Had another one of my ‘better off not knowing‘ moments again.
Niggaz just never learn!
Sohh…
Operation Fuck-This-Bitch is in full effect.
Pray for me. I think I’ll need it. 
July 26, 2007
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July 26, 2007 @ 4:32 pm
what happend?
July 26, 2007 @ 5:56 pm
Da hell????
July 26, 2007 @ 6:04 pm
I’ma answer in the form of a question…
If a person breaks up with you because they feel like they’ve ‘lost themselves’ being in a relationship…
how long does it take to ‘find yourself’ before you get involved wit someone else?
I’m not even gone get into my ‘He-Man Woman Haters Club’ mode.
I just find the shit rather ‘funny’.
July 26, 2007 @ 6:05 pm
correction:
‘funny’ might not even be the word…
lemme smoke something and come up wit something better.
July 26, 2007 @ 7:09 pm
I feel you dawg.
I feel about ‘finding yourself’ the way you feel about ‘growing together’ LOL.
[insert stern face here]
July 27, 2007 @ 7:41 am
I don’t even know the back story to this shit here. But I’m goin tell you like this willyj, and I know some females goin hate this. BUT from MY experiences, the best thing to do with women is invest no emotion into them. They’re going to do shit like ‘find themselves’. Too bad it’s going to always be at your expense.
Fuck em and duck em. Never trust em. And if at all possible, please don’t love em.
July 27, 2007 @ 8:51 am
‘Fuck em and duck em. Never trust em. And if at all possible, please don’t love em.’
Now how bout I’ma get this tatted.
You just earned a merit badge my friend.
‘I feel about ‘finding yourself’ the way you feel about ‘growing together’ LOL.’
Lucious…
**remember I got a brass waterbed, and KBs!!!!**
July 27, 2007 @ 8:59 am
Okay, our network might be a lil slow this morning…
but I fixed the comment box so it doesn’t turn white when trying to add a comment…
give and take people.
July 27, 2007 @ 9:02 am
Willy
Easy come easy go…. But just dont let it shake you homie.
July 27, 2007 @ 9:03 am
I also fixed the double search box mess for IE users.
July 27, 2007 @ 9:05 am
‘But just dont let it shake you homie.’
I know…I shouldn’t…
I don’t know where I lost my ‘cold heartedness’.
It’s like, you try to NOT be a ‘dog’ and it blows up in your face.
July 27, 2007 @ 9:07 am
I think some booty pics will cheer me up.
:!:
July 27, 2007 @ 9:10 am
**remember I got a brass waterbed, and KBs!!!!**
HAHAHAHAHA. Duly noted.
‘It’s like, you try to NOT be a ‘dog’ and it blows up in your face.’
Been there too. I was just talkin bout that on here a couple weeks ago. Like whats the point?
July 27, 2007 @ 9:11 am
‘Like whats the point?’
July 27, 2007 @ 9:12 am
Man it doesnt matter if you’re a dog or not…
When you get caught up…its a Muthafukka
July 27, 2007 @ 9:17 am
You need some couch time, Willy? I got a 12:15 open and 3:30 open. Which one’s best for you? LOL
July 27, 2007 @ 9:17 am
‘dog’ as in…
I coulda left HER ass a long time ago (with all the grief she was supplyin)…if I had ‘let the dog out’.
(Um…no BAHA MEN)
July 27, 2007 @ 9:18 am
‘Which one’s best for you?’
3:30
I’ll be high by then.
July 27, 2007 @ 9:24 am
HAHAHAHA….. ok. *penciling you in*
Really doe, its natural to feel slighted even after the fact. Dont kick yourself, just acknowledge that is only feelings and the situation is what it is. She’s black history and you’re moving on.
July 27, 2007 @ 9:25 am
hahahaha @ no Baha Men
Willyj, I can relate homie. Trust me. All the pussy that gets thrown at you and you’re sitting there being faithful to some ungrateful ass broad. *shakes head in disgust*
‘Pulverize the pussy, then proceed to pimp on.’-Motto for Winter 07.
July 27, 2007 @ 9:28 am
Yeah, by early next week I should be over it…
got a fish on the hook.
But I’m tryin to play it cool.
July 27, 2007 @ 9:29 am
‘Pulverize the pussy, then proceed to pimp on.’-Motto for Winter 07.
Damn…
Sad but true….
July 27, 2007 @ 9:33 am
got a fish on the hook.
Ahhh… The ole “best way to get over a broad is to get on top of another one” routine…. very good sir.
July 27, 2007 @ 9:37 am
‘very good sir.’
Pray for me.
She’s the fine-fine one too.
July 27, 2007 @ 9:40 am
Good shit dawg…. All well that ends well.
July 27, 2007 @ 9:40 am
‘All the pussy that gets thrown at you and you’re sitting there being faithful to some ungrateful ass broad.’
I can relate to that ….. minus the pussy
Insert ‘dick’ and ‘nigga’ and Im wit you, son.
July 27, 2007 @ 9:43 am
‘Insert ‘dick’ and ‘nigga’ and Im wit you, son.’
Okay…
I’m not really shocked.
July 27, 2007 @ 9:47 am
I’m not your son dig!
[insert mad fuck you smiley]
July 27, 2007 @ 9:49 am
I know you not, hahaha, you shouldnt be. I mean we go thru the same things. We put in a lot of unappreciated fucken time and energy just like a lotta yall do.
July 27, 2007 @ 9:49 am
‘I’m not your son dig!’
*staring at the camera*
*SMH*
July 27, 2007 @ 10:02 am
Where is this camera you constantly stare at?
And I know niggaz give y’all a lot of grief. I know this. But y’all females are just cutthroat with it.
No shame whatsoever.
July 27, 2007 @ 10:02 am
‘We put in a lot of unappreciated fucken time and energy just like a lotta yall do.’
I was talkin about your nastiness Lucious…
Let’s not break into Cherish right now.
July 27, 2007 @ 10:02 am
Damn Willy ….. sorry to hear that…..
Think of it as a release from a bad contract. Now you are a free agent able to sign anywhere you please. The GM was misleading with reason why they wanted to release you so now you know better to be about YOUR BUSINESS and not let the love for the game blind you. Hopefully, your new team will have better practice facilities and fan base. Their uniform might be better and their arena might be better also….
The games you play should be a lot more competitive and you might even enjoy a lot of overtime sessions while your last team goes through a barrage of bad free agent signing eventually landing them in last place with the highest payroll in the league….
July 27, 2007 @ 10:05 am
LMAO @ihadno
‘your last team goes through a barrage of bad free agent signing eventually landing them in last place with the highest payroll in the league…’
WOOOO!
That cheers me up.
July 27, 2007 @ 10:06 am
‘Their uniform might be better’
July 27, 2007 @ 10:06 am
But a lot of shit that niggas do is very obvious. Yall are just too dipped in the dick to know better until it comes crashing down on you. Why does a nigga have to smell like another bitch twice ? He should have been out on his ass after the first time. Let a bitch come into my house smelling like another nigga balls and see if she will ever see my nutsack again. A dude can be with a broad and she just dumps him out of left field for no apparent reason. At least when we dump yall, yall know its because of that other bitch that was calling. Yall don’t even lead up to the ending…
July 27, 2007 @ 10:13 am
@Willy…
I got shitted on like that early in the game and it changed my whole mind state for the better. I am gald it happened when I was younger because it saved me a alot of bullshit now. But that same broad that broke my heart is basically a bum bitch. Got 3 kids and still letting her loose belly jiggle at the club…. now I look back and wonder what would life had been like had I been one of those baby daddies (she ain’t the only one either… I dodged a lot of bullets) …
Everything happens for a reason.
July 27, 2007 @ 10:13 am
Good analogy ihadnochoice.
Free agency UP!
July 27, 2007 @ 10:14 am
Willy, I was just sayin, no pun intended LOL.
Ihadno: It aint even that deep. It aint always got nothing to do with other women, some of yall just dont know how to appreciate when you got a good thing but then wanna complain about the scallywags ya run up on. Its day to day shit Im talkin bout, not trainwreck shit.
July 27, 2007 @ 10:16 am
Thats why Im not down with the closeness right now… Ill take you out..BUT everything is at arms lenght.
July 27, 2007 @ 10:17 am
‘no pun intended LOL’
MMMMMMM HMMMMMMMM!
July 27, 2007 @ 10:21 am
Damn ihadnochoice. I feel the same way.
The bitch who crossed me up has HIV now. AND she’s pregnant. I shake my head and mockingly laugh at the bitch homie.
CHEVY…ALWAYS…WIN.
July 27, 2007 @ 10:22 am
@Dig…
You right about that. Take people for granted usually sets off the breakup. Thats just a sign that yall ain’t right for each other. People don’t realize that there are 5 billion people on this earth and meeting a perfect match is like hitting the fucking lotto. You could meet somebody that you think that you love the shit out of and 6 years later you are wondering was it really love because you just fucked a broad 2 nights ago that you could have easily traded her in for. Thats why I just go about my business and meet women how i meet em with no expectations at all. I still think that I love the shit outta my ex but the fact that I was constantly thinking about or actually cheating on her just lead me to realize that we weren’t the “ones” for each other. Some people just like having their cake and eating it and I’ve always wondered what the fuck was wrong with that ?
July 27, 2007 @ 10:22 am
‘CHEVY…ALWAYS…WIN.’
July 27, 2007 @ 10:28 am
Ihadno: You right about that. You can love the hell outta each other and it wont be enough. Love aint got shit to do with it. All love does is make you wonder how a bitch got with somebody else so fast after yall broke up or why a nigga dont email you every day no more. Thats the bullshit I dont even need right now.
Frankly, I think Im off the market for good. I really hate to say it, but I really do believe it.
July 27, 2007 @ 10:29 am
‘The bitch who crossed me up has HIV now. AND she’s pregnant.’
July 27, 2007 @ 10:30 am
Maybe its just me but in EVERY relationship someone is gonna feel like they’re being taken for granted or feel like they’re being used… Its just common to where one person out of the two is gonna feel that way. Its all about what you can and cant deal with.
July 27, 2007 @ 10:30 am
I don’t really care about the breakup. I’m just mad about that time that’s lost. That’s my biggest hang-up.
July 27, 2007 @ 10:34 am
CJP - I disagree. In some relationships both people are very appreciative but there is a whole lot of other shit going on that makes it impossible to stay together.
July 27, 2007 @ 10:36 am
Ima let yall have this one though, cause I aint really tryna peel no scabs…
July 27, 2007 @ 10:37 am
‘Love aint got shit to do with it.’
alright Anna Mae…
July 27, 2007 @ 10:37 am
willyjsimmons Says:
July 26th, 2007 at 6:04 pm e
I’ma answer in the form of a question…
If a person breaks up with you because they feel like they’ve ‘lost themselves’ being in a relationship…
how long does it take to ‘find yourself’ before you get involved wit someone else?
—————
Jus so Im clear before I comment
So your sayin yall broke up not to long ago and she gave you I need to find myself as an excuse and she wifed up wit some one else now
July 27, 2007 @ 10:39 am
I hear ya… But from what I have seen and heard from people in relationships. Some one always feels like they got the short end of the stick…. Other shit is other shit.
July 27, 2007 @ 10:39 am
I’m just mad about that time that’s lost. That’s my biggest hang-up.
——-
@CHEVY
Totally relate
mine was 5yrs
do you know how much psy I missed out on
when I look back at all the chicks I cut off for my ex
OMG!!!!!!
Its enough to make u have a nervous breakdown
July 27, 2007 @ 10:41 am
’cause I aint really tryna peel no scabs…’
My thing is:
She tried to claim the reason she ‘wasn’t happy’, was because she felt she was trying to ‘make me happy’ and I wasn’t cooperating with HER plans.(then I hear through the grapevine, that it was because I was supposedly keeping her from her ‘dreams’ etc. etc. I was holding HER back.)
I’ma fuck around a write a horrible rap song about her.
July 27, 2007 @ 10:44 am
Willy,
Yeah and that mighta been true but that aint got shit to do with ‘finding herself.’ Want me to slap her for you? I swear I will, LOL.
July 27, 2007 @ 10:44 am
mine was 5yrs
do you know how much psy I missed out on
when I look back at all the chicks I cut off for my ex
OMG!!!!!!
Its enough to make u have a nervous breakdown
———————————————-
But isnt what that shit is all about the risk….We take them everyday. When you put yourself out there shit like that happens. Now…. Im with yall it totally fucks you up…But those are the chances we take.
July 27, 2007 @ 10:44 am
‘I’ma fuck around a write a horrible rap song about her.’
Oh you should see MY ‘Digfiles’ folder
July 27, 2007 @ 10:46 am
‘So your sayin yall broke up not to long ago and she gave you I need to find myself as an excuse and she wifed up wit some one else now’
Pretty much…
and not just ‘now’.
It would appear they’ve BEEN involved for a minute already.(since May, she left in Feb)
She met this dude while we were together I’m guessing.(I’m not accusing her of cheating, but hell you never know)
Another joke, because I let her go where ever the fuck she wanted and didn’t tag along, stay at her girlfriend’s overnight and all that, never heard a peep outta me, but yet I’m ‘holding her back’.
July 27, 2007 @ 10:47 am
then I hear through the grapevine, that it was because I was supposedly keeping her from her ‘dreams’ etc. etc. I was holding HER back.
Well if that was the case… Its best you’re not together. If she really felt like that and stayed with you she might have ended up resenting you for it… But she could have just told you that as well.
July 27, 2007 @ 10:48 am
‘Want me to slap her for you? I swear I will, LOL.’
Don’t play…
I will put a ticket on the credit card in a heartbeat.
July 27, 2007 @ 10:48 am
Oh you should see MY ‘Digfiles’ folder
——–
Damn Dig
don’t tell me your wrote a RMX called Ngz ain’t shit but ho’s and tricks
July 27, 2007 @ 10:54 am
‘But she could have just told you that as well.’
That’s really my hangup…
what part is the ‘truth’, and what is total bullshit.
Being together for 4 years, going through what we went through together…I would expect the truth.
I never cheated. Didn’t lay a hand on her. Was as ’supportive’ as can be in terms of her shit…
And a bitch wants to turn around and feed me some bullshit reasoning…
I can accept ‘I just don’t love you anymore’.
Fine.
But to lie to my damn face is a fuckin insult in my mind. I don’t think I deserved that.
If I wasn’t the ‘Best Boyfriend Ever’…I sure as fuck didn’t expect to be kicked to the side like it happened.(Thursday she’s beggin ME to stay, Tuesday she sneak moves out)
July 27, 2007 @ 10:55 am
Another joke, because I let her go where ever the fuck she wanted and didn’t tag along, stay at her girlfriend’s overnight and all that, never heard a peep outta me, but yet I’m ‘holding her back’
Wait a minute I didnt know another dude was involved… Damn that shit must be going around. I got a call from my Half bro the other night. He was talking about how this chick that he had a kid with (that just might not be his) is getting married to a dude she use to fuck with. Now when the groom to be was in the Pen she never said anything about the kid not being his but as soon as he gets out it like Now she not sure… Willy homie the best that girl ever did for you was leave…Just think homie shit could be worst. Now she’s that other dudes problem.
July 27, 2007 @ 10:58 am
Also to what you said cjp:
A lot of it centered around moving out of state.
The whole ‘If you ‘really’ loved me you would move away with me’
The idea that I wouldn’t give a 100% yes to following her out of state…
and now guess what…
BITCH DONE TOOK THE FUCKIN POLICE TEST TO JOIN THE FUCKING FORCE!
How the FUCK are you making ‘big plans’ to leave Nebraska and fulfill your ‘big dreams’, and NOW you wanna join the fuckin police force?
July 27, 2007 @ 10:59 am
willyj:
That’s terrible. So I can respect your train of thought bout that. But I think I got an even more dumb bitch than you did.
How about finding out that your girl was pregnant with twins and got an abortion and didn’t tell you shit. You never knew she was pregnant or nothing. You find out 2 years later. That’s terrible.
But fuck her. She’s dying slowly as we speak.
July 27, 2007 @ 11:05 am
But fuck her. She’s dying slowly as we speak.
Damn Chevy thats fucked up right there….
July 27, 2007 @ 11:06 am
‘You never knew she was pregnant or nothing.’
That’s fucked up…
July 27, 2007 @ 11:08 am
‘I will put a ticket on the credit card in a heartbeat.’
Lets do it, dawg, I dont have weekend appointments LOL.
‘don’t tell me your wrote a RMX called Ngz ain’t shit but ho’s and tricks’
Something like that
Bottom line though is this: you can fault a person for all the fucked up shit they do and say. But YOU are responsible for how you feel about it.
You just gotta make a conscious decision not to sweat that shit. She doing what she doing, what yall had is over with, and its easier said than done, I know, but its all you can do.
July 27, 2007 @ 11:09 am
damn, we trading war stories…. let me contribute so the ladies dont have to take all the heat (tho gents- y’all got some fucked up points)
how about your first bf cheats on you and names the baby after your brother? and how bout a few years down the line, same sito, but this one is a little girl named after you- first AND middle name and dude decides to try and work sit out with baby mama- she get preggo again and this one has your little sisters name- FIRST AND MIDDLE. after the birth of the second girl, he asks you if you can come with them the next time they take pictures so they can have a picture later in life of the reason they got thier names
July 27, 2007 @ 11:13 am
Pretty much…
and not just ‘now’.
It would appear they’ve BEEN involved for a minute already.(since May, she left in Feb)
She met this dude while we were together I’m guessing.(I’m not accusing her of cheating, but hell you never know)
Another joke, because I let her go where ever the fuck she wanted and didn’t tag along, stay at her girlfriend’s overnight and all that, never heard a peep outta me, but yet I’m ‘holding her back’.
———–
Willy
this is a case of B.B.B.S.
Bird brain Bullshit!
Some good advice I was given by my uncle
is as a man you half to able to learn from the past but move forward and not look back
don’t dwell on it
if anything its jus proof its wasn’t gonna work and its good its over
it sounds like your biggest beef is she wasn’t straight wit you on what the real problem was
but it seems like her mind was made up regardless so its doesn’t matter what her real beef was yall seem to be better off without each other
She got a new man she ain’t thinkin about you so please don’t give her the privilege of thinking about her
thats pretty how I dealt wit my ex
I went through some similar bs
July 27, 2007 @ 11:13 am
@dig
I’m tryin… :cry:
@P
That nigga has problems.
July 27, 2007 @ 11:15 am
Persia
Was that all ONE Dude?
July 27, 2007 @ 11:15 am
‘it sounds like your biggest beef is she wasn’t straight wit you on what the real problem was
but it seems like her mind was made up regardless so its doesn’t matter what her real beef was ‘
Amen, brother. *dabs eye* Amen.
July 27, 2007 @ 11:15 am
persia:
You should put a bullet in that nigga’s ass.
willyj and cjp:
I took me a second to get over it, but I’m good now. She let her freak ass friend talk her into getting an abortion so these two bitches could slut it up in the streets of Savannah.
The reasoning for the abortion is the kicker…..I was about to graduate from college and she didn’t think I would stay with her.
I sat there with her stupid ass for 6 years prior, but this is the best excuse you can come up with.
But I’m good now. CHEVY…ALWAYS…WINS…
July 27, 2007 @ 11:15 am
‘She got a new man she ain’t thinkin about you’
I know…that’s the ‘ouch’.
Like these past 4 years must have been a figment of my imagination.
July 27, 2007 @ 11:17 am
‘The reasoning for the abortion is the kicker…..I was about to graduate from college and she didn’t think I would stay with her.’
Wow.
July 27, 2007 @ 11:19 am
She got a new man she ain’t thinkin about you
I bet she is… Everytime anything goes wrong in her current relationship she’s gonna think about the dude she left behind… No matter whats going on in her life she’s gonna at least have a thought or two about him…especially if he was a good nigga. She’ll try to forget but Karma wont let her.
July 27, 2007 @ 11:19 am
Willy,
Like for real for real…. *pickin a scab*…. thats some hard shit. But there really aint no other way. You can shut off the [emotional] faucet, but by the time you do, you got a sink full of [emotional] water. Cant let that water sit there, right? What you gon do?
*grabbing band-aid* Pull the [emotional] drain plug.
July 27, 2007 @ 11:20 am
The reasoning for the abortion is the kicker…..I was about to graduate from college and she didn’t think I would stay with her.
Dude dont say anymore…That shit right there is making me mad. WTF kinda reasoning is that…Hell naw
July 27, 2007 @ 11:24 am
@dig
LMAO!
I’m trippin off the [emotional].
July 27, 2007 @ 11:25 am
@Persia….
Where did you find that nigga ???
I heard they don’t make that model anymore…lol.
July 27, 2007 @ 11:28 am
‘I’m trippin off the [emotional].’
Im sayin, some people get lost in analogies
July 27, 2007 @ 11:29 am
I heard they don’t make that model anymore…
Fucking Beta Max
July 27, 2007 @ 11:33 am
Speakin of not making that model anymore, I didnt know that they use to make cars so that you could take the key out of the ignition while its running, LOL.
I was driving my little cousin’s old ass Saturn, hit a corner and the keys fucken flew out the ignition and the car kept going. Do you know how bad that shit fucked me up????? LOL
July 27, 2007 @ 11:33 am
Thats why if you live by my “pink” motto… you will never go wrong because in the end…
Its the pink that counts…lol.
What I remember most about most of my relationships is the sex. I could tak shit to any chick… blah blah fuicking blah…
But when you knee deep into some cooch, you ain’t thinking about a bitch and her problems., you ain’t thinking about bills, you ain’t even thinking about that next drink or that next blunt, its all about that pink….
You can careless about her future plans or her growth as an idividual or how you have stunted it.
Those are the moment I live for. 24 hrs in a day and all I care about is how those 17 minutes went when the lights were off….
July 27, 2007 @ 11:34 am
She’ll try to forget but Karma wont let her.
———–
Maybe its me
but first I don’t believe in Karma I use to
but I too many people that get over on people
constantly get over on people
and then those that do what their supposed to
struggle and suffer the most
I see so many people sacrifice to no end for other and loved ones
never to get that sht in return
Plus in a case like Willy’s if your relying on Karma to help you move on
your technically not over it or her
because if you were over it
you wouldn’t care you should be too busy doing you
do give a fuck if she’s doing well or worse
Thats why I find some women funny when they brag on their new man and how good they are after a break up.
cause Im like if you feel the need to prove something
your still bitter and not over it as much as you tryin to front.
July 27, 2007 @ 11:35 am
My bad for the long post
but Im speakin from experience
July 27, 2007 @ 11:38 am
I feel you, B. I say let Karma take care of Karma and you take care of you.
July 27, 2007 @ 11:41 am
Dude dont say anymore…That shit right there is making me mad. WTF kinda reasoning is that…Hell naw\
—————-
It prolly was the best reasoning in the world because where would ol Chevy be right now if the scalliwag had his baby ? Most tragedies turn into triumph . My ex got clipped when we were both 18 and we broke up a lil while after that. By the time she was 20 she was prego. She is 28 now and is already divorced and has 3 kids by 2 dudes and had one of them while she was separated from her ex husband. She is a bum bitch and always has been. I am just glad that I didn’t find out later.
July 27, 2007 @ 11:45 am
Banga
In the long run if you are right to people good things will happen for you… Like when my homies call me an talk about problems that they have or even when I have some fucked up shit happen to me… I think back to some shit I’ve done and SMH cause I know certain shit happens to you because of something that you did whether you right or wrong.
July 27, 2007 @ 11:52 am
I think back to some shit I’ve done and SMH cause I know certain shit happens to you because of something that you did whether you right or wrong.
—————–
@cjp
Hey I could be wrong but
I think thats just Life and that People he a inner desire
to find a way to handle their adversities.
I feel like when people can’t find a logical reason or a reason they can handle or accept they use things like Karma to handle why something happens to them.
When people do fucked up sht to you and its to childish for you to respond to. Or you not in a position to get even
Karma makes you feel better.
Whats ill is often people in the wrong will say Karma when they done something fkd up don’t see it that way but get madd when don’t work out how they planned
Jus real talk
sht like this is why I don’t believe in Karma
I used to I don’t now
July 27, 2007 @ 11:54 am
to all- the first boy was one dude, the 2 little girls were a second dude.
and damn it, i’m with y’all- i WISH they didnt make that model anymore
July 27, 2007 @ 11:56 am
Im half wit you, B.
I do believe thats where the concept of Karma came from (people needing to explain away their inability to handle things)….. but I am a strong believer in universal balance. What you do will always come back to you - it might not be immediate, it might not be related to the same aspect of your life, but you will always reap what you sow.
July 27, 2007 @ 11:58 am
HAHAHA @ this nigga calling me ol Chevy
But you right fam. Shit’s way deeper than that, but I charge it to the game everytime I see her. Look at me bitch…I’m fresher than ya baby daddy and I fuck badder bitches than you now.
willyj:
You know how to fuck her world up? Let her see you with a bad bitch. And y’all out chillin. No lovey dovey shit, just out drinking…high as a fuck….you fresh as hell…she sexier than a muthafucka. That shit will crush her world homie.
July 27, 2007 @ 11:58 am
And I’m with you Banga. Fuck Karma.
July 27, 2007 @ 11:59 am
I dont know I just think that the fucked up shit that you do to people comes back on you… I have just seen it happen too many times to people.
July 27, 2007 @ 12:01 pm
‘And I’m with you Banga. Fuck Karma.’
Fuck Karma, but Karma is kickin her ass right now, LOL.
July 27, 2007 @ 12:02 pm
@DIG
I respect that
I want to believe that
but my experiences so far contradict it
maybe my stance will chance but right now
nah
its just life and it is what it is
jus gotta man up and deal wit it and learn from it
when you start sayin Karma
you lose out on a lesson you was supposed to learn from what happened
July 27, 2007 @ 12:02 pm
But you right fam. Shit’s way deeper than that, but I charge it to the game everytime I see her. Look at me bitch…I’m fresher than ya baby daddy and I fuck badder bitches than you now.
And thats not Karma?
July 27, 2007 @ 12:05 pm
Howdy…
July 27, 2007 @ 12:06 pm
‘when you start sayin Karma
you lose out on a lesson you was supposed to learn from what happened’
Not at all. The two have nothing to do with each other. If somebody fucks me over, I know they gonna get theirs in the end. But that doesnt take the responsibility off of me. There are very seldom victims in relationship situations. Cause someone can only do to you what you allow them to.
July 27, 2007 @ 12:07 pm
you lose out on a lesson you was supposed to learn from what happened
Wait a minute… I think yall might be getting me wrong. You can still learn the lesson. Understand what happend to you and Deal with any situation that you have ever been… Still there are consequences for you actions toward people this shit is a circle and what goes around comes around.
July 27, 2007 @ 12:07 pm
Persia Says:
July 27th, 2007 at 11:54 am
to all- the first boy was one dude, the 2 little girls were a second dude.
and damn it, i’m with y’all- i WISH they didnt make that model anymore
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Damn P…
You should go play the lotto because your luck HAS to change after that. I can’t even say that you should have learned from the first one because who in their right minds does some shit like that….
July 27, 2007 @ 12:08 pm
Ummmm, what’s the topic??
July 27, 2007 @ 12:10 pm
dig:
Nah. That ain’t Karma baby. That’s HIV. *self high five*
cjp:
I wouldn’t know what to call it fam. But funny shit, her niece is my goddaughter. So I go round there maybe once a month and drop off diapers and money for my goddaughter. One day, I went round there and it was a house full of bitches. I came in and went silent. So I go in the back bedroom to see my goddaughter. I can hear the broads up there talking, questioning who I was. I can hear one of the broads say who I was. And one of the homegirls said some shit like “You let THAT nigga go? I would’ve did whatever to keep him.” I just smiled to myself. So I’m leaving back out, and all these broads just staring and smiling. I close the door and hear this one chick say “that nigga is cute as hell.” Then the ex comes outside wanting a hug. I gave her the cliff face and told her I didn’t wanna get my white t-shirt dirty…and besides I don’t want your friends to think we’re still fucking round.
The look on her face was priceless…Like she wanted to shed a tear.
Extra Point: I pulled off with the top open jamming Dr. Dre’s “Bitches Ain’t Shit”. *self high five*
July 27, 2007 @ 12:10 pm
I’m fresher than ya baby daddy and I fuck badder bitches than you now.
And thats not Karma?
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No
she could be happy and content
she may have a beautiful kid
she might give it thought but in the end she’s still got someone to go home to if she wit her Baby Daddy
that kinda why I the type not to feel like or care if you know how good Im doing
Like My ex before my last tried to pull that on me
I checked her and said do you know how beautiful my son is
I have no regrets and I don’t think about you nor call you
don’t play yourself frontin cuz
July 27, 2007 @ 12:11 pm
Haze: Right now its Karma … but the main topic is… pretty much comment #3.
July 27, 2007 @ 12:12 pm
Haze Honey Says:
July 27th, 2007 at 12:08 pm e
Ummmm, what’s the topic??
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You’re the topic nigga… now turn around and put this in your mouth…lol
What up ???
July 27, 2007 @ 12:15 pm
ihnc- my ‘luck’ relationships is just fuckked up overall.aint shit changing until i change and i had to learn that was a process that i had to be ACTIVELY engaged in versus just expecting that if i changed what i thought i wanted, ti would fix it. fuck what i think i want.. now i just worry about what i need to do and let the universe come to me (or i try i should say)
July 27, 2007 @ 12:15 pm
I think people expect too much out of people today…the majority of us are shallow and fickle and are out for self…you don’t always get out what you put in…
You take the good with the bad and move on. I’m still friends with ALL OF MY EXES, the ones that cheated, the ones that did me dirty…I could care less…being with them taught me something about men or relationships so all wasn’t lost…
July 27, 2007 @ 12:17 pm
’she could be happy and content
she may have a beautiful kid
she might give it thought but in the end she’s still got someone to go home to if she wit her Baby Daddy’
She’s miserable homie. She has HIV my nigga. No happiness and content with that. The baby daddy is a sorry nigga so she’s gonna be raising a child solo dolo. I wouldn’t call it Karma, just me winning in the end.
July 27, 2007 @ 12:18 pm
You’re the topic nigga… now turn around and put this in your mouth…lol
What up ???
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Naw, get on ya knees first..and say “aaaaaaah” I got a tasty beverage just for you….
July 27, 2007 @ 12:19 pm
I think people expect too much out of people today…the majority of us are shallow and fickle and are out for self…you don’t always get out what you put in…
I like that right there… Well said
July 27, 2007 @ 12:21 pm
I wouldn’t call it Karma, just me winning in the end.
Tomato…Tomoto. Life bit her in the ass after she did you wrong nigga….good shit
July 27, 2007 @ 12:23 pm
@CJP & dig
Much Respect to those points!
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Maybe we jus have a different take on the perception of when Karma is a factor
In that regard I maintain an open mind
take what you say to heart as it hold wieght and makes sense but maintain my current perspective
until I experience otherwise
I jus know too many people that either have everything handed to them or get over at the expense of other people it never gets back to them
and others that are good honest people that have it so hard it ain’t even funny
Kinda falls into the Willy situation where
why do women give good men a hard time and ngz that ain’t sht a pass
how does karma play into that when it happens habitually
and you can say she’ll get hers but thats not always the case
July 27, 2007 @ 12:27 pm
July 27, 2007 @ 12:28 pm
WHY am I working of this fuckin database AGAIN!!!
Carry on…just needed to get that out.
July 27, 2007 @ 12:28 pm
why do women give good men a hard time and ngz that ain’t sht a pass
how does karma play into that when it happens habitually
and you can say she’ll get hers but thats not always the case
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Well you kinda said it right there dawg… the niggas aint shit.
July 27, 2007 @ 12:29 pm
Tomato…Tomoto. Life bit her in the ass after she did you wrong nigga….good shit
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Call it karma, call it whatever you want…you do somebody dirty, and that shit will come back to you…it may not be in the same fashion, but it will come back on you…you reap what you sow believe that!!
July 27, 2007 @ 12:29 pm
I just think people rely on others too much for happiness but who knows what they have been through in life to get them there so I try not to judge. My moms raised me to be very independent to the point where a nigga scrubs his own toilets and tubs so the last thing imma do is RELY on a woman for anything, other than sex. I just really don’t need the headache and I honesly can see myself going until 40 just like this. No kids, no wife… I don’t need it.
B ut some people do and will stop at nothiong to get it. Thats a bad approach to it all.
July 27, 2007 @ 12:32 pm
why do women give good men a hard time and ngz that ain’t sht a pass
how does karma play into that when it happens habitually
and you can say she’ll get hers but thats not always the case
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Some women don’t know how to react to a good man (*raises hand*) some of us are used to assholes, some of us are used to being dogged out, some of us have never seen our mothers in positive relationships (*raises hand*) some of us don’t/didn’t have our fathers to show us an example of how a man is supposed to treat a woman (*raises hand again*)
July 27, 2007 @ 12:33 pm
Ihadno
I feel ya dawg… I can cook and clean my got damn self.
July 27, 2007 @ 12:33 pm
I need you to put your hand down nsite.
July 27, 2007 @ 12:34 pm
just think people rely on others too much for happiness
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DING, DING, DING!!
If you are looking for someone to make you happy, you are setting yourself up!! They should be an ADDITION to your happiness, not the entire make up…its really sad that people go through life like that…
July 27, 2007 @ 12:35 pm
Aight homies… gotta leave whitey plantation on the early…
Its Friday and I am gonna go party here (http://velvetlist.com/ ) (check the Friday Spotlight Live pic link for 7/20) just so yall can have some visuals to work with when I come in here on Monday to talks about all the women I threw boomerangs at and didn’t come back.
Funny though… its getting hard to tell the latinas from the white women…lol.
peace
July 27, 2007 @ 12:36 pm
Some women don’t know how to react to a good man (*raises hand*) some of us are used to assholes, some of us are used to being dogged out, some of us have never seen our mothers in positive relationships (*raises hand*) some of us don’t/didn’t have our fathers to show us an example of how a man is supposed to treat a woman (*raises hand again*)
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Wow YOUR ARE THE FIRST WOMEN TO EVER GIVE A REASON FOR THAT SHT I CAN UNDERSTAND AND RELATE TO.
THANKS :cool:
well said!
July 27, 2007 @ 12:37 pm
Some women don’t know how to react to a good man (*raises hand*) some of us are used to assholes, some of us are used to being dogged out, some of us have never seen our mothers in positive relationships (*raises hand*) some of us don’t/didn’t have our fathers to show us an example of how a man is supposed to treat a woman (*raises hand again*)
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Im glad that came from a woman on here…. dudes talk about that shit all the time. Good shit NSIte
July 27, 2007 @ 12:39 pm
DING, DING, DING!!
If you are looking for someone to make you happy, you are setting yourself up!! They should be an ADDITION to your happiness, not the entire make up…its really sad that people go through life like that…
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I say that I want somebody to be part of my life, not my whole life. Thats what scares me with marriage. Why we gotta do everything as one. Can’t I love and take care of you without forfeiting my identity as a person ?
July 27, 2007 @ 12:46 pm
@ CJP & Banga
Thanks!!
I mean, its the truth…its something thats embedded in your psyche, your subconscience that may not allow you to see or receive what a good man is offering to you…our mothers drill it in our heads from our youth that if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is, or they tell you that no money = no love and you can’t pay ya rent with love, or all kinds of stupid shit that you internalize from your youth…
July 27, 2007 @ 12:50 pm
I say that I want somebody to be part of my life, not my whole life. Thats what scares me with marriage. Why we gotta do everything as one. Can’t I love and take care of you without forfeiting my identity as a person ?
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And that was MY problem with marriage, my husband wanted me to be something I wasn’t…and I couldn’t/wouldn’t comply.
Thats why I’ll never be married again, I have to be true to myself, my happiness is paramount…
July 27, 2007 @ 1:00 pm
@HAZE
gotta give you your props
Men ask this on a reg and most women can’t answer
Its great that your honest enough wit your self and open enough to come out and say why and provide some real N-Site
cause the sht makes obvious sense and its true
well said
cause its obvious the same is true for ngz that ain’t sht or ngz who grew up without a father and need a women to do everything for them!
July 27, 2007 @ 1:22 pm
no money = no love and you can’t pay ya rent with love
Thats my biggest pet peeve right there… I cant stand that shit or women that think that way. Because its really bullshit…
July 27, 2007 @ 1:34 pm
B - I feel you too though. I have seen some fucked up shit happen to real good people so it makes you wonder.
Anyway, I been gone over an hour. I cant believe yall still on topic, ole on-topic-ass niggas
July 27, 2007 @ 2:02 pm
cause its obvious the same is true for ngz that ain’t sht or ngz who grew up without a father and need a women to do everything for them!
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Absolutely.
But when does the cycle end? When do we realize that we may be pushing away the best thing to ever happen to us? When do we realize that shit doesn’t go down like in the movies, where you meet, fall in love and live happily ever after?
Relationships are hard work and require a great deal of patience and understanding…we live in the “microwave age” we want instant gratification and are seldomly prepared or willing to hang in there…
July 27, 2007 @ 2:05 pm
‘Relationships are hard work and require a great deal of patience and understanding…we live in the “microwave age” we want instant gratification and are seldomly prepared or willing to hang in there…’
There it is.
July 27, 2007 @ 2:16 pm
haze- listen here ma’am… i already got dig kickin around in my brain stealin my thoughts like the mind eater people in the twilight zone- i dont need you there too!
July 27, 2007 @ 2:16 pm
July 27, 2007 @ 2:24 pm
‘Relationships are hard work and require a great deal of patience and understanding…we live in the “microwave age” we want instant gratification and are seldomly prepared or willing to hang in there…’
QUOTE OF THE DAY!
Bonus smack on the booty for nsite!