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January 31, 2008 willyjsimmons

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26 comments

  1. comment by jaedalaurez :
    January 31, 2008 @ 12:01 pm

    morning willy!!

  2. comment by cec :
    January 31, 2008 @ 12:03 pm

    Good morning peoples

  3. comment by willyjsimmons :
    January 31, 2008 @ 12:09 pm

    How ya’ll doin?

  4. comment by cec :
    January 31, 2008 @ 12:10 pm

    im doing pretty good for a thursday. How r u?

  5. comment by willyjsimmons :
    January 31, 2008 @ 12:36 pm

    Ch Ch Chillin!

    Phones are dead over here.

  6. comment by jaedalaurez :
    January 31, 2008 @ 12:54 pm

    i actually have to work today- no wellness room for j…

  7. comment by trissa :
    January 31, 2008 @ 1:00 pm

    what up my nizzles…

  8. comment by willyjsimmons :
    January 31, 2008 @ 1:06 pm

    Whut up triss.

  9. comment by trissa :
    January 31, 2008 @ 1:35 pm

    Hey ya’ll I think something is wrong with me.

    Ya’ll know I told ole dude he should get back with his girl, right…why is that NOW I’m starting to like him on a serious tip. ( I think its the fact that I know he has somebody else on the brain too and I gotta do my damnest to make his ass forget about her, even though he was ready to break up with her last week for me.)I mean yeah he got some work to do in the dick department, but other than that he is a sweetheart.I ask him for a dollar, he pull out a dub, shit like that. Last night, I was feeling like crap (I had a temperture and was shaking and crap)and he came over and took care of me.

    I’m not used to the feeling that he gives me. It’s scary. Sometimes when he is around I be like maybe if I let my guards down we could be together evetually…But I dont want no full committment cause there are other people on my list that I have to scratch off first cause I know me, i’ll be in a relationship fucking other people Not a good look, for a lady.

    So my question of the day:
    Should sex determine whether or not a person is a good fit, or is that something we can “work on”?

    PS: Dude head game is on POINT!!!

    Shut up Ihadnochoice!!!

  10. comment by cec :
    January 31, 2008 @ 1:46 pm

    Trissa-

    I think you need to figure out what you want be first and foremost. One day those reasons make u think u falling in luv…then those are the reasons that make u not want him…now u want him. I think u should stop and figure out what u really want and be real with yourself.

  11. comment by jaedalaurez :
    January 31, 2008 @ 1:48 pm

    well….has he tried viagra? is this the dude who could eat it up but couldn’t get hard?

    You need to be careful Trissa though, for real. Most guys do not take kindly to being mindfucked.

    That’s how stalkers develop.

  12. comment by trissa :
    January 31, 2008 @ 1:51 pm

    I think u should stop and figure out what u really want and be real with yourself.
    ————————————————————-
    I want a mix between a boyfriend and a cut. I dont want a full, full committment cause I still want to be able to do MY thing every once and while, but I do like the way he makes me feel.

    But I’m scared cause he comes with a child and other issues that I dont know if I can handle.

    I dont think I’m falling in love just yet, but I’m starting to maybe take him serious, if he cant shut up and let me fall in love…Sometimes I feel like he’s forcing me to, cuase of all the shit he says, other times I think its ginuine. And for once in my life I can say IT IS NOT THE DICK. I dont know if that’s a good or a bad thing….

  13. comment by trissa :
    January 31, 2008 @ 1:57 pm

    well….has he tried viagra? is this the dude who could eat it up but couldn’t get hard?

    You need to be careful Trissa though, for real. Most guys do not take kindly to being mindfucked.

    That’s how stalkers develop.
    ————————————————————–
    Yes that’s him…
    Mindfucked?
    What you talking about Willis?

    I aint trying to play dude, that’s why I insisted we slow things down. He put a lot of things out in the air last night. He was telling me the things he looking for and he feel like I’m the one. I’m laying in the bed like..
    How did I end up in this situation…Two weeks ago I was lonely as hell, now I got a dude coming over here spilling his undenying fondness for me.

    I’m scared to even remotely let my guards down….

  14. comment by cjp :
    January 31, 2008 @ 2:00 pm

    HAHAHAHAHA… WTF

    Trissa…could it be the reason why you are into him now is because he has sombody and its like you’re now competing with her….IDK.

    AN im not a woman so i cant tell you if thats a good thing with the sex an all… but on the guys side of it. Sex isnt the main thing but it is important.

  15. comment by willyjsimmons :
    January 31, 2008 @ 2:08 pm

    Triss…

    go to a ‘white’ church, find you a nice vanilla type dude, and be done.

    WWJD?

  16. comment by trissa :
    January 31, 2008 @ 2:09 pm

    CJP:
    Funny thing is when he was like I’m breaking up with her I was like NO! But now that I know they arent offically broke up, I want him to break up with her, but if he does that he is going to be looking to get into a real relationship with me. I just aint ready for that. He sees me as this kind-hearted, nice, sweet person. I dont even look at myself that way.

    He’s like I make him feel special. I dont even do shit. I may show him affection like hiss and rub his head (he ’s bald), you know other things that fit into the affection catergory, but as far as a real effort, I dont. For some reason he acts like the little things I do is a whole bunch…

    BRB!

  17. comment by trissa :
    January 31, 2008 @ 2:09 pm

    CJP:
    Funny thing is when he was like I’m breaking up with her I was like NO! But now that I know they arent offically broke up, I want him to break up with her, but if he does that he is going to be looking to get into a real relationship with me. I just aint ready for that. He sees me as this kind-hearted, nice, sweet person. I dont even look at myself that way.

    He’s like I make him feel special. I dont even do shit. I may show him affection like kiss and rub his head (he ’s bald), you know other things that fit into the affection catergory, but as far as a real effort, I dont. For some reason he acts like the little things I do is a whole bunch…

    BRB!

  18. comment by cjp :
    January 31, 2008 @ 2:12 pm

    go to a ‘white’ church, find you a nice vanilla type dude, and be done.

    I was just about to say… If she was white none of this would be going on.

  19. comment by cjp :
    January 31, 2008 @ 2:15 pm

    For some reason he acts like the little things I do is a whole bunch…

    Thats because the little things mean more…. ALright i already said dude is one breakdown from serving women up on a plate with some green beans(french cut nigga)…. Be careful

  20. comment by jaedalaurez :
    January 31, 2008 @ 2:28 pm

    And this is what I’m saying- he’s experiencing something genuine…don’t play with his emotions, Tris. What you say doesn’t mean all that much if it doesn’t line up with what you do. You telling dude that you don’t want a relationship, but then you are letting him do relationshippy shit like letting him baby you when you’re sick. Not a good look.

    Right now, you want somebody to take care of you and invest emotionally who isn’t going to expect anything in return…most grown folks aren’t going to go alone for that ride.

    ——

    Thats because the little things mean more…. ALright i already said dude is one breakdown from serving women up on a plate with some green beans(french cut nigga)…. Be careful

  21. comment by trissa :
    January 31, 2008 @ 2:39 pm

    Right now, you want somebody to take care of you and invest emotionally who isn’t going to expect anything in return…most grown folks aren’t going to go alone for that ride.
    ————————————————————
    So you saying that I’m playing with his emotions.
    I dont feel that way. I didnt expect for all this to happen so fast. I ws just looking for somebody to chill with..he looking for a wife…

    I mean I’m looking for a husband, but not today. I dont understand the urgency with everything. I think he thinks that if he dont snatch me up fast somebody else will. Little does he know, the tow that I really want do want my ass, so I aint going nowhere, he just gotta let me fall in love, not yank me into.

    He told me last night that he understands that he’s going to have to deal with the fact that I’m not used to being with somebody that is into me the way he is. I was like wow, are you really willing to put up with me pushing you away everytime you say some shit that I think is lame?

  22. comment by trissa :
    January 31, 2008 @ 2:43 pm

    In other news,
    I heard they admitted Brittany into a crazy house yesterday. What the hell is wrong with her.

  23. comment by cjp :
    January 31, 2008 @ 3:01 pm

    What the hell is wrong with her.

    She’s famous….In America Thats the problem. I dont think that there is any harder job than being famous in America. You can never have a normal life. Just think about it you an your love ones are out having dinner or just enjoying each other company… You have people there asking for autographs and taking you picture.

    an not to mention that when you go through something the entire country knows about it…. every failed relationship you’ve had is out for every one to see. AN not to mention that your are still young and making young people mistakes and that shit is getting broadcated on every entertainment channel out there. Its just hard being us… and we’re nobodies just think if you were famous. Fuck that shit.

  24. comment by jaedalaurez :
    January 31, 2008 @ 3:05 pm

    She’s a drug addict and bi-polar….those two things are bad separately, but both at the same time will have you fucking your professional stalkers and faking british accents and skipping court dates for your kids.

    And I realize you didn’t expect things to happen so fast- but you need to process your emotions before you let him involve his- even if it means giving up sitting on his face for a while Cause right now, you both don’t want the same things, and so while this might seem like a good idea this week, next week you could be like “I don’t want him at all,” and he’s fucked up.

  25. comment by cec :
    January 31, 2008 @ 3:11 pm

    Cause right now, you both don’t want the same things, and so while this might seem like a good idea this week, next week you could be like “I don’t want him at all,” and he’s fucked up.

    I agree, and at the rate this has been going….next week u aint gon want him.

    Again why i said b4, u need to stop period and take the sitting on his face and stuff out of the equation. Is this something that you truly want and if you conflict in any way then dude needs to be downgraded to just a friend with benefits, u need to be clear with him on that and dont take him down a road (or yourself) that u aint ready to go down. KNowing whether u want a commitment is not a hard decision to make when u KNOW u want it no matter what.

  26. comment by trissa :
    January 31, 2008 @ 5:00 pm

    KNowing whether u want a commitment is not a hard decision to make when u KNOW u want it no matter what.
    ————————————————————-
    Then I dont have to make a committment.
    He still offically with ole girl, but I guess I’m going to have to put it out there. I cant believe people actually fall for people in less than 2 weeks. This shit dont sound real….

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