My gf is going on a date and since her "friend" has a boy who is coming from out of town, she asked me to accompany them. Is she obligated to inform dude I'm married prior to the date? Me, I don't care one way or the other- we're "wing people" anyway, so we're not really there as the people trying to hook up, but another one of my boys said that was foul, since he should be "warned" that I'm not on the market before he starts spending….
So I ask- is it wrong?
June 22, 2007 @ 9:21 am
Yeah…you should say something before hand…
dude prolly thinks the jumpoff is about to happen.
June 22, 2007 @ 9:25 am
but why would he assume that, since we’re just going "with" our people? Hell, I don’t even know what he looks like. (not that it would matter, but I’m sayin..)
June 22, 2007 @ 9:27 am
‘but why would he assume that’
jae, jae, jae…
We MEN!
It’s all about the booty baby!
June 22, 2007 @ 9:31 am
Yeah thats wrong right there…. especially if dude is coming from out of town.
Let him know….
June 22, 2007 @ 9:32 am
I have a personality too dammit!
It’s not like I expect him to pay for me- I was planning on bringing money anyway. Sigh- I don’t know why married people miss dating anyway; I’m so glad I’m done lol.
June 22, 2007 @ 9:35 am
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June 22, 2007 @ 9:35 am
Yeah ole boi should not that ain’t nuthing crack-a-lacking…lol
June 22, 2007 @ 9:35 am
cjp:
But he was coming anyway! He didn’t come for me!
So then once he knows I’m married, then what? Do I get to show up in pj’s, flip flops and a ponytail, since I don’t need to look good for him lmao? Does this mean he has the right to ignore me the rest of the night and hit up other chicks, since there’s no chance of hooking up with me?
June 22, 2007 @ 9:37 am
‘I have a personality too dammit!’
Like cjp said.
Whut dude invites a chick out on a date, knowin he’s got people coming into town?
The conversation went like this:
Dude: Yo I’m comin up, what we gone do.
Otherdudue: Shit, I got this new chick I’m tryin to get at.
Dude: She got a friend?
Otherdude: I’m sure.
Dude: JUMPOFF!
June 22, 2007 @ 9:38 am
‘Does this mean he has the right to ignore me the rest of the night and hit up other chicks, since there’s no chance of hooking up with me?’
You expect a single guy, to entertain your married behind?
Women?
June 22, 2007 @ 9:39 am
Sigh- I don’t know why married people miss dating anyway; I’m so glad I’m done lol.
Its the grass is greener concept…
June 22, 2007 @ 9:42 am
You expect a single guy, to entertain your married behind?
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why not? it’s not like we can’t be friendly, just not "friendly" lol. I mean, how hard is it to chill at dinner with somebody?
June 22, 2007 @ 9:43 am
Does this mean he has the right to ignore me the rest of the night and hit up other chicks, since there’s no chance of hooking up with me?
*Ahem
HELLL YEAAAHHHH….. well maybe not ignore you totally but not put too much emphasis on you. What you should do is fine one of your homegirls that love to give it up to help him out…. Its only fair
June 22, 2007 @ 9:45 am
why not? it’s not like we can’t be friendly, just not "friendly" lol. I mean, how hard is it to chill at dinner with somebody?
Very hard if there is nothing in it for us… see us men think totally different that you guys. We do things because there is an ends to it…you guys just do stuff because….thats it because
June 22, 2007 @ 9:46 am
‘I mean, how hard is it to chill at dinner with somebody?’
It’s not…if the other person isn’t happily married.
Now, the ‘nice guy’ that I am, I would ‘take one for the team’ and chat it up.
But I swear, my homeboy would be getting cussed the fuck out.
Then ol boy is gonna cuss your girl out.
June 22, 2007 @ 9:48 am
Now, the ‘nice guy’ that I am, I would ‘take one for the team’ and chat it up.
AN thats the thing….you’re HOPING dude is gonna be nice about it… He may not be. But How does you husband feel about this
June 22, 2007 @ 9:51 am
cjp:
I only roll with ‘nice girls’ lol, so no luck there….if he wants a jumpoff…well..his boy is dating the only one I know lmao. (I love her though.)
June 22, 2007 @ 9:54 am
But yeah jae. That’s bad form. You supposed to tell somebody something like that.
If it was me, I wouldn’t fuck with it. I’m not accompanying any married chick in public places.
June 22, 2007 @ 9:54 am
The conversation went like this:
Dude: Yo I’m comin up, what we gone do.
Otherdudue: Shit, I got this new chick I’m tryin to get at.
Dude: She got a friend?
Otherdude: I’m sure.
Dude: JUMPOFF!
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I agree, dude probably thinks its goin down.
What up folks?
June 22, 2007 @ 9:55 am
AN thats the thing….you’re HOPING dude is gonna be nice about it… He may not be. But How does you husband feel about this
22/06 09:48:56
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Oh, I haven’t even asked him,but I’m sure he’ll be fine with it- he knows how I am, so it’s not a big deal.
June 22, 2007 @ 9:59 am
‘Oh, I haven’t even asked him,but I’m sure he’ll be fine with it’
Wooooooooooooooo……
Jesus take the wheel!
June 22, 2007 @ 10:01 am
June 22, 2007 @ 10:02 am
I know willy, but seriously- we’re not like that. If I say I’m going out to have dinner with "El" or "Bill", he’s not going to trip out over it. That muthafucka knows I’m his, period.
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willyjsimmons wrote:
‘Oh, I haven’t even asked him,but I’m sure he’ll be fine with it’
Wooooooooooooooo……
Jesus take the wheel!
June 22, 2007 @ 10:04 am
Jae, Ima need you to put the post you copy on the TOP and yours on the bottom. That shit be fuckin me up, you know I drink a lot
June 22, 2007 @ 10:05 am
[quote]JUMPOFF[/quote]
^^^True he is thinking something like that.
On some real shit tho…I’d simply state your position, and stick to that.
If nothing is going down so he might as well not even try…say so.
But you might fuck up your chances of a free meal. :smilebig:
June 22, 2007 @ 10:12 am
‘But you might fuck up your chances of a free meal.’
For realz!
I’ma sit and chill wit cha, but I DAMN SURE ain’t pickin up the tab.
:mutombo:
June 22, 2007 @ 10:13 am
Jaeda-
You fucked up from the door askin THESE niggas an ‘ethical’ question
June 22, 2007 @ 10:13 am
Ole no conscience havin asses LOL.
June 22, 2007 @ 10:16 am
I think letting him know that you are married might be slightly important but….
WHAT THE HELL DOES YOU HUSBAND THINK ABOUT THIS ????
That seems like the more interesting question to me :blink: :blink:
June 22, 2007 @ 10:16 am
sorry Jae but you sound a lil Nieve
thats not a dis
but you should say something
cause if he finds out second hand its gonna kind of urk him why you didn’t say sht
plus all the shady sht people do this days (like Chevy’s post from yesterday!)
that sht could turn into a argument depending on the type of man he is.
Me Im a firm believer in don’t put yourself in position for Bullsht to happen cause it will go down and no one wants to here, It jus happened or I was on purpose or my favorite, How was I supposed to know
jus tell em
June 22, 2007 @ 10:17 am
June 22, 2007 @ 10:17 am
Chevy, you already know LOL.
June 22, 2007 @ 10:17 am
@Willy
U dig? Fuck what they talkin bout.
But see me…Imma gentleman:rebuke:…so I’d tell you pay for your own shit in a VERY nice way:
Yo homegirl…just to be clear…your food….me payin for that…nah:tongueshake:
June 22, 2007 @ 10:21 am
‘Yo homegirl…just to be clear…your food….me payin for that…nah’
@dig
What.Ever!
MAN COUNCIL has plenty of ‘ethics’.
June 22, 2007 @ 10:22 am
‘I know willy, but seriously- we’re not like that. If I say I’m going out to have dinner with "El" or "Bill", he’s not going to trip out over it. That muthafucka knows I’m his, period.’
:smhfrown:
June 22, 2007 @ 10:22 am
oh yeah
the other dude that’s there
DOESN’T GIVE A FK THAT YOUR MARRIED
your man is your problem
a man is gonna be a man regardless
and if you go I bet she’s gonna ask you to do it again later on
June 22, 2007 @ 10:23 am
I’ll be damned if a I pay for dinner with a married woman and the only thing I’m taking home is a doggy bag.
June 22, 2007 @ 10:26 am
Chevy wrote:
‘I know willy, but seriously- we’re not like that. If I say I’m going out to have dinner with "El" or "Bill", he’s not going to trip out over it. That muthafucka knows I’m his, period.’
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"She got the right one baby yeah"….
She picked a winner. I would drop kick my wife for even attempting to ask me some dumb shit like that. Its one thing if this is a male that I know ( and even still, you might get pile driven or sweep kicked) but some random stranger ???
Ahh… the sanctity of marriage….
June 22, 2007 @ 10:27 am
dang, I already said I bring money- I never expect anybody to pay for me- well, except my husband lol.
@dig- I know (i read yesterday’s post lmao), but I figured I’d ask anyway lol.
@ihadnochoice:
I have no idea what he thinks about it, I haven’t asked him.But I honestly don’t think he’d care- as long as I’m not going out by myself with a guy he’s never met before (and that’s more of a safety thing as opposed to fidelity), he doesn’t really worry about that kind of thing. Like I said, he already knows I’m his, for real.
But I’ll tell her to make sure dude knows since we’re supposed to go to dinner tonight.
going to an interview- back after 1. Peace!
June 22, 2007 @ 10:29 am
@Ihadno
True…goddam..lie to me…tell me we can be ‘friends’
Something :sad:
Not so much that I expect ass off top if I pay for a meal (I see you Chevy)…just that I don’t see a point in taking you out (more or less) if there’s a zero percent chance that anything, be it friendship, fuckin, etc etc is going to happen.
Why even bother?
June 22, 2007 @ 10:30 am
‘I know willy, but seriously- we’re not like that. If I say I’m going out to have dinner with "El" or "Bill", he’s not going to trip out over it. That muthafucka knows I’m his, period.’
Baby… Im a tell you like this… IF MY wife ask me if she could go out with any dudde that i dont know and that is a homeboy the the single girl that gives up the ass…That shit aint happening. Now Im cool but its only some much a man would take.
June 22, 2007 @ 10:30 am
People be funny bout playin ’sidecar’ though, so I gotta think he feels there is some incentive to be there or something is in it for him. Nip that in the bud, homie. Make sure he knows before you go, cause you never know, he might just be like fuck that, I aint goin then
June 22, 2007 @ 10:31 am
Chevy: lmao @ that face, but that’s how we are…we both had guy and girl friends (actual friends, not fuck friends) before we hooked up, so we don’t really get crazy about that kind of thing. I always introduce them to him and he does the same for me- it just saves drama.
June 22, 2007 @ 10:32 am
@dig
You emailing the pic for me to upload?
June 22, 2007 @ 10:33 am
Willy: I did already.
June 22, 2007 @ 10:33 am
Jaeda-
A relationship with actual trust? *gasp!*
June 22, 2007 @ 10:34 am
But even if the other dude knows you are married, He is still thinng he is gonna hit… in fact… he might be thinking its better because now he can hit it with no strings attached. Just bringing you down my train of thought. No man is gonna think that a husband would knowingly let his wife go out with another man… so of course he is gonna think its on the low and that you are looking for a side pice.
That why I don’t exactly agree with letting my gf or wife go out with a perfect stranger. Its not like he knows your husband enough to show him respect by respecting you.
June 22, 2007 @ 10:35 am
…we both had guy and girl friends (actual friends, not fuck friends) before we hooked up, so we don’t really get crazy about that kind of thing
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So let me ask you this… If your husband came home an asked you could he go out to eat with his homie who you know is a male whore and a chick he just met with her homegirl…would you let him go….
June 22, 2007 @ 10:37 am
So let me ask you this… If your husband came home an asked you could he go out to eat with his homie who you know is a male whore and a chick he just met with her homegirl…would you let him go….
22/06 10:35:38
**********
You wasnt even talkin to me but I feel compelled by the forces of nature to respond with a resounding hell to the muthafuckin naw
June 22, 2007 @ 10:38 am
A relationship with actual trust?
An trust is one thing but puttin your significant other in a position that has a chance for drama is another… Hey if we playing poker I know you wont cheat but Im still gonna cut the cards…ya feel me.
June 22, 2007 @ 10:39 am
‘…but that’s how we are…we both had guy and girl friends (actual friends, not fuck friends) before we hooked up, so we don’t really get crazy about that kind of thing. I always introduce them to him and he does the same for me- it just saves drama.’
All I can say is you better keep him. DON’T LET THAT NIGGA GO [b]ANYWHERE[/b] :!:
Cause you’ll [u]never[/u] find another dude like that.
ciceroe:
June 22, 2007 @ 10:40 am
CJP: I feel you, I completely agree. I wouldnt say no cause I dont trust my man, I would say no cause ’shit happens’ and its just a lot easier to not put yourself in that situation at all.
June 22, 2007 @ 10:41 am
Testing….1….2….testing……
Is this thing on? LOL
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June 22, 2007 @ 10:42 am
I did it! YAY!!
June 22, 2007 @ 10:43 am
@Chevy
I could see me hittin you up on some "we’re stepping out wit these broads."
Come time for to order the food, that shit would be written all over your face
June 22, 2007 @ 10:43 am
Go….spread the knowledge young Jedi.
June 22, 2007 @ 10:43 am
**golf clap**
Ya for dig!
June 22, 2007 @ 10:43 am
So let me ask you this… If your husband came home an asked you could he go out to eat with his homie who you know is a male whore and a chick he just met with her homegirl…would you let him go….
22/06 10:35:38 edit delete ban
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hahaha- you mean my husband who hates clubs and doesn’t go to bars because he doesn’t drink? The guy who went to Dinosaur’s bar and asked for a "smoothie"? THAT guy?
Seriously, it’s like I told him when we were talking about our "boundaries" in a discussion: If you are going to cheat, there is plenty of opportunity (especially in this town)and I’m not going to be around you 24/7. I’ll respect you and you respect me- that’s all we can count on at the end of the day. I really don’t want to be with somebody I have to put on spycam.
June 22, 2007 @ 10:44 am
June 22, 2007 @ 10:45 am
And yea Jae shorty…definitely hang on to homey. If my wife asked me something like that I’d be like "cool."
By the time she got home…all her shit would be in the street….lit on fire
June 22, 2007 @ 10:45 am
But…This shit is just like a woman
Cause only a female would think that she could go out chill with a nigga get dinner an be cool all while she’s married… AN think thats gon be cool with the dude… Hell naw
June 22, 2007 @ 10:46 am
Jaeda: Thats wassup though. I aint even mad at yall.
June 22, 2007 @ 10:49 am
…we both had guy and girl friends (actual friends, not fuck friends) before we hooked up, so we don’t really get crazy about that kind of thing.
Whats funny about this is
ALL YOUR FRIENDS WOULD FK YOU
June 22, 2007 @ 10:49 am
i was gonna stay out of it as i’m def not the model for having great relationships… but f- it….
if it needs this much dicussiono r forethought- the answer is a respunding ‘no’
June 22, 2007 @ 10:50 am
Jaeda:
You didnt answer the question… Would you let him go. I understand he doesnt like to go out…im asking if he went with his ho-ish homie and two chicks this time…
June 22, 2007 @ 10:52 am
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June 22, 2007 @ 10:52 am
‘By the time she got home…all her shit would be in the street….lit on fire’
Angela Bassett says…
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I’ve burned some shit in my day!
June 22, 2007 @ 10:52 am
Da hell???
June 22, 2007 @ 10:53 am
‘Come time for to order the food, that shit would be written all over your face’
June 22, 2007 @ 10:53 am
Willy: Trees dont count.
June 22, 2007 @ 10:53 am
cjp:
Hell naw.
Kidding- yes, I would. He’s gone out with his cousin (who should have "manwhore’ stamped across his forehead), and I seriously doubt they stood in a corner all night.
June 22, 2007 @ 10:53 am
‘Come time for to order the food, that shit would be written all over your face’
Chevy: "Oh you were planning on eating?"
June 22, 2007 @ 10:55 am
Jaeda:
Hey I cant front thats a good dude you with… An he’s cool with it that all that matters.
June 22, 2007 @ 10:55 am
‘Willy: Trees dont count.’
:smhfrown:
June 22, 2007 @ 10:56 am
‘Chevy: "Oh you were planning on eating?"’
That’s [i]exactly[/i] what I would’ve said. I would have said that right before the cliff face.
I swear, niggaz got me broken down on this site. Might be time for me to take a sabbatical.
June 22, 2007 @ 10:56 am
June 22, 2007 @ 10:57 am
Put it up, Chevy. We need the Lebron James cliff face for this one
June 22, 2007 @ 10:59 am
@Trojan
DING!
Man, I tell broads that all the time…they never listen :smhfrown:
They stay on some…"he’s like my brother/ best friend so it’s not like that" or whatever.
Quick test of yalls "friendship"
-Invite dude over.
-Leave the door unlocked, tell him just come up.
-Be naked on the bed spread eagle (if you prefer)
-Leave a window open. Because your "friendship" is about to go right out that bitch.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:00 am
-Leave a window open. Because your "friendship" is about to go right out that bitch.
You just came in fully loaded today huh?
June 22, 2007 @ 11:00 am
That damn cliff face is too damn funny…
"What…I fouled who"
June 22, 2007 @ 11:00 am
June 22, 2007 @ 11:02 am
‘-Leave a window open. Because your "friendship" is about to go right out that bitch.’
Cliff Robinson is one of my favorite players form back in the day.
Fuckin Portland.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:02 am
Yea, work is slow today…
June 22, 2007 @ 11:06 am
Ciceroe:
Me too. AND the boss is out.
At the old job, I’d have a poker game going in the back by now
June 22, 2007 @ 11:07 am
Willy says… [IMG]http://www.filehigh.com/ser...[/IMG] Run nigga
June 22, 2007 @ 11:11 am
No this nigga didn’t.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:12 am
They stay on some…"he’s like my brother/ best friend so it’s not like that" or whatever.
Yup
Every man has at least one female on that bullsht……
I tell chicks all the time
He’d fk u
fk all that friendship bullsht
he’s jus waiting for the right opportunity and tryin not say anything too stupid
Thats why your man hates your male best friend and if its me He should
June 22, 2007 @ 11:12 am
You know how they combine the names of celebrities who are dating? Why in the hell are they calling Jake Gyllenhall and Reese Witherspoon "Gyllenspoon"
Woo!
June 22, 2007 @ 11:13 am
That’s what’s good. Shit, if anyone plays Command and Conquer let me know…I’ll bust dat ass.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:14 am
@Trojan
And if he doesn’t….he’s gay.
Nothing else to say.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:15 am
"Gyllenspoon"
June 22, 2007 @ 11:15 am
June 22, 2007 @ 11:16 am
Willy - Right?
June 22, 2007 @ 11:16 am
^My last shit rhymed…
I AM THE BEAST.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:16 am
Thats a damn shame… I couldnt be famous for shit.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:18 am
‘And if he doesn’t….he’s gay.’
Not true!
My ‘best girlfriend’ is married, and there is no sexual tension between us at all.
I’ve known her for FAR too long. Kindergarten.
We did date back in junior high, for a week.
Then when I broke up wit her, she told all the other females not to talk to me.
But she got over it, then hooked me up wit her cousin.
But ain’t NOTHIN goin down sex wise.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:18 am
ciceroe wrote:
^My last shit rhymed…
I AM THE BEAST.
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Nigga you can get signed right now… If a dude can do a song called "Hey Bay Bay" and get a video for it… I might have to do one…
June 22, 2007 @ 11:19 am
Its not about trust… its about respect. I trust you enough when you go to the club with your girlfriends. I trust you everyday you step out the door to go to work. I trust you on that road trip with your homegirls. But its disrespectful for you to be out with some strange dude under any circumstance while you are married to me…
It ain’t about trust… its about respect..
At least for me it is..
June 22, 2007 @ 11:20 am
And if he doesn’t….he’s gay.
Nothing else to say.
22/06 11:14:19
One of old female friends had that sht happen to her
I told her one day
you don’t find it odd your man has a coach man purse
and why is he T-shirt so snuggly
and Who brushes their eyebrows
how many heterosexuals do that
but she wouldn’t listen
now his maxwell lookin azz is takin it for the team
Yall better stop fkin wit those metrosexuals
June 22, 2007 @ 11:21 am
But ain’t NOTHIN goin down sex wise.
I use to think men an women cant be cool but now I see that it can really work
June 22, 2007 @ 11:23 am
@Willy
See my post from 22/06 10:59:01
Then reference the one about gays again.
Imma be all the way real. My best friend is a female. We’ve been cool since 4th grade. Instant death to the asshole dumb enough to try to harm her.
Just to lay the details out there, we never kissed, dry-humped or none of that.
She currently is off at college…has a man & all in love with cuz. Cool with me, I’m happy for her (really).
We were on some puppy love shit in grade school, but nothing remotely serious after that.
Point is, if put in a position where she’s with it….it’s a DONE DEAL.
Real rap.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:24 am
and Who brushes their eyebrows
No nigga… RULE#842 no brushing of eyebrows or lashes…
June 22, 2007 @ 11:24 am
But ain’t NOTHIN goin down sex wise.
22/06 11:18:15
she’s married willy
when her cooch is back on the sales rack
for 25 percent off
and you realize you get an extra 15 percent off with your members only card
and you still ain’t tryin to Cum up
then we’ll talk
till then
Nga Please
June 22, 2007 @ 11:25 am
June 22, 2007 @ 11:27 am
I got to give it to yall…cause I have NEVER had a female friend like that…. In all my years that has never happened…
June 22, 2007 @ 11:28 am
@cic
Nope!
Plus, you’re in a different situation.
Your friend is single.
Mine’s is married wit a kid.
I’m not the one.
Chevy, on the other hand…
**Props to my boy Chevy doe, you have my full blessing! Enjoy your birthday homie!**
June 22, 2007 @ 11:30 am
@ihadno
I feel you…
this situation feels like a ‘date’ to me.
How are you married, goin out on dates and shit.
Wit niggaz from outta town.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:30 am
@CJP
I mean if you got some industry connects….
@Trojan
@Ihadno
I rock with that. And common sense. Like you said earlier, if the tables were flipped…she’d bust ya head for asking some wild shit like that. Not bagging on you tho Jae cuz if your man is cool with it…nothing else matters.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:32 am
And whats wrong with snuggly T-shirts….
June 22, 2007 @ 11:32 am
@Willy…
Nah, she does have a man.
I’m not saying you’re gay if you don’t try her. I never tried my homegirl either.
I’m asking if she CAME to YOU…you’d turn it down?
June 22, 2007 @ 11:33 am
‘
@snuggly t-shirts.’
Dont hate on the snug tees, you just gotta know how to rock em
June 22, 2007 @ 11:34 am
‘Nga Please’
She is simply ‘off limits’
Cuz ‘just sex’ would ruin shit.
A relationship won’t work, cuz she’s to bossy.
I know how she is.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:35 am
‘I’m asking if she CAME to YOU…you’d turn it down?’
See my last comment.
I ‘know’ her.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:35 am
@CJP
I don’t by that
I had a female friend like that and she was on that bullsht
and I told her one day
I really would fk you she laughed like it was funny
Im like bitch I’m serious
fk your man I don’t like him and he don’t like me and your not ugly
if you come over here Im going to try to fk you
She came over one day and she was so scared she was curled up into a ball on the corner of my bed wit trench coat on and buttoned all the way to the top and would NOT move.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:35 am
:blink:@Dig
Them John Legend/Jim Jones types shit are NEVER cool, under ANY circumstances.
Shit..I’m 160lbs and all my undershirts are at least 2x’s.
Cats are off the chain out here with that borderline homo shit.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:35 am
‘Cuz ‘just sex’ would ruin shit.’
Ok, Im glad Im not the only one who knows what the fuck that means.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:37 am
June 22, 2007 @ 11:37 am
Ciceroe:
Its a matter of style. You cant just throw one on, you gotta be able to rock it, just like anything else.
But everything aint for everybody.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:37 am
‘Ok, Im glad Im not the only one who knows what the fuck that means.’
Dig…after today…I’ll deny I ever said it.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:37 am
dig wrote:
‘ @snuggly t-shirts.’
Dont hate on the snug tees, you just gotta know how to rock em
22/06 11:33:57
I don’t do shirts that show my nipples
PERVERT!
June 22, 2007 @ 11:39 am
Like IMO, 160 wearing 2x’s is not hot, LOL….. but I know you rock steady, so thats not about you…. Ive seen dudes out here lookin like hot air balloons cause the damn shirts they had on were so damn big.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:39 am
TROJAN MAN wrote:
@CJP
I don’t by that
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Dude Ive never had to deal with that… Not one female friend ever.
Ive never talked on the phone with
Went to the movies with or even ate dinner with woman that I havent messed with
June 22, 2007 @ 11:39 am
@Dig
There’s a reason I don’t buy that…
Ruin it how? Yall are two mature adults.
Yall can’t have casual sex without catching feelings?
June 22, 2007 @ 11:40 am
‘I don’t do shirts that show my nipples ‘
*staring into the camera* :scared:
And IM the pervert? LOL
Willy, I know you will, but I wont forget
…. I said that to somebody before though and they was like WTF are YOU talkin about? 
June 22, 2007 @ 11:41 am
All I have to say is that I havne’t had a female friend that I wouldn’t hump. I might value her freindship enough not to go hard at her but if I come into the room and she is spread eagle…
"Fly robin fly"….
June 22, 2007 @ 11:41 am
@Dig
But Imma 6 footer…acting like you don’t know I’m skinny.
And that’s some wear around the house shit, or sleep in…u killin me over here.
(:pout:that I even had to explain that)
June 22, 2007 @ 11:42 am
I don’t do shirts that show my nipples
PERVERT!
Well they’re not that tight…
June 22, 2007 @ 11:42 am
‘Went to the movies with or even ate dinner with woman that I havent messed with’
In junior high, we did that all the time.
The thing is, she was friends (or at least knew) wit everybody I did date.
We were all ‘cliqued up’ together.
I dated her best girlfriend about 10 times in junior high.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:42 am
Ciceroe:
Its not that, but when you are real good friends with somebody, its hard to transition into something else, be it only physical or a relationship, cause you know so much about each other. Go from talkin to a chick about chicks youre fuckin to actually fuckin that chick and see how it changes things. And Im talkin bout your BEST ass friend, not just some random female. Take if from me, Im a #9, nigga, I know
June 22, 2007 @ 11:44 am
June 22, 2007 @ 11:44 am
dig wrote:
Like IMO, 160 wearing 2x’s is not hot, LOL….. but I know you rock steady, so thats not about you….
Come on Im a man
thats the highschool young shirt
where you buy clothes cause you plan to grow into em
Im a 1X
I can’t be rockin those male baby T
fkin Nip Huggers
Titty T-shirts and
Male door knockers!
I don’t need to be rockin clothes that give women the wrong impression when its cold outside or a breese blows by
I don’t do that Perky shit
and your a fkin Perv!
June 22, 2007 @ 11:44 am
‘ But Imma 6 footer…acting like you don’t know I’m skinny. ‘
I know you skinny, thats why I said it. Skinny dude + huge shirt + summer breeze = hot air balloon LOL.
But again, like I said, I know how you roll, Ive seen your steez, it works for you, but everybody dont pull that shit off the same way cause on a lotta niggas it just looks ridiculous.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:45 am
‘Yall can’t have casual sex without catching feelings?’
Of course I can…
I’m a MAN.
But I wouldn’t bet our friendship, on HER being able to not get caught up.
So it’s best to just not even ‘take it there’.
THAT is the ‘adult’ thing to do.
Plus…she’s BOSSY!
June 22, 2007 @ 11:46 am
@Dig
Females and males are differnet when it comes to that. A dude will fuck his best friend and act like ain’t nuting happen the next day whereas a chick is gon have to visit Dr. Phil because she is "confused"..
Women always wanna throw extra shit in the fire and thats why they get burned..
June 22, 2007 @ 11:47 am
‘Im a #9, nigga, I know’
Let a nigga mention some carats doe.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:48 am
For me its only relevant when the nigga is mad tight wit you, like catch a bullet for your ass type shit. I just value my personal relationships to much to reduce such a close one to just sex. It is just not an option. Too many complications.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:50 am
@Dig
O aight. I read that again…don’t know what I was thinking.
@Willy
I feel you. I was talking hypothetically tho. I’m not saying go slam shorty down somewhere now and smash. Nothing is wrong with respecting her situation. Though, I said I’d smash my best friend…I wouldn’t even make an attempt now since she’s involved. Matter fact, I’d never make the attempt anyway. But if she came to me…Chuck Willy goes to work u dig?
June 22, 2007 @ 11:50 am
but everybody dont pull that shit off the same way cause on a lotta niggas it just looks ridiculous.
Im a thin dude an I just dont look right in big ass shirts… It just dont work for me
June 22, 2007 @ 11:51 am
Willy: BUt you #9 too so we ‘mesh’
Ihadno: I could sleep with my best male friend tomorrow and not feel no different ‘emotionally’ about him than I do today. But because I have crossed that line before in the past, I know that there are other complications that can result from that besides catchin feelings. Cause niggas egos are a damn trip.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:51 am
To all the ladies on here, we are friends.
But if we meet and I find you cute, I’m trying to fuck you. Don’ fall for my charm thinking that I am such a nice guy… I am trying to fuck you…period. ‘
Even if I am not going hard, I am scheming because I am trying to fuck you.
Even with me telling you this and knowing you already know what I am trying to do… I am trying to fuck you.
End of story and don’t read the book again.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:52 am
@DIG
Ima tell you straight up though
what the ends up doing backfires
cause often the friendship you tryin to maintain is the nga that your supposed to be wit
I know acouple people in that situation
where the chicks like nah
but you can tell yall 2 really need to stop frontin and wasting each others time
June 22, 2007 @ 11:53 am
Banga: Trying to have a relationship is one thing. Just fuckin em is something else.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:54 am
‘BUt you #9 too so we ‘mesh’
**As she looks at 3 carat rings online**
June 22, 2007 @ 11:54 am
ihadno: Aint none of us your best friend, to my knowledge, so I would expect your savage ass to be tryna hem somebody up behind the DJ booth
June 22, 2007 @ 11:54 am
Im a thin dude an I just dont look right in big ass shirts… It just dont work for me
22/06 11:50:46
its opposite for me
when I wear sht to tight is restrictin and I feel like I ain’t got no clothes on
I really don’t need to feel the wind brushing over my chest
June 22, 2007 @ 11:55 am
**As she looks at 3 carat rings online**
Damn, 3? I was only goin for 2 (cause we friends)
But shit, upgrade me
June 22, 2007 @ 11:56 am
‘I was talking hypothetically tho.’
In a vacuum, then yeah sex for the sake of sex I’m fine with.
But under these circumstances it’s just a ‘no go’ off the top.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:56 am
I really don’t need to feel the wind brushing over my chest
Dawg they dont be tight they just fit… I dont like tight clothes at all either.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:56 am
dig wrote:
Banga: Trying to have a relationship is one thing. Just fuckin em is something else.
22/06 11:53:46
True but all that pent up fustration that cums out is fkin worth it
June 22, 2007 @ 11:57 am
‘But shit, upgrade me’
:smhfrown:
No Beyonce.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:57 am
See there you go again.. throwing "complications" in the fire again.
Its just sex !!!!
June 22, 2007 @ 11:57 am
@CJP
Sho nuff. Shit, Bmore is like home of the long tee. Most cats rock them to at least knee length.
Matter fact, I was ridin over eastside one time….dude had a tee on down to his ankles. Literally. Shit was mad funny tho cuz he had his face all twisted up…posted on the block…tryna look all extra G’d up
June 22, 2007 @ 11:58 am
Oh well, I just know my best guy friend is outta luck.
At least on some ‘lets just fuck’ type shit. Hell naw.
June 22, 2007 @ 11:59 am
ciceroe
Man all through the south…thats how niggas dress that shit has me laughin all the time… Big ass Ts and Jordans… Damn shame
June 22, 2007 @ 12:01 pm
Aight folk…lunch…
June 22, 2007 @ 12:02 pm
Its just sex !!!!
Bullshit.
June 22, 2007 @ 12:02 pm
‘Matter fact, I was ridin over eastside one time….dude had a tee on down to his ankles. Literally.’
Nigga that’s a nightgown.
June 22, 2007 @ 12:05 pm
My best female friend lives in B-more and I’ve been fucking her since 98′. I don’t think we will ever stop fucking because its just that good between us. I would have figured we would have stopped by now but we are still going.
June 22, 2007 @ 12:06 pm
@CJP
Yea…then they thrown on the fitted and pull it down to their eyelids and rock some Stunnas with it.
I swear that shit makes no sense.
June 22, 2007 @ 12:08 pm
My best female friend lives in B-more and I’ve been fucking her since 98′. I don’t think we will ever stop fucking because its just that good between us. I would have figured we would have stopped by now but we are still going.
***********
Nigga, yall in a relationship. You just dont know it yet
June 22, 2007 @ 12:08 pm
Yea…then they thrown on the fitted and pull it down to their eyelids and rock some Stunnas with it.
I swear that shit makes no sense.
22/06 12:06:16
yeah that shits not my style
I can’t rock caps and shades
I feel like a Nga turtle
like Im bout to go operate a F1 fighter jet or some sht
June 22, 2007 @ 12:10 pm
It is just sex. We don’t catch any feeling over the sex because their is just no emotion tied to it. Johns have sex with prosties and don’t catch feelings. Just cuz you got "friendly" love for somebody doens’t mea n it has to spill over into sexual love. We just enjoy pounding each other out and the chemistry is on point. But how many couple have you heard that only get along in the bedroom? Thats because they took their "sexual" love for each other and tried to make it something more. They could have been just fuck buddies and kept it moving.
June 22, 2007 @ 12:15 pm
Nigga, yall in a relationship. You just dont know it yet
22/06 12:08:26
————-
Not even close. We’ve been involved with other people along the way and that has never interfered. The same way you can have a friend that you go to the gym with, or go to the club with or go to the basketball game wit, you can have a famale friend that you just have sex with with no strings attatched. I’m not gonna go and become her boyfriend just because the sex is great. Be both know that will fuck EVERYTHING up and who want to do that.
June 22, 2007 @ 12:17 pm
ihadnochoice: We aint talkin bout the same kinda relationships. With what Im talkin about that formula is invalid. If you tell someone everything, they the first call you make in an emergency, they know you better than your own family do and shit like that, there is already an emotional attachment - its just not romantic.
You have your opinion but like I said, Ive BEEN there and it wasnt bout catchin feelings. Shit just got awkward and it wasnt on my part. So you cant tell me nothing.
June 22, 2007 @ 12:18 pm
And Banga, Ima kick your ass
June 22, 2007 @ 12:19 pm
i’m hella late on this but:
dig: 17 XL white tee shirt dresses ARE the SHIT!! judono? lol these dudes out here i swear!
everyone else.. sex with a best friend- no dice. my best friend would probably make me the happiest woman in the world if we got into a relationship. and i know full well that if given the opp- nigga would SERIOUSLY consider fuckin. however, we both attach a certian level of ‘up on a pedestal-edness’ to eachother and realize that if we cross that line, that love for eachother would eventually be lost. neither one of us wants to chance that. so ultimatly, if i was on bed srpead eagle saying come get it…. i’m fairly confident that he would about face and leave the room. IF he’s sober, if not ass is ass and i know hes hittin it.
that type of honesty is why we mesh - or i think so anyway.
June 22, 2007 @ 12:20 pm
June 22, 2007 @ 12:22 pm
And me and mine have actually discussed it before - on several occasions. But its just not a good look as far as Im concerned, Im not willing to sacrifice what we have, which is something you dont come across everyday for some dick that I can get anywhere. Im just not gon do it.
June 22, 2007 @ 12:22 pm
oh dig- he workin on coming that weekend- not sure about whats doing down with little man tho.. so i’ma not plan on it and just be happy if he does
June 22, 2007 @ 12:23 pm
All that big shit is crazy… I seen a lil dude walk around with some big ass jeans on…. just holding them so they wont fall… shit just looked sad
June 22, 2007 @ 12:24 pm
cjp- its even funnier watchin them run from the police!!!
June 22, 2007 @ 12:24 pm
P - aight.
June 22, 2007 @ 12:25 pm
Now Willy, about these carats…. (I see how you so nicely let the subject change)
June 22, 2007 @ 12:26 pm
um… i want some too!
June 22, 2007 @ 12:27 pm
dig wrote:
And Banga, Ima kick your ass
22/06 12:18:27
Bring it baby
I got something for dat ass
June 22, 2007 @ 12:27 pm
June 22, 2007 @ 12:28 pm
‘Now Willy, about these carats…. (I see how you so nicely let the subject change)’
Huh?
Carats…what are those?
I do not recall discussing U.S. Attorneys with anyone within the White House.
‘um… i want some too!’
Hush.
No you don’t.
June 22, 2007 @ 12:29 pm
June 22, 2007 @ 12:29 pm
dig let me know if you need backup. you know for drink breaks and shit…
June 22, 2007 @ 12:29 pm
You are so fucken stupid
June 22, 2007 @ 12:30 pm
willy no, for real… i already built one only bluenile… its on 37k… AND they have payment plans
June 22, 2007 @ 12:30 pm
^ that was for Willy.
And yeah, P, bring the shotty LOL
June 22, 2007 @ 12:31 pm
@DIG & Persia
I’d love to see this topic on Oprah a talk show
cause I bet his real true feelings prolly aren’t the same as yours
thats all Im sayin
June 22, 2007 @ 12:36 pm
‘willy no, for real… i already built one only bluenile… its on 37k… AND they have payment plans’
PFFFFFF!
Payment plans my ass.
June 22, 2007 @ 12:36 pm
Banga:
Again - my best guy friend and I have talked about it. He’s on the fence. Not only WOULD he do it, but he WANTS to do it. BUT in talkin about it, he also agrees with me that it might negatively affect our relationship. He knows that Im not wit no casual sexing shit, if he wants it, he’s gotta cash out LOL.
June 22, 2007 @ 12:36 pm
‘You are so fucken stupid’
:smilebig:
And you know what…
you like it.
June 22, 2007 @ 12:37 pm
I got the Shotty here ladies
no silencer needed
scream as loud as you can
Nobodies gonna hear you
June 22, 2007 @ 12:37 pm
ALright yall… why did the white girl ask me if my belt was long enough to tie her up with it….
June 22, 2007 @ 12:40 pm
And you know what…
you like it.
*********
If one more person says that to me
CJP: ……. let me just not say nothing. If anybody needs me, Ima be over here reading the funny papers…..
June 22, 2007 @ 12:41 pm
‘why did the white girl ask me if my belt was long enough to tie her up with it’
I done told you already.
Stop actin brand new over there cjp!
That’s why you’re in this situation now.
June 22, 2007 @ 12:41 pm
‘If one more person says that to me’
Whu-whu-whu-whutchagonedoaboutit!
June 22, 2007 @ 12:42 pm
CJP: ……. let me just not say nothing. If anybody needs me, Ima be over here reading the funny papers…..
———————-
Its all good I told her I dont do bondage… and the belt was special so no
June 22, 2007 @ 12:43 pm
Stop actin brand new over there cjp!
That’s why you’re in this situation now.
——————————–
You already know… but I aint falling for it
June 22, 2007 @ 12:45 pm
dig wrote:
Banga:
I respect all of that
I do and completely understand that
all Im sayin is there’s no way you can know for sure cause jus cause he says that it might not be how he feels
thats why i said I love to see in on a talk show or some sht so who ever it is can come out without holding back cause they know your not on the same page. They might say, because I know how you are I never go there. But this is how I feel. Why u think most men can’t stand their girls male best friend cause we can sense that sht.
I don’t doubt how you feel but its one of those things where women always say he would never and low and behold. Thats not entirely true and for the record I’ve seen this before time and time again and the women was wrong damn near every fkin time.
corrected typo’s my bad
June 22, 2007 @ 12:46 pm
‘You already know… but I aint falling for it’
She’s got the fever for the flavor of a pringle.
Give her the ’sour cream’ nigga!
June 22, 2007 @ 12:47 pm
Whu-whu-whu-whutchagonedoaboutit!
Banga: Thats the thing. If he SAYS thats wassup, then thats wassup. He pulls no punches, which is why I respect him like I do. Only person on the planet I know for sure would rather hurt my feelings than lie to me.
June 22, 2007 @ 12:48 pm
Oh CJP got the ’special’ belt on
Tell her ‘bitch, this Polo, fuck wrong wit you?’
June 22, 2007 @ 12:49 pm
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June 22, 2007 @ 12:50 pm
June 22, 2007 @ 12:54 pm
Oh CJP got the ’special’ belt on
Tell her ‘bitch, this Polo, fuck wrong wit you?’
————————————-
She said "Caribe that is a real nice belt you think its long enough to tie me up"…. All the other chicks in the office stated laughin….
I couldnt do nothing but :oops:
June 22, 2007 @ 12:55 pm
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June 22, 2007 @ 12:58 pm
‘All the other chicks in the office stated laughin’
Dayum…she put you out there in front of the other ladies…
Sexual Harassment!
June 22, 2007 @ 12:58 pm
June 22, 2007 @ 1:02 pm
Dayum…she put you out there in front of the other ladies…
Dude she doing that shit cause I wont say nothing… They always fuckin with me. One day Im gon say some CJP shit and its gonna be over…
June 22, 2007 @ 1:02 pm
@ dig:
I’m not one for casual sex either- that whole friends with benefits shit just passed me by…there are some friends that I wouldn’t have minded fucking with, but I really didn’t want to screw up our relationships by even attempting to go there.
June 22, 2007 @ 1:07 pm
BTW, called the hubby on the cell, asked about tonight- he’s on board.
"I’m with Nay." (she can exhibit jumpoff tendencies, but she’s trustworthy and quite protective. I tol’ya.)
"Oh, okay."
Fine by him- which I totally knew already lol.
June 22, 2007 @ 1:12 pm
‘One day Im gon say some CJP shit and its gonna be over…’
You hope…
White gurl might put somethin on you at the company picnic.
June 22, 2007 @ 1:13 pm
‘Fine by him- which I totally knew already lol.’
:smhfrown:
June 22, 2007 @ 1:21 pm
CJP: Seems easy enough to just ’say some CJP shit’ then dont it?
Jaeda: Im just kinda over it with the casual stuff, you know what I mean? Thats not to say I wont ever do it again, but Im definitely not gonna be doing it with somebody Im that tight with. I can save sex that dont mean nothing for people who dont mean nothing LOL.
Thats not like fuckin your ex. WHOLE other show
June 22, 2007 @ 1:26 pm
@DIG
cool but off that and on to more perverted conversation
why do have you Fetish for men in spandex T-shirts
June 22, 2007 @ 1:28 pm
Dig: the hubby and I tried that casual shit, but it became really obvious that we weren’t really casual…the man was buying pots and pans, a water filter for my faucet, had a key…I was like "um, so….what e