What’s up family? Long time since I’ve been on the block. But I got a question to the females mostly. If any of y’all deviant ass niggaz got an answer, help me too.
I was talking to this female yesterday. Now she my nigga. I’ve known her for about 4 months. And up until yesterday, I would’ve wagered that she was the most thorough female that I’ve ran across in the age range of 18-25. She’s in school double majoring in Marketing and Accounting. She has her own car paid off. Her own house. And more importantly, her own money…so I thought.
Yesterday, we’re at my spot having a lil cookout. So me and her got to talking about different things concerning relationships. And she revealed to me that she had a boyfriend. This kind of fucked me up. She’s never mentioned this dude before and she kicks it with me kind of hard on the side. I KNEW she was fucking somebody. She had to be fucking somebody. She was too sexy not to be fucking somebody. So I asked her how did the nigga feel bout her kicking it with me and my squad so hard. She said that she only sees the dude about twice a month. So I’m thinking that buddy must stay out of town right? Nah. This nigga stays right here in Savannah. This shit puzzled the fuck out of me.
Then she broke it down. This dude works on the docks. If you don’t know, them niggaz work down there make $80,000 a year at the MINIMUM. So them niggaz paid. She said that this nigga puts $2000 in her checking account every week. He takes her out one day a month for their anniversary. And in return she’s his freak one day out the month. She says she does ANYTHING this nigga wants her to. In my mind, this is high-class prostitution. But she says it’s not. Now she drops the other bomb. She’s been engaged to the nigga for 7 months. BUT she doesn’t wear the ring on the right finger. The ring is 6 carat diamond…that shit’s fly. I never knew it was an engagement ring.
So she says she knows he fucks other women. And she don’t give a fuck. She rationalizes this by saying that as long as she’s taken care of, she could care less. She says she wants for nothing and he ain’t a d-boy, so she’s happy. As long as no females confronts her, she says she’ll stay right there. And she says she WILL NOT fuck another nigga. She says that she won’t do it, because nine times out of 10, the other nigga ain’t goin be able to do what he does.
So I’m asking y’all women this, if your fiance is GIVING you $8000 a month AND buying you anything you want, would you let this nigga do whatever he wanted? Cause it’s looking like hard-working men who mean well are on their way out of style in MY eyes.
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October 22, 2007 @ 8:52 am
And the reason, I’m saying this is starting to be a trend is because this isn’t the first woman I’ve heard say this. I just considered the other women invalid because they were project chicks, yahoos, or other types of undesirables.
But even the women with a lil common sense and actually doing meaningful shit with their lives are living by the same creed.
October 22, 2007 @ 8:55 am
Women are like that.
And I need a raise…
October 22, 2007 @ 9:14 am
chev- lots of women think like that..and honestly, i cant say that i havent had my moments of thinking like that too ( i think we all have) but you cant chalk it up to thinking liek a bird- every woman (and man) has thier own qualifications for what someone needs to bring to the table for themto be happy. for poeple its money, some sex, mutal interest, love… etc.
just becasue thats what she wants doesnt mean its a ‘trend’ with women- its a ‘trend’ with the women you fuck with. that dude thats paying her could see a trend of chicks that wanna lock him in, and the dude around the corner that wants to fuck and run could be seeing the ‘i’m in love’ chicks…
that being said- yeah chick is cool- but why does it matter to you what she does if shes not doing it to you?
October 22, 2007 @ 9:38 am
My good friend Persia:
It doesn’t “matter” to me if she fucks two donkeys and a goat while sucking a 80 year old’s dick. I’m just trying to find out for my understanding.
The women that I’ve run across in my life are so used to getting the short end of the stick or losing, that when they’re given an opportunity to win, they refuse.
In my homegirl’s case, she’s setting herself up to lose. 1) She already admitted she doesn’t love the nigga. And nobody can tell me she cares about him either. Cause if she did, she would go crazy at the thought of this nigga fucking other bitches. 2) STD’s are real. 3) Why settle for that shit, when she may meet a nigga that might really be into HER and not worried bout no other bitch? 4) It’s only a matter of time before he starts trying to control her. Shit, she’s HIS PROPERTY. It’s just like rent. 5) She’s quick to run that shit bout she should be respected, but in MY eyes, she’s selling pussy. Bitches who sell pussy GET NO RESPECT FROM ME.
Shall I continue?
October 22, 2007 @ 10:03 am
Im wit you Chevy. This definitely is NOT a trend, but I agree with your take on it.
IMO, any chick that says she dont care what he do as long as she gets taken care of is a fucken clown. Thats no different than fucken wit your friendly neighborhood d-boy, except she’d see him more regularly and get broken off in smaller, more consistent increments if thats how he was rollin. If she was just fuckin wit dude, chillin, kickin it or something like that, then ok, but how you gon say thats your MAN and its ok for him to be fuckin other bitches? GTFOH. And then you gon say you aint fuckin other niggas NEVER? I dont buy that shit either.
My baby daddy bout the richest regular nigga out LOL (meaning he aint famous anywhere but in his own mind LOL). If it was all like that, we woulda been back together EONS ago. But some of us have higher standards than that.
October 22, 2007 @ 10:08 am
Oh, it’s a trend…
October 22, 2007 @ 10:11 am
‘Oh, it’s a trend…’
Apparently so is going to the male skrip club cause the shots are cheaper
October 22, 2007 @ 10:25 am
‘Apparently so is going to the male skrip club cause the shots are cheaper’
They were charging $8 per shot…
shit.
Funny shit happened after I texted you doe, LOL…
And it was NOT a male skrip club…
it was the ’round the way bar’ and they had a ladies night.
October 22, 2007 @ 10:29 am
And…
whut is this business with Donnie McClurkin and Barack Obama
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/earl-ofari-hutchinson/obama-should-repudiate-an_b_69244.html
Which one of ya’ll knew Donnie is an ‘ex-gay’??
LMAO!
Help me out.
October 22, 2007 @ 10:33 am
So I’m asking y’all women this, if your fiance is GIVING you $8000 a month AND buying you anything you want, would you let this nigga do whatever he wanted? Cause it’s looking like hard-working men who mean well are on their way out of style in MY eyes.
I n my case, i can make my own doe and take care of nyself, i dont feel i need a man to do that for me. If he cant give me the entire package, loyalty and respect included…he can take his 2gs a mth and leave.
October 22, 2007 @ 10:34 am
Which one of ya’ll knew Donnie is an ‘ex-gay’??
I did..thats part of his ministry, him sharing how he changed
October 22, 2007 @ 10:37 am
Yeah, that is part of his big deal, that he use to be a homosexual and God ‘delivered’ him.
Whatever.
$8 a shot is fucken expensive. I can buy a whole bottle for that
October 22, 2007 @ 10:38 am
cec:
It’s $2000 a week. I was just wanting to know. Make sure I wasn’t going crazy. Cause these females are losing big time.
HOLD THE FUCK UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So niggaz kick it in male strip clubs now for $8 shots?????!??????
And how can a nigga “used to be” gay?
Once your queer, it’s no coming back.
October 22, 2007 @ 10:42 am
Chev
I wouldnt care if it was 2million a week. I can make that shit on my own with hard work and determination, last time i checked there was women handling theirs. I believe if you gon be MY man and im rocking YOUR ring u better act like it. If not u can go. I honestly think thats a self esteem issue, maybe not with this chick in particular but the women ive heard say that in the past are women who feel they cant do no better or hell its better than struggling and being on your own so hey…if he cheat least he coming home to me and paying my bills.
Its the worst statement ive heard a woman make.
October 22, 2007 @ 10:45 am
‘Yeah, that is part of his big deal, that he use to be a homosexual and God ‘delivered’ him.’
I actually NEVER knew that…
not that I pay attention to BET on Sunday’s.
‘$8 a shot is fucken expensive. I can buy a whole bottle for that’
See…
And the homie bought 4 shots for just two of us, LOL.
October 22, 2007 @ 10:47 am
‘I wouldnt care if it was 2million a week.’
Let’s not exaggerate…
cuz if Oprah came at me wit 2 mill a week, shit…
consider me ‘bought and paid for’.
LMAO!
‘Oh, Steadman’s coming over tonight…shit I’ll be in the pool house watchin Beloved.’
October 22, 2007 @ 10:50 am
LMAO
U know what i mean willy..DAMNIT! Im just not about to a price tag on my dignity …im sorry
October 22, 2007 @ 10:55 am
Dont get it twisted, if you just fuckin wit somebody and they hookin you up in the process, paying shit for you, keepin you dipped and what not, I am not mad at you. Thats a perfectly good symbiotic relationship LOL. But when somebody is supposed to be in a relationship - especially one where you are suppose to be getting married - thats not good enough. Im not even gon judge ole girl, but to me its just sad that a lotta women dont see how that is a form of settling. But shit is really that bad out here. Women rather take the money and justify the nonsense, than wait for someone real to come along cause they dont think its gonna happen.
October 22, 2007 @ 11:00 am
Speaking of ‘teh gheys’…
For the Harry Potter fans:
The school headmaster is officially gay.
October 22, 2007 @ 11:12 am
Donnie McClurkin is fooling himself and i’m happy that the Wiz came out
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But your girl is selling herself short- love and committment get you the WHOLE paycheck, not just 2 grand a week…it’s not a trend, but it kind of is. I hate to say it, but both men and women act like money makes people replaceable- “oh, you’re gonna question me or ask me for something I don’t want to give; I can just buy another chick just like you.”
It’s okay to fuck somebody else as long as I’m the one getting paid? Has she never heard of STD’s? Fuck a paycheck- if I’m standing in line behind Paris Hilton for some Valtrex cause that nigga got caught up, I’m not happy.
October 22, 2007 @ 11:14 am
I heard about the Donnie thing but I thought it was a rumor or joke. The fact that its not makes me really happy that the “ministry” hasn’t brainwashed me.
As far as the money and the chick, I hate a dependent ass broad. I’d run thru her if I had to but I can’t take “dependant” women seriously. It’ll never get passed the bedroom and might not even get that far if she is that “dependant”.
October 22, 2007 @ 11:16 am
cec Says:
October 22nd, 2007 at 10:50 am e
LMAO
U know what i mean willy..DAMNIT! Im just not about to a price tag on my dignity …im sorry
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I can… the stock market is crashing….
October 22, 2007 @ 11:19 am
My new beef is:
Why are women with boyfriends, all secretive about the shit?
Cuz wouldn’t ya’ll as females be pissed if your man was runnin around chattin it up wit broads like you don’t exist? Never mentioning you. Not just in the initial conversation, but on multiple conversations?
Sneaky ass broads.
October 22, 2007 @ 11:21 am
And a big….
…. no niggas goin to gay bars for shots… :sad:
But niggas get ass rammed in the pen and come home actin like all they did was sip kool aid and watch Rap City so who knows.
Its not even worth the risk of somebody seeing you comin outta there and having to explain…
October 22, 2007 @ 11:24 am
willyjsimmons Says:
October 22nd, 2007 at 11:19 am e
My new beef is:
Why are women with boyfriends, all secretive about the shit?
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Does it really matter if she is gonna do you regardless ???
I don’t even ask that question anymore because I am interested in me and you, not you and him or her. If she loves the nigga that muck to let me know than so be it. But I’ve learned that the less questions asked, the better.
But some dudes might want to reconsider that if they ever plan on staying at her crib because that can lead to a crazy situation if he shows up a la R.Kelly and his closet tales.
October 22, 2007 @ 11:25 am
‘no niggas goin to gay bars for shots…’
To repeat:
No one here went to a gay bar for shots.
The devil is in the details people.
October 22, 2007 @ 11:27 am
‘Does it really matter if she is gonna do you regardless ???’
No, but why not be up front about it?
Why the need to not speak on it until I see you with an engagement ring on?
October 22, 2007 @ 11:30 am
Shout out to M.I.A’s daddy
http://talkingpointsmemo.com/news/2007/10/tamil_tigers_bomb_sri_lankan_b.php
October 22, 2007 @ 11:40 am
My bad Willy…. thats how rumors start…lol.
I guess it all depends on the relationship and where you want it to go. When I first meet a chick, I am interested in her, not her man so its not even a topic uless she brings it up or ir it gets to a place where it even matters. Honestly, I’d rather you have a man because then I know EXACTLY where I fit in.
October 22, 2007 @ 11:42 am
‘My bad Willy…. thats how rumors start…lol.’
LMAO!
It’s just crazy to me how females roll like that, knowing that a man who went around doing the same thing we be considered ‘tryin to cheat’ or a ‘dog’.
October 22, 2007 @ 12:04 pm
At the end of the day, its all about what a person wants and prefers so if there is a man out there that fits her needs and she fits his… who am I to judge ?
The same goes for interracial relationships. There are people out there that are just as dependant emotionally on someone as others are financially, and that is a self esteem issue just as much as the money situation is. People should start doing what makes them happy because that’s the goal anyway. If you wanna fuck midgets dipped in butter… go ahead if it makes you happy.
But don’t come knocking on my door when your cholesterol gets outta control…
“Cop a bean…. do a line….. bite down”…
October 22, 2007 @ 12:46 pm
sidebar:
The ‘I didn’t have my phone’ excuse is for MEN ONLY…
get ur own lies women!
October 22, 2007 @ 1:09 pm
Dont get it twisted, if you just fuckin wit somebody and they hookin you up in the process, paying shit for you, keepin you dipped and what not, I am not mad at you. Thats a perfectly good symbiotic relationship LOL. But when somebody is supposed to be in a relationship - especially one where you are suppose to be getting married - thats not good enough. Im not even gon judge ole girl, but to me its just sad that a lotta women dont see how that is a form of settling. But shit is really that bad out here. Women rather take the money and justify the nonsense, than wait for someone real to come along cause they dont think its gonna happen.
I agree. If i fucked u last nite and u happen to see im outta capn crunch ..ok buy it…if u happen to see a big ole disco letter on my coffee table from rge and wanna pay it ok cool…but u my man and we getting married and u wanna cheat then take ur shit and go.
October 22, 2007 @ 1:11 pm
I say to each his own too, but shit, if thats what you choose to do, call it what it is and stop tryin to front. And dont get mad when the shit blows up in your face - and it always does. Thats all Im sayin.
Willy, you right, thats shady to not mention having a man. Does it need to be the first thing out of her mouth - no. But when you see the conversation going toward some ‘whats up wit me and you’ type shit, it needs to be said. If a nigga dont give a fuck that you got a man, then fine, but at least you told him and gave him the opportunity to make an ‘informed decision’ LOL. Truth is, a lotta folks out here really dont care if you got somebody, but let em know so when the shit hits the fan you can say they knew what they were getting into.
October 22, 2007 @ 1:11 pm
Why are women with boyfriends, all secretive about the shit?
Cuz wouldn’t ya’ll as females be pissed if your man was runnin around chattin it up wit broads like you don’t exist? Never mentioning you. Not just in the initial conversation, but on multiple conversations?
Yes! Nigga u better claim me…im cute. Im not saying go get tshirts and buttons whith our face all over it but i better hear u tell someone im yours…or just like u….i can act like im not 2.
October 22, 2007 @ 1:27 pm
Thank u ladies…
cuz this shit has happened to me several times already.
And I know these broads understand I’m not tryin to get invited to one of their candle parties.
October 22, 2007 @ 1:32 pm
Naw, cec…for me, you pretend to be single and unatattched- then you are. I don’t have time for the “revenge fuck.” I’m just letting you go, and smacking myself in the forehead for landing in the Jumpoff Zone if that’s not what I wanted.
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Yes! Nigga u better claim me…im cute. Im not saying go get tshirts and buttons whith our face all over it but i better hear u tell someone im yours…or just like u….i can act like im not 2.
October 22, 2007 @ 1:32 pm
And I know these broads understand I’m not tryin to get invited to one of their candle parties
October 22, 2007 @ 1:36 pm
But I’m still gonna see M.I.A when she comes here lol- I love her crazy ass.
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Shout out to M.I.A’s daddy
October 22, 2007 @ 1:39 pm
‘But I’m still gonna see M.I.A when she comes here lol- I love her crazy ass.’
LMAO!
I’m jealous.
And you’re tryin to go to Sri Lanka jae??
Ol world travelin ass.
October 22, 2007 @ 1:39 pm
Naw, cec…for me, you pretend to be single and unatattched- then you are. I don’t have time for the “revenge fuck.” I’m just letting you go, and smacking myself in the forehead for landing in the Jumpoff Zone if that’s not what I wanted.
(thinking it over and rubbing chin) ok i can agree with that. LOL Especially if ive made it clear to you that i dont want to be J.O material LOL
October 22, 2007 @ 1:43 pm
Man, i was on Bird Flu for a MINUTE…love that song.- have you heard it? But yeah, I’ve officially committed to going, so we all could get a charter flight- i have a wedding to go to- the hubby’s manwhore cousin has finally found the woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with lol.
C’mon- you acting like a sista can’t have a few stamps in the passport lol. We do go places other than Jamaica and Barbados.
October 22, 2007 @ 1:46 pm
Whats wrong with an occasional jumpoff ??
It keeps things balanced….
October 22, 2007 @ 1:46 pm
‘Especially if ive made it clear to you that i dont want to be J.O material LOL’
You will NOT abbreviate jumpoff, LOL.
October 22, 2007 @ 1:47 pm
Whats wrong with an occasional jumpoff ??
absoultely nothing…when the 2 parties agree that that is each others role.
October 22, 2007 @ 1:54 pm
Cec - get out my head LOL.
October 22, 2007 @ 1:54 pm
There’s nothing wrong with it if you wanna play that role lol…i’m just saying, if that ain’t where you wanna beeeeeeeeeeeeeeee (/keyshia), then mayhaps you best leave the nigga alone, instead of trying to “play him back”, since that pretty much won’t work since he’s just shown he doesnt really give a damn about you….knawaaamean?
October 22, 2007 @ 1:56 pm
Do we really have to “agree” because roles will not be DISCUSSED at least until post jumpoff ?
Some women don’t even realize that they slim down their chances of a dude takin them serious by 73% when they “jumpoff”.
October 22, 2007 @ 1:58 pm
@jae
I went and bought the CD day one! (well, day two, cuz shopko’s punk asses ain’t have it, and I had to bowl that day).
Loves it.
‘We do go places other than Jamaica and Barbados.’
Liar.
October 22, 2007 @ 1:58 pm
There have been times where I have met a nice young lady and she spoils it all by giving me the goods on the first night. Now I gotta treat her like a prosty just because she jumpedoff. First impressions are muhphucker.
October 22, 2007 @ 2:05 pm
Cec - get out my head LOL
My bad..im exiting now LMAO
October 22, 2007 @ 2:09 pm
I really don’t understand men sometimes…they want somebody to fuck like a pro, but apparently they want them to have learned the shit at workshops or reading books…god forbid they fuck somebody just because they want to…
October 22, 2007 @ 2:09 pm
Ihadno: I think the point is if Im your girl, you cant treat me like some jumpoff, you need to be reppin. If we meet and just kick it and neither of us have any expectation of commitment (although its always best to actually discuss it so there is no misunderstanding) then the assumption ought to be that yall just fuckin.
October 22, 2007 @ 2:11 pm
Jaeda: LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
October 22, 2007 @ 2:18 pm
I’m sayin, Dig…it takes 1000 hours of training just to be able to do HAIR- you’d think a man would appreciate the effort, the DEDICATION…. lol.
October 22, 2007 @ 2:20 pm
I got a question.
Why in the hell do niggas think they are entitled to shit?
You been MIA for however long, and here you come, making requests like you just know you got it like that and having an attitude when they arent honored.
Newsflash: LIKE expires. Niggas is way past the due date tryna get back on the shelf, WTF????
October 22, 2007 @ 2:20 pm
jaedalaurez Says:
October 22nd, 2007 at 2:09 pm e
I really don’t understand men sometimes…they want somebody to fuck like a pro, but apparently they want them to have learned the shit at workshops or reading books…god forbid they fuck somebody just because they want to…
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But fucking like a “pro” doesn’t always mean you gotta fuck every nigga that walks by with some crisp timbs..lol. And if you a broad that can’t fuck, and you keep on fucking dudes that can’t fuck, all you gonna learn is how not to fuck right…lol
Thats why for $59.95, you can learn how to fuck from me…lol. And there is a money back garuntee (fuck that word)if you aren’t satified so its risk free…lol.
But there is a fine line between “experienced” and “whoring”.
October 22, 2007 @ 2:20 pm
‘god forbid they fuck somebody just because they want to…’
Something tells me, this is the PERFECT time for me to go to lunch…
Buh-Bye!
October 22, 2007 @ 2:21 pm
I’m sayin, Dig…it takes 1000 hours of training just to be able to do HAIR- you’d think a man would appreciate the effort, the DEDICATION…. lol.
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LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
October 22, 2007 @ 2:22 pm
‘LIKE expires. Niggas is way past the due date tryna get back on the shelf, WTF????’
Wait…wait…
NOW is the perfect time for me to bounce.
October 22, 2007 @ 2:24 pm
October 22, 2007 @ 2:31 pm
no, you don’t fuck every nigga that walks by in crisp timbs lmao, but if a chick decides that she feels like fucking you on the first date, why she gotta be treated like a prosty? Especially since up until then, you felt she was a “nice young lady?” It seems as women, we are considered incapable of enjoying a good stiff dick (or “cock’ if you roll that way lol- you know white boys love to say cock) AND being a lady.
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But fucking like a “pro” doesn’t always mean you gotta fuck every nigga that walks by with some crisp timbs..lol. And if you a broad that can’t fuck, and you keep on fucking dudes that can’t fuck, all you gonna learn is how not to fuck right…lol
Thats why for $59.95, you can learn how to fuck from me…lol. And there is a money back garuntee (fuck that word)if you aren’t satified so its risk free…lol.
But there is a fine line between “experienced” and “whoring”.
October 22, 2007 @ 2:37 pm
no, you don’t fuck every nigga that walks by in crisp timbs lmao, but if a chick decides that she feels like fucking you on the first date, why she gotta be treated like a prosty? Especially since up until then, you felt she was a “nice young lady?” It seems as women, we are considered incapable of enjoying a good stiff dick (or “cock’ if you roll that way lol- you know white boys love to say cock) AND being a lady.
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Especially since I do recall a blog conversation where yall was sayin women need to stop trippin cause yall know we want it as bad as yall and we just hold out cause we dont want yall to look at us like sluts. Yall beat us in the head about yall respect a woman that just goes for hers without playin ‘the games’ and how yall aint gon think less of her if she go out like that the first time? But now the truth comes out, LOL.
October 22, 2007 @ 2:42 pm
I admit there is a double standard but its the world we live in…. but first impressions are everything. You can enjoy a stiff one and still be a lady, but you can’t do jumpoff shit and expect wifey treatment. There are many times I want to invite a chick back to my spot after the first night but sometimes I’ll fall back because I don’t want to give her the IMPRESSION that I am a low life. Giving it up on the first night may not get you out of the rotation but it will hurt your evaluation.
October 22, 2007 @ 2:43 pm
Now IHNC
U flip flopping cause i do recall the convo that Dig is mentioning and u were one of the main guys saying the opposite of what u saying now.
October 22, 2007 @ 2:46 pm
ihadno: I dont know that that is ALWAYS the case, but I can respect that you feel like that. I think a good percentage of yall feel that way. But some men actually do respect a woman just being like fuck it, this is what I wanna do right now. Thats why I agreed with yall when yall said it shouldnt matter that day
October 22, 2007 @ 2:48 pm
@Dig…
It all depends on how you feel about that person. Sometimes you can care less how they feel when they walk away and there are times you wanna give a chick the best impression of yourself.
October 22, 2007 @ 2:48 pm
Yea cause sometimes…thats all yall gon be to us…Jumpoff. U may be thinking one thing but i could be thinking damnit its been a minute, i dont want nothing more but to bust me a quick nut right now. Or im climbing a tower
October 22, 2007 @ 2:52 pm
cec Says:
October 22nd, 2007 at 2:43 pm e
Now IHNC
U flip flopping cause i do recall the convo that Dig is mentioning and u were one of the main guys saying the opposite of what u saying now.
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Yall should know that I don’t lump all women in the same group. I might go out with the mission to bring a chick back home but there are many times where that doesn’t even cross my mind because she doesn’t give that vibe. My issue is when a chick comes into your bedroom and is all over the bed with her shoes and socks off and all she wants to do is “watch TV”… as if there isn’t a big ass TV in the living room where we can do that. Its about sending “mixed messages”. Its all relative.
October 22, 2007 @ 2:54 pm
Ihadno: I dont know cause it takes a HELL of a lot for me to even have the THOUGHT of gettin with someone the first date, let alone doing it. But if I decided that’s what I wanted, Im not gon be a bobblehead about it, but Ima do me. I’ve hooked up with a guy the first night we went out (not to be confused with the first night I met him LOL) and we broke my “3 months then delete him from my phone” record, LOL. To this day he’s tryna weasel his way back in. It just aint happenin.
Point being, I can make a mature decision as a woman that Im gonna do that, and not alter your perception of me. I think its not so much in what you do, but the WAY you do it.
October 22, 2007 @ 2:59 pm
I’ve been “dating” a chick for about 2 months that I havenot even slept with… well…. not all the way….. I mean…. its a long story..lol. Anyways… She had one of those “female surgeries” and can’t get banged for like 6 to 8 weeks. I even took 2 days off from work to stay with her at the hospital and she stayed at my place that weekend because there was no one home to help her since she had to be on bedrest for the most part. I know for a fact that I would not have done all of that for her had she given it up the first night or did some other whorelike act. Its all relative to the person in question because not every situation is the same.
October 22, 2007 @ 3:05 pm
Point being, I can make a mature decision as a woman that Im gonna do that, and not alter your perception of me. I think its not so much in what you do, but the WAY you do it.\
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There you have it. Sometimes the feelings are so strong between 2 people that it doesn’t matter when but you can tell when its a jumpoff or when there are real feeling behind it. The chick that I mentioned above manages to keep me in the fetal position without sex so that just gets a nigga giddy when he looks toward the future…lol.
I don’t know why I let this story out the bag…lol.
October 22, 2007 @ 3:08 pm
Right every situation aint the same. Thats my point. The way women’s minds work, it takes a secure woman to be able to do that the first date and maintain her integrity about it. That same kinda woman would likely be the type that can catch you sleepin just cause she aint what you use to. Cause a man will be down regardless. For most women, they gotta really be feeling you ON TOP OF being attracted to you or needing some dick in order to do that. (Ho’s and sluts sold separately LOL)
October 22, 2007 @ 3:17 pm
Lawd I’m glad I left…
:arrow:
‘I don’t know why I let this story out the bag…lol.’
LMAOOOOOOO!
**consulting MAN COUNCIL field manual**
October 22, 2007 @ 3:25 pm
Even I will openly admit that I am a sucker for love ass nigga. I’ve said it before. I am just picky about it. If I run across 50 women, 47 of them will get treated like dirt and the other three get to draw straws to see who gets the best of me…lol.
I ain’t ashamed to admit it either becuase EVERYBODY is a sucker for love one way or another. I am just a brute about it…
October 22, 2007 @ 3:26 pm
Goddman… Willy is gonna bury me on this one…
Thats it… no more “revelations”…lol.
October 22, 2007 @ 3:32 pm
ok im out yall…peace!
October 22, 2007 @ 3:39 pm
Trade.Secrets.
I’ma have to close comments on this post.
October 22, 2007 @ 3:46 pm
LMAO!
Hey I already knew about all that.
But he went open mic on a bitch just now
October 22, 2007 @ 4:02 pm
‘But he went open mic on a bitch just now’
LMAO!
Russell Simmons on line 2.
October 22, 2007 @ 4:10 pm
But he went open mic on a bitch just now’
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Yeah …. yeah…. I just realized that…
I did it last week with fruit roll up pants and now this….
This is where my brutal honesty gets me into trouble.
October 22, 2007 @ 4:12 pm
‘I did it last week with fruit roll up pants and now this…’
And don’t EVER think we’re gonna forget about them damn pants either.
EVA!!!
October 22, 2007 @ 4:17 pm
@Willy….
They honestly were hot at the time…
I am so glad that I don’t wear “dress” clothes anymore.
October 22, 2007 @ 4:18 pm
‘I am so glad that I don’t wear “dress” clothes anymore.’