Just something I’m grappling with right now! Excuse the length but I feel the back ground is important to get an unbias opinion
I got 2 friends 2 of my best friends that got beef with each other. Personally it it started on some shit that I don’t understand why it became so fkin personal. But now due to the way its been handled, its gonna come to a head, when dunno but it will.
In short both of them use to live together for yrs and for the most part they were cool. Meaning they’ve never had beef not even a single real argument. We pretty much kicked it on the reg with no problems. Initially it started wit my dog A needing a place to stay for while wit my dog J due to some personal circumstances. Since they knew each other since they were kids it wasn’t a problem. Since that went smooth they just changed locations and became roomates. Now J is carefree and easy my dog A is practical and starts having lil pet peeves about cleaniness after a few yrs. J ain’t no slob by any means but A has a point bout some of the sht. So A gets an opportunity to bounce ojut of town friend whose going to school in state needs a roommate and hits him up. A says yes and lets J know in advance he bouncing and tells him his boy needs a roommate, some help. Tells J 3months in advance and tell J to keep the deposit. Initially J is like cool but after a while and talking to a few people. J gets pst off, starts acting fny towards A and they just stop speaking, completely. I’m in the middle of all this and I’m just like to both of them Don’t burn bridges. A pst cause J is acting like a lil bitch to him. In his eye’s I came correct wasn’t tryin to be foul let you know ahead of time and hit wit 2months in free rent before you got a new roommate. Plus we’ve been tight since yeh tall, you gotta issue say it. J is on some fk him, how you gon bounce on me when I helped you out and gave you a place to stay and pull a stunt like this. Plus I personally feel he knows its more than just helpin out a friend. I can see how it rubbed him the wrong way. But as a man this is the type of sht that bugs us for a while and we get over it. I guess I feel whatever is buggin you, you got to understand its not being said as not to hurt your feelings.
So now they’re not friends. But thats not all J was supposed to get certain bills for the apt put in his name. He never did, ran them sht up and worse for months he never paid them. A finds out like 9 months later, now while this is A’s fault for being nieve. It on for real now. I don’t know where to be at with this sht at this point cuz the sht is fk’d up. i told J if you had did that sht to me, I woulda fk’d you up! A paid all that loot to get the creditors off him and J was supposed to pay him back. Its been over a yr, they work in the same building and every now and then I get the Im bout to fk him up right now phone call. Im on some don’t do it but at this point I know If I say fk it. Its gonna be on. All I can do is shake my head cuz I just can’t see why this got this fking far. I see it, I just to understand it
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November 13, 2007 @ 12:16 pm
It got that far because J put it there.
J is a punk-A has every reason to be pissed. True, J helped him out when he needed a place to stay, but when he was going to move on, A gave him proper notice AND extra money. J just took advantage, and ran up bills on him to boot. That’s some snake shit.
November 13, 2007 @ 12:27 pm
I think …after reading this twice to make sure im getting everything right in my head, the whole thing messed up but U Banga, need to stay out of it, yea act as a mediator but let them work this out on they own.
Thank God i dont do the sharing apt move…this happens all the time.
November 13, 2007 @ 12:36 pm
yeah, definitely stay out of it- they’re grown men, and make it clear that you aren’t going to take sides if you want to keep both of them as friends.
November 13, 2007 @ 12:42 pm
agreeing with jaeda
November 13, 2007 @ 12:44 pm
What kinda shit…
November 13, 2007 @ 12:50 pm
RIP OLD DIRTY BASTARD !!!!!!
“This ain’t the “Embryo DB… its the ODB”… Chris Rock.
“Big baby Jesus I can’t wait motherfuck that I can’t wait”
Damn that N***ga Please Album is pure comedy…lol.
anyways…
This is why I don’t want nobody sharing my apt. I could definetely use the help moneywise but at the end of the day, it ain’t worth the headache and I already know that I ain’t a walk in the park to live with. I enjoy my “alonetime” and I can’t get that anywhere but home.
November 13, 2007 @ 12:57 pm
@Banga…
You should tell both of them to stop talking shit and just shoot the 5 and get it over with. This way they handle it on their own and get out all their frustration and it leaves you out of it. Sometimes fighting is the only answer.
November 13, 2007 @ 1:08 pm
@ IHNC
Promoting Violence
November 13, 2007 @ 1:38 pm
You call it violence….
Me and Bush call it a solution….
November 13, 2007 @ 2:25 pm
‘Me and Bush call it a solution…’
This nigga right here.
November 13, 2007 @ 2:42 pm
good lookin out
November 13, 2007 @ 2:51 pm
I’ve been stayin out of it
my comments have been limited
and initially when I was hit wit
your boy this and that
I let em know, I’m out of it, all ask is don’t burn bridges. And I’m conflicted cuz Im social wit J but I feel fk’d up about it in regards to A.
November 13, 2007 @ 3:21 pm
IHNC
LMAO yea u right… u and bush is gangsta
November 13, 2007 @ 4:12 pm
well Banga, J
ed A…a disagreement is one thing; fucking with my credit is another…. that shit takes years to fix…over not wanting to be roomies anymore? that’s fucked up.
November 14, 2007 @ 11:27 am
Seems to me like J helpin A out became old news once they decided to move out that spot and get a new spot TOGETHER. The whole “what i did for you” thing becomes irrelevant at that point, cause they takin on something new TOGETHER.
But this is the kinda thing that kills friendships every day. Long term business arrangements between friends are a bad idea. This aint the $20 he borrowed and was suppose to pay back on Friday but couldnt, LOL. But J is being a baby and needs to grow the hell up. Even if they decide they not fuckin wit each other like that no more, fine, but to come to blows about it is just childish.
And YOU, young man, stay out of it.