ass texans. shootin electricity all up in innocent people all the time lol
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Its called crime control does innocent people sometimes get put to death…I would say yes…
But in order to make an omelet you have to crush a few eggs…. just my opinion
October 9, 2008 @ 1:26 pm
then guess who gets the baby?
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Hell she had the kid…send the baby to jail with her. BAM !!!! instant Tupac….
October 9, 2008 @ 1:28 pm
‘BAM !!!! instant Tupac…’
October 9, 2008 @ 1:38 pm
Sooooo…
Holly and Hef are broken up…
and she wants to get married and have a baby…
**slowly raises hand**
I got you boo!
And I won’t even sue.
October 9, 2008 @ 1:47 pm
Holly and Hef are broken up…
and she wants to get married and have a baby…
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See this the shit im talking about right there… this young ass chic should have known damn well that this dude (whos been getting Puss since the 60’s) was not about to just marry her ass…shit he already made you a lil famous…Another example of a woman not knowing her role.
October 9, 2008 @ 1:49 pm
But that broad still living on the grounds though.
That makes Kendra his bottom bitch then I guess.
I like Kendra.
October 9, 2008 @ 1:52 pm
yeah the young one is on point…she is just there for fun…
October 9, 2008 @ 1:59 pm
But in order to make an omelet you have to crush a few eggs…. just my opinion
@ you too… between you and willy i’ma need some botox before i go home tonight damn it!
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October 9, 2008 @ 2:01 pm
they all leaving him… he got 2 new ones.. blonde twins and will be in the christmas issue and *gasp* a BRUNETTE!!
peep wwtdd.com- they talk about them ALL the time.. so does celebitchy.com
October 9, 2008 @ 2:03 pm
kendra referred to the new ones as " them hoes" and worried about them stealing her shit
October 9, 2008 @ 2:07 pm
Kendra is a hot lil thang…
but I’d seriously have to fuck her with a ball gag in her mouth cuz some of the dumbest shit I’ve ever heard comes outta her mouth.
But yeah rumor is she’s dating some football player. Or maybe a basketball player.
‘Another example of a woman not knowing her role.’
Supposedly she was in his will… while the other two weren’t. Shiiiiit, he fucked up by actually telling her he would NEVER marry her.
You know MAN LAW dictates you just drag it out until she leaves.
‘a BRUNETTE!!’
Word.
October 9, 2008 @ 2:13 pm
You know MAN LAW dictates you just drag it out until she leaves.
Let her figure that shit out on her own… by the time she finds out…its too late You’ve already replaced her with a younger chic
October 9, 2008 @ 2:17 pm
‘Let her figure that shit out on her own… by the time she finds out…its too late You’ve already replaced her with a younger chic’
October 9, 2008 @ 2:18 pm
Oh snap…
wwtdd has naked picks of the twins up.
October 9, 2008 @ 2:25 pm
CHRISTIAN!!! get me my botox!
October 9, 2008 @ 2:34 pm
‘get me my botox!’
Awwwwwwwww!
But seriously…
Hef shoulda stuck to the rules.
October 9, 2008 @ 2:47 pm
CHRISTIAN!!! get me my botox!
Hef did show his hand a lil fast… if he would have use the word slow it would have worked.
October 9, 2008 @ 2:48 pm
But seriously…
Hef shoulda stuck to the rules.
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no matter what a woman says.. if we take up with a man thats married, but seperated for years.. we know that the chances of us ever getting that ring a slim to none.. many wont admit to that- but we know it.
October 9, 2008 @ 2:53 pm
i’m over here cryin @ a video of this bear.. and at the end these 4 lil bebes kids jump him! lol
October 9, 2008 @ 2:56 pm
no matter what a woman says.. if we take up with a man thats married, but seperated for years.. we know that the chances of us ever getting that ring a slim to none.. many wont admit to that- but we know it.
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So true… women do that shit like they know whats up. End up looking stupid then shits on the dude to everybody after…
October 9, 2008 @ 3:27 pm
Damn Dow under 8,000…
Titanic anyone?