Being that I am working like a slave. I have to drop someof these articles I find when I am researching on the job. Just check what the feeling is among you guys about all this hoopla with race. Who is dating who? Who is marrying who? So I swiped another article from brownsista.com - Just a little something to wet your whistle. Check out your girl Heather Headly with that fine white man…whew!
Below are just a few of the sites I visit from time to time, as well as articles that I think are worthy of Black women's attention. As I browsed the internet today and yesterday I could not help but notice the amount of anguish many sistas seem to be feeling simply because a stranger, Reggie Bush, had chosen to take up with a woman who was not of his ethnicity (Kim Kardashian). Black Female Interracial Marriage is a blog I visit quite often because I believe the owner truly has a love for her sistas and wants to see them happy, content and fulfilled. Sometimes that fulfillment may come from a man who looks like you- but sometimes it wont. Date A White Guy is another blog I visit on occasion, and again, I believe the owner posts a lot of information that Black women need to hear. I post these links sistas not to persuade you to date outside your race or look for love in places you may not ordinarily have thought to, but rather to let you know that you too have what Reggie Bush and so many other Black men- options.
Below are two articles below I believe tie in nicely with yesterday's post about the replacement of Black women.
http://bfinterracialmarriage.blogspot.com/index.html (Black Interracial Marriage)
http://dateawhiteguy.blogspot.com/ (Date A White Guy)
http://dateawhiteguy.blogspot.com/2007/04/and-latina-wins.html (And the Latina Wins)
http://dateawhiteguy.blogspot.com/2007/04/and-latina-wins-contd.html (And the Latina Wins Part II
So you guys shoot me a theory. Why is it that Black women are so reluctant to taste a different flava? Damn if Baskin Robbins has 31 Flavas - then America has no telling how many. I told my hubby if anything EVER happens to us - I am getting me a spoon and Ima be line like Dippin Dots - "Can I get sample?"
Now Shake your tambourine, go and get yourself a whistle…
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June 1, 2007 @ 9:08 am
logically, this makes sense… for me, i dont know… even tho my fam is white, i dont think there is (or i havent come across) a white/ asian/ latino guy that can do it for me like a black man can. maybe i’m narrowing the pool too much, as i cant seem to find a decent black guy either lol, but thats just the place i’m in right now i guess.
June 1, 2007 @ 9:31 am
Those sites are blocked for me
give me a rundown
side note
Im pretty sure I can tell yall ladies why so many stars and athletes date white women too
June 1, 2007 @ 9:46 am
This is a big reason why black women have trouble finding a man… their options aren’t open to men outside of their race. Although I have never "wifed" a woman outside of my race, I’ve dated everything from Cambodian to Ethiopian because I love all women.. not just black women. Dating outside of your race gives you a different perspective of another culture and also give you a different perspective on your own race. Life is about experiences and secluding 75 percent of the population is not the way to do that.
I think I did the numbers on this before in estimation. 50 percent of America is white so you already wipe out half the population. 15 percent are Latino and 15 to 20 percent are black.
Now if black men only is what you like than so be it… but you can’t complain after that since you are not allowing yourself other options.
June 1, 2007 @ 10:02 am
I can never understand how "doing it for you" has anything to do with race. I would figure upbringing, education and how a man treats a woman would have a lot more to do with "doing it for you" than race does. I think Black women are raised to have this image of a strong black man as their mate and thats all good but how much of yourself are you sacrificing by sticking to that neanderthal plan. It is 2007 isn’t it ? How many "pure black" people do we have walking around nowadays anyway ? And along with this attitude towards men of other races comes the disdain for black men who do date outside of their race. We can’t look to our parents as examples of black on black relationships because the America and the world are different places than they were when our older counterparts got together. But taking other races outside of your equation also keeps them from getting to know you as a black woman. All the white guys at my job think black women are mean and off limits because they don’t even acknowledge other races of men who are interested in them and after talking to them I can’t even argue with them.
June 1, 2007 @ 10:13 am
ihnc- i know you’re speaking in general terms, but as that applies to me… i’ve dated everything under the sun expect an asian (and that stictly b/c th opportunity has never asrisen). i’m what you call a drive thru dater… meet, greet, (usually) dont like, move on…this take a matter of days (or hours lol), so i’ve dated alot of people of various ethnicites. other races just dont do it for me the same way. like i said before, maybe this is more a factor of who i have/ havent met yet… but black men are more my flavor.
June 1, 2007 @ 10:25 am
‘doing it for me’ refers to sexual attraction. assholes come in every race,color, size and shape… being mistreated/ treated well is possbile from every race…whittiling down prosepcts based on race doesnt gaurentee you will/wont get a dick for a partner.
i myself am tri-racial (is that a real term?) -black white and indian… i only have access to my white family and grew up in a white enviornment. so holding out for a 100% alpha black man has nothing to do with my dating pattern. for me and my situation it would problaby be easier and to others seem more natural for me to date white men and i have. havent found one for me yet.
that being said…do some women disqualify perfectly great guys because of the level of melanin in thier skin- yes. but think about it, can you fault them? thats what THEY want. everyone has thier own reasons of attraction. some guys refuse to date a woman that is a size 16.. could he be missing out on a great girl- absolutly- but if he’s not physically attracted at teh basic levels, all other aspects of a perfectly compatible relationship would suffer. race is really no different.
everyones got to do them. as much as i detest seeing interracial couples- can i get mad and pout about it? no. i know that my feelings about it stem from one situation that i grew up in and what i feel has no bearing on someone elses happiness. same goes for people that choose to stay in the same race.. whatever makes them happy or whatever unhappiness they can deal with within thier own limited spectrum- either way, its on them, not you.
June 1, 2007 @ 10:28 am
tj- i didnt read all of them… but baiscally it says "black women stop waiting on black men and date a man, any man. stop worrying about race, but focus on how youre treated"
and i’ll bite… why do athletes date white women?
June 1, 2007 @ 10:38 am
What up yall…. Im with Persia. I have nothing against interracial dating whatsoever. However, there is just something about black men that I dont see in other races. Thats not to say that I wouldnt date someone of a different ethnicity if I came across a person I liked, but to date, I havent.
June 1, 2007 @ 10:39 am
I feel you on that Persia. But what gets me is when women COMPLAIN about not having a man while they are just ignoring other races. BUT it does come dow to individual taste.
I just think women are just more picky overall as opposed to men.
We’ll hit anything… wel.. not anything but you know what i mean
June 1, 2007 @ 10:40 am
Hey!!!!
June 1, 2007 @ 10:41 am
I just think women are just more picky overall as opposed to men.
We’ll hit anything… wel.. not anything but you know what i mean
01/06 10:39:52
Nigga stop lying you’ll hit anything…LOL
I’m just playing…
What it do?
June 1, 2007 @ 10:42 am
What up Trissa…
June 1, 2007 @ 10:42 am
Hey mama!!!
June 1, 2007 @ 10:43 am
I’m off work today…thought I’d drop in…
I got another crazy story about me and the barber if anybody want to hear it…
Probably Not!!!
June 1, 2007 @ 10:44 am
Where is everybody?
June 1, 2007 @ 10:45 am
Oh boy!
June 1, 2007 @ 10:46 am
‘why do athletes date white women?’
Do [i]all[/i] athletes date white women?
By default?
Naw…
Most them niggaz got kids with the around the way/highschool sweetheart.
Allen Iverson NEEDS a white woman!
Or at least one that looks better than his wife.
I’m sorry, but either she was FINE in highschool, or AI got caught slippin.
**swingin out on my BATHOOK**
June 1, 2007 @ 10:46 am
I love em all. How could I say no to Lucy Liu or Salma Hayek or Scarlett J or that chick from Missisippi Masala… I just couldn’t do it.
Now a sister is gon understand where I am from and prolly could relate to me better but initial attraction has nothing to do with that.
Like I said… yall want what yall want and that it.
June 1, 2007 @ 10:51 am
‘How could I say no to Lucy Liu or Salma Hayek or Scarlett J or that chick from Missisippi Masala…’
Shit, I’m still thinkin about hittin the alien chick from Alien Nation.
Intergalactic pussy is the future…and white gurls gonna be hatin on that.
June 1, 2007 @ 10:51 am
Allen Iverson NEEDS a white woman!
Or at least one that looks better than his wife.
I’m sorry, but either she was FINE in highschool, or AI got caught slippin.
**swingin out on my BATHOOK**
01/06 10:46:48
And Dewayne Wade wife is ugly as fuck toooooo…that bitch he straight from the South Suburbs (chicago) and she aint took none of his money and upgraded herself…She need to take some lessons from Shaq wife…she a bad bitch with like 4 kids..
June 1, 2007 @ 10:52 am
What up Triss ?
Shake em for me..
June 1, 2007 @ 10:52 am
Ah shit what the scoop today…I hope its about white women
June 1, 2007 @ 10:54 am
Dig,
the nigga got me kinda cheating on my boyfriend…Sneaking around letting him chest hump me!!! but anyways!!!!
BTW: My titty power has gotten out of control…I have to swat the niggas at the job away like flies….
I never knew I could take over the world with these muthafuckas…
June 1, 2007 @ 10:54 am
Thats one.
What up nigga?
June 1, 2007 @ 10:54 am
Trissa: Dont blame the barber, he aint got you doing nothing you dont wanna do LOL…
June 1, 2007 @ 10:55 am
Wud up brother from another mother!!!
June 1, 2007 @ 10:55 am
Just cause a nigga got a lot of money, that don’t mean his wife gotta be a beauty queen.
June 1, 2007 @ 10:55 am
Shaq’s wife is thorough!
100%…Grade A…Dime Piece.
June 1, 2007 @ 10:56 am
Damn Triss… I thought you broke up with your man.
There goes my trip to Chicago !!!!
June 1, 2007 @ 10:57 am
dig wrote:
Trissa: Dont blame the barber, he aint got you doing nothing you dont wanna do LOL…
01/06 10:54:56
We suppose to be threw fucking with each other, but last Friday we was in his car acting a fool, I was spitting on this nigga and saying shit like "suck my titties bitch" and he was moaning and scratchin on me while he was doing it..that shit was crazy…
Oh yeah here’s the kicker: he left a party where him and his girl was to come see me… that nigga right there…smh!!!
June 1, 2007 @ 10:58 am
Nothing much just sitting at this bitch…bout to get outta here early
June 1, 2007 @ 10:58 am
Trissa
*SMH*
There are so many things wrong with that picture, LOL. Dont even get me started.
June 1, 2007 @ 10:59 am
But Sghaqs wife plays her position;. She ain/t stupid and she is realistic. She knew what being Shaqs wife took and she handles it. You must be a living in a fantasy world if you think a nigga like Shaq is gon be faithful. There are right ways to cheat (See Shaq) and there are bad ones (See Kobe).
How many beutiful women can handle that… Thus the reason why Wade chcik is on the no so cute side… she can handle it.
Vince Carter just got married 3 years ago to a bad chick and he is about to lose half from divorce.
June 1, 2007 @ 11:00 am
ihadnochoice wrote:
Just cause a nigga got a lot of money, that don’t mean his wife gotta be a beauty queen.
I aint talking about that. She could get her damn head done sometimes…shit I go every week and I aint got none of they moeny…she be walking out the house looking like she straight from the south side, bitch you NOW reside in Miami, get your mind right and get a new look…Shit let D-Wade upgrade you…that’s the whole point of marrying the nigga and putting up with all that NBA shit…
June 1, 2007 @ 11:00 am
he left a party where him and his girl was to come see me…
Thats against the rules right there… but pussy makes you do some crazy things…
June 1, 2007 @ 11:02 am
ihadnochoice wrote:
Damn Triss… I thought you broke up with your man.
There goes my trip to Chicago !!!!
01/06 10:56:43
We back together for now…if my ass dont stop messing around…hell its a couple of dudes at my job that I like…this one particular might get it….Plus in love with the girls..adn who am I to deny him of his true love…DD’s..
June 1, 2007 @ 11:03 am
‘Just cause a nigga got a lot of money, that don’t mean his wife gotta be a beauty queen.’
Nope.
but a MAN LAW check is in order…
ain’t nobody in their right mind TRYIN to knock a sea hag up.
Accidents happen, responsibilities take over…whatever…BUT SHE’S STILL UGLY!
And while it’s certainly ‘cheaper to keep her’, and I joke that AI should upgrade…
MAN LAW dictates that AI should have held out a bit longer.
Cause I promise not 30 seconds after he approached this chick, a better lookin one came through, but he was already fucked up talkin to the ugly one.
June 1, 2007 @ 11:05 am
Shaq wife don’t be looking no mutherfucking fool…I’mm telling she better step her game up before that nigga start to be like fuck you..I hardly ever see them out together..only when they with the kids..But I see this nigga out all the time, he be with Kelly Rowland alot..talking bout they friends…yeah right, plus Kelly like her some ball players and from what I hear most niggas would wife Kelly in a minute..
Ole girl better take heed!!!
June 1, 2007 @ 11:06 am
‘I was spitting on this nigga and saying shit like "suck my titties bitch" and he was moaning and scratchin on me while he was doing it..that shit was crazy…’
:blink:
June 1, 2007 @ 11:07 am
‘from what I hear most niggas would wife Kelly in a minute..’
2.2 seconds…
even faster if I have a redbull.
June 1, 2007 @ 11:08 am
‘Just cause a nigga got a lot of money, that don’t mean his wife gotta be a beauty queen.’
If you look at it most nigga thats got paper wives are not what most people would call good looking…but those chicks be the most down… As long as they aint crazy like Doug Chistie wife… that bitch off her rocker.
June 1, 2007 @ 11:08 am
Willy:
I’m saying..the shit is emotionally now…it aint even about sex….it’a the fact that we both in a relationship that’s missing something…
In his case: tits
In my case: the feeling of being needed
that’s why the shit between me and the barber get’s to that level…
June 1, 2007 @ 11:10 am
Trissa: so why even go back to the ex in the first place?
June 1, 2007 @ 11:11 am
I’m not saying that they need to marry beauty queens, but I am saying that the wives need to keep themselves up..and no excuse to be walking around taking photos and you look a hot ass mess…shit aint no since in looking like that when you are MARRIED to D-WADE or for that matter ALLEN IVERSON… and they wonder why them niggas be cheating…what you won’t do at home somebody else will…Please Believe!!!
June 1, 2007 @ 11:13 am
Well, to be fair, the woman was pregant and had a baby, what 3 days ago or something? Mrs. D-Wade had other thangs on her mind…like why does her husband keep showing up where Kelly Rowland is?
but as far as IR dating, I don’t really think of it as "choosing another option". My husband was cute, he said hi, I said hi back and now we’re here…I think if anything, race was about the last thing we really had to deal with. Religion, nationality, distance, personality- all that stuff took precedence over "I’m black, you aren’t."
btw, just cause I didn’t say it before-
Hey everybody! :-}
June 1, 2007 @ 11:13 am
dig wrote:
Trissa: so why even go back to the ex in the first place?
01/06 11:10:07
In his case: She got money, she takes care of him, buys his clothes etc….
In my case: dick, and the fact that he spoils me..I pretty much get whatever I want…you cant find that anywhere…
June 1, 2007 @ 11:13 am
Its funny how you talk sideways about the barber dude but your ass is always around when he needs you !!!!
June 1, 2007 @ 11:14 am
*smh*
What up Jaeda? I gotta roll but I will holla at ya later.
June 1, 2007 @ 11:15 am
cjp wrote:
As long as they aint crazy like Doug Chistie wife… that bitch off her rocker.
01/06 11:08:09
You ain’t lyin- Jackie….you can see the crazy wafting off her ass…I swear he’s on some "Men Don’t Tell" Lifetime movie shit.
June 1, 2007 @ 11:17 am
Well, to be fair, the woman was pregant and had a baby, what 3 days ago or something? Mrs. D-Wade had other thangs on her mind…like why does her husband keep showing up where Kelly Rowland is
Uhmmm that wasnt the first pic I’ve seen with Miss Thing looking a foolywang…I think they was at some red carpet event and she looked like she let her cousin do her hair, and she went straight to Macy’s to get her dress….she just looked thrown together, and this was before she got preggers again…His mama was flyer than she was..
Kelly looks way better on D-Wade’s arm than his wife does…Kelly upgrades him when they take pics together…His wife degrades his ass…
June 1, 2007 @ 11:18 am
ihadnochoice wrote:
Its funny how you talk sideways about the barber dude but your ass is always around when he needs you !!!!
01/06 11:13:55
It’s like crack… I gotta figure out a way to put the pipe down….
"It keep calling man"
June 1, 2007 @ 11:18 am
D wade’s wife looks alright here
[img]http://images.filmmagic.com...[/img]I wouldn’t kick her outta bed?
I do see a difference between women who ‘clean up nice’ and women who simply can’t be helped at all.
You don’t have to look ’super sexy’ all the time…but I gotta know you can at least ‘take it there’ when needed.
Cuz when I put my cape on…
Sexy!
June 1, 2007 @ 11:19 am
And I aint talking sideways Ihadnochoice!
I’m simply stating facts…he’s weird…and I guess that makes me weird too huh?
June 1, 2007 @ 11:20 am
and i’ll bite… why do athletes date white women?
01/06 10:28:01
First WHATS UP TRIS HOW YOU DOING MA
this is not the only reason althletes do but something I really noticed
1st its really the types of environments black people of that statue go to in their leizure. When you get money, you don’t live in a area thats abundant with lots of Black women. 2nd the types of clubs you can frequent aren’t places abundant with black women either. Honestly most black establishments outside of the 40 40 club aren’t structured nor safe enough for a high profile athlete or entertainer to be at. Thats why when they get into some sht at those establishments the first thing outta societies mouth is what was they doing their in the 1st place. I live in Boston and here we have our black events and our multicultural events and our white events. If you want to me a red sox your not going to find them at the black spots and honestly the quality of security and type of environments and the crowd at those events they really have no business being at. All you have to do and Remember what happened to Paul Pierce if you need more proof.
If your damn near forced to be in environments wit nothing but or mostly white women your eventually gonna bag
one or some black chick or ethnic chick that grew up in the burbs and acts white
June 1, 2007 @ 11:20 am
I don’t know Trissa….eventually a nice ass is going to sag, and perky tits are going to be sliding down your chest (not mine, but other people’s lol) - at the end of the day and your life, I think having somebody to talk to is more important than how they photograph. i mean, it’s not like she didn’t always look like that lol- he knew what he was getting. *shrug*
June 1, 2007 @ 11:20 am
Willy:
I guess…and I’m not hating….
she just not cute to me…
June 1, 2007 @ 11:23 am
As far as this "phenomenon" of black atheletes dating white/other, I find that the majority of them are married to black women- various hues, but black. People pay more attention to the IR couples- especially when it goes "Mike Strahan" bad or something- but for the most part, if you see a married black athelete, you see a black wife.
June 1, 2007 @ 11:25 am
Yeah but Kelly had her crack at a baller and she failed. Her pussy could have no lips on it. She might have a short toungue. Wades wife prolly turns his ass out… sucking kneecaps and shit. Especially when it comes to marriage… looks fade away and then waht ?
Marriage is all about being able to live together and that has nothing to do with looks. Looks can only carry a jump off so far right ???
June 1, 2007 @ 11:25 am
Nice smile…
I bet her booty game is nice too.
Lemme see the booty…
A nice booty can make up for some flaws.
Nice legs…
Charmin soft titties…
I’m willin to work wit cha!
June 1, 2007 @ 11:26 am
willy - what would you do if you woke up tomorrow and there were no more titties left? if everyone lost them over night? would you move on to just bootys? or pass out in horror?
June 1, 2007 @ 11:27 am
Ya’ll I’m not saying that she gotta on all the time (at the crib)…put it like this…you have a reputation to uphold..you are NBA wife…think about that when you leave your house,,you are a reflection of your husband’s image….you dont have to be Halle Berry, but dont be looking like Wendy Williams when you leave the crib either….
She need to looking like she still live on the south side…. that’s all I’m saying…
Look at Tiny for example…she always be looking like cheap, like T.I. aint got no bread… Master P wife be looking cheap too….
Stop Looking Cheap in 2007!
This campaign is brought to you by the NBA and Def Jam records…
June 1, 2007 @ 11:28 am
Persia wrote:
willy - what would you do if you woke up tomorrow and there were no more titties left? if everyone lost them over night? would you move on to just bootys? or pass out in horror?
01/06 11:26:59
I WOULD FUCKING DIE!!!!! They all I got….LOL!!!!
June 1, 2007 @ 11:30 am
‘Yeah but Kelly had her crack at a baller and she failed.’
I don’t see that as a bad thing…
she could have seen the dollar signs, and married dude anywayz, knowing she had second thoughts…brought a child into the situation…
it’s best that she did call it off if she wasn’t 100% sure.
As a man, I’d appreciate it if a woman had the integrity to do the right thing.
No hard feelings, that just life.
Doesn’t mean my next option is the ugly one.
June 1, 2007 @ 11:30 am
cosign Trojan…
Not only that, I don’t see too many atheletes coming out of all balck colleges. Who would you be dating if you went to Arizona St for 4 years ? Or Oklahoma State ?… shit… North Carolina Stae ??
A lot of these atheletes meet their wives in college and white women are in abundance at many of these schools.
June 1, 2007 @ 11:31 am
i’m with trissa… these woman dont need to be covergirls… but damn it.. stop looking like you shop exclusivly @ forever 21 and still get your hair/ nails done @ the shop next to the swap meet that sells fried chicken out the back. halle does her chill/ no makeup/ no hair time (we see pics of it everyday) and still manages to not look like hood extremem makeover.
June 1, 2007 @ 11:34 am
Marriage is all about being able to live together and that has nothing to do with looks. Looks can only carry a jump off so far right ???
01/06 11:25:33
Thus my problem
The barber is hella fine, alwasy looking and smelling good…shoe game is always on point…ALWAYS…even ehen he aint trying…
My boyfriend dont give a shit how he look, he about his bread and making sure I’m happy….and I aint complaining but I wish he would care a little bit more about how he looked and shit…he constantly fixing shit on me..he makes sure my ass is damn near perfect everytime we leave the house…he making sure the hair dont get fucked when we fucking or if it rain…sometimes I feel like his show piece…I want him to be MY show peice sometime…
Cause if me and the barber only going to the store downstairs I still feel like a star when I’m with him…he just that fine!!!
June 1, 2007 @ 11:35 am
@persia
I’m a fan of the female form baby…
I don’t focus too much on just one area…it’s all them areas workin together.
Big gigantic boobs might not look right on every body type.
It’s the proportions.
But yeah I’d move on to booties…
but the first alien chick that shows up with a huge rack will be VERY popular.
June 1, 2007 @ 11:37 am
Persia!!!
EXACTLY….cause I know if D-Wade was mine…nigga I’d have every NBA bitch mad at me…cause I’d outstage every last one of them bitches…Nigga that’s D-Wade…get your mind right…
June 1, 2007 @ 11:38 am
Willy:
Is it safe to say that you like the D’s thrown on you?
June 1, 2007 @ 11:42 am
100 spoke, triple gold!
I’m more of an ass man though…
I like to watch as you leave the room.
Then I think nasty thoughts.
June 1, 2007 @ 11:42 am
Anyways…
Next topic
let’s talk breast today…
Why am I just figuring out that my boobs are the shit?
June 1, 2007 @ 11:46 am
ok then let’s talk ass
June 1, 2007 @ 11:47 am
girl, you need to recognize those…tits will get you paid, get you promotions, and I haven’t bought a drink in about 5 years lol. People love boobs- they’re friendly..asses aren’t always friendly, especially in a tight area with limited seating. Boobs bring people together.
June 1, 2007 @ 11:49 am
UYour breast is just the tip of the iceberg. If tities get you to the mountain top… your pussy can take you to the fucking moon.
I am glad you brought this up because I was just explaining this to some of my homegirls. Pussy makes us go crazy. It wouldn’t even be close if I tallied all the dumb shit I’ve done in the pursuit of pussy as compared to other things. Pussy makres the world go round buyt yall women get all caught up in the emotional part of things to realize how much platinum yall got between yall legs.
Just thinking of that shit makes me shiver. Niggas go to work for pussy. we buy cars for pussy. Our clothes must be pussy ready. Every thing we walk talk and smell relates to pussy somehow.
Yall would have us at your every beckon call if yall knoew how to use it because we sure know how to use the dick to our advantage
June 1, 2007 @ 11:49 am
LOL!!!
I’m saying yo… at the job….I got the bitches hating and the niggas droolin…
and my boyfriend and my dip telling me that I bet not let nobody else even see’em…
Are they serious…
the barber left his girl to come stick his dick in between my breat…not his dick in the pussy, but in some titty’s…WTF…
June 1, 2007 @ 11:56 am
Wasn’t dude tryin NOT to have sex wit you…
reading religious books and shit.
Tryin to ‘get right’ with himself…
June 1, 2007 @ 11:56 am
The barber might have herpes and might like you too much to pass it on…
Just a tought….
I guess in his mind, titties make the world go round…
June 1, 2007 @ 11:59 am
Willy:
Yes….but he cant stop fuckign with me though…
Ihadnochoice:
I know for show this nigga had an STD..but i won’t get into all that…
His problem is that his girl is the average dime…tall, slim, long hair..NO TITS…he feel like that’s what he should be with cause he a "dime"…
But his first wife was like me…a southern girl with big breast…
June 1, 2007 @ 12:02 pm
Damn…. I hit the nail on the head (no pun)…lol.
June 1, 2007 @ 12:09 pm
Yeah… my nigga..and he tried to be slick but I caught his ass…
I gotta put the crack pipe down though…cause he outta control…
June 1, 2007 @ 12:17 pm
How did you "catch him" ?
June 1, 2007 @ 12:26 pm
His dumb ass left a bottle of pills on the table…When he left I googled the shit to see what it was for and sure enough the nigga was getting treated for Chlamydia…
you know I went fucking postal right?
He tried to tell me he had a bacteria infection…that’s why he was talking about he didnt want to do nothing…didnt have shit to do with him "getting his life together"
June 1, 2007 @ 12:32 pm
WOW !!!
At least he looked out. Some niggas would have did you raw pappy and kept it moving…
June 1, 2007 @ 12:42 pm
Shit it aint like he was trying to have actual sex with me..LOL
But he has said that shit though..Like I should be happy that he dont look at me like a "hoe"…
i wont say i’m special but there were times when he would come over and just sleep, not touching, no nothing…at the time I was pissed, but now Im glad cause it showed me to have some self control and too accept the fact he might acually like "being with me"…but whatever…he still aint shit..
This nigga done told his girlfriend about me…he told her that have been there for him through their whole break-up and that even though we have been intimate with each other, he still wants to remain friends with me cause "we so cool"..
*Note" Shit not to tell your girl after a two month break-up, especially not while the "friend" is on the phonw while you tell your girlfriend this…
June 1, 2007 @ 12:53 pm
Just call Maury, and get it over with.
June 1, 2007 @ 1:02 pm
Very Funny..
June 1, 2007 @ 1:07 pm
Trissa says that the nigga left it out on the table but we all know you went diggin in that niggas medicine cabinet
June 1, 2007 @ 1:08 pm
Seriously, I will offer my honest advice…
do not ‘kinda cheat’ on your boyfriend if you truly love him.
Otherwise, you’re setting yourself up to get hurt, or may hurt someone else.
Having fun, being young is one thing, but call it what it is.
Maury Material.
And that is my official ‘real talk’ of the day.
June 1, 2007 @ 1:21 pm
Triss don’t love that nigga…
She love his doggy style. Besides, Trissa would be a fool to believe he ain’t gettin his from elsewhere…. wouldn’t you Triss
June 1, 2007 @ 1:26 pm
wow- I obviously missed some shit while i was shopping….what the hella fitzgerald is going on?
June 1, 2007 @ 1:28 pm
Uhmm both of ya’ll shut up…
ihadnochoice: seriously he left the bottle on my table whilehe took a shower…I was like "da hell is this"
but naw I aint stupid he LIVE with his bitch..of course she fucking him…hell I dont want none of his dick…I wan the nigga mind…I want him to be thinking about MY big ass tits when sucking her lil ass tits…But as far wanting to be with him..Hell Naw..he aint got shit goingon for himself for real..other than the fact that he fine ass hell…
Willy:
that’s why I need to go to rehab…gotta put the crack pipe down…but the shit keep calling me man
June 1, 2007 @ 1:30 pm
yes, the pussy holds many great and wonderous powers… but triss is right… a good dick will have you not chickin a mf when he say the sky is red and the sun is blue- if for no other reason that you are happier in the delusion than in the reality for that moment.
June 1, 2007 @ 1:30 pm
jaedalaurez wrote:
wow- I obviously missed some shit while i was shopping….what the hella fitzgerald is going on?
01/06 13:26:35
Bascially I have this fine ass nigga that loves to breast fuck me…and mean LOVE, but get this he got a live-in girlfriend, but he do shit like pop up at 3:30 am to fucking tell me to take off my shirt and shit…and dont even ask how the hell it happen…cause I dont know myself…
June 1, 2007 @ 1:32 pm
if for no other reason that you are happier in the delusion than in the reality for that moment.
01/06 13:30:26
Yes..that’s how it is…for those moments he be here it do feel that way….its some fucking crazy emotionally shit…
Who lets a person spit on them…Shit who likes to get spit on…
June 1, 2007 @ 1:33 pm
I don’t know Trissa- I done read the thread…it sounds like he’s got YOUR mind, if you don’t "want him", but you just want him to be thinking about you all the time….
and he left a bottle of shit for Chlamydia on your table? i mean, aside from the whole STD thing…I just don’t know why a dude would keep that in his hand…I mean, I’d be scared somebodywould see it if it fell out my pocket or something.
June 1, 2007 @ 1:35 pm
‘but the shit keep calling me man’
Like I said, Maury can help.
‘but he do shit like pop up at 3:30 am to fucking tell me to take off my shirt and shit’
See…
If that ain’t good TV, I don’t know what the fuck is.
June 1, 2007 @ 1:36 pm
Nah Triss… I MEANT YOUR MAN…
I meant that you would be silly to think that you are the only one getting it from elsewhere..
June 1, 2007 @ 1:36 pm
trissa, I’ma ask a serious question…as part of the Tig Ole Bitty Committee, what exactly do you get out of titty fucking that would let that nigga come through at 3:30 in the morning? Cause that’s pretty much the first thing dudes want to do with a sista and it bores the shit out of me.
June 1, 2007 @ 1:39 pm
Now Triss…
lets add all this up…
The nigga got a girl and you got a man…
He don’t fuck you but your man does…
He had Chlamydia and was even brash enough to carry around the medication…
He only likes to titty fuck you ….
He likes to get spit on…
But he fine as hell …..
That shit don’t add up to regular attraction.
Something ain’t right and I think you know it…
June 1, 2007 @ 1:41 pm
jaedalaurez:
Shit he do got my mind…but let explain…I never meant for this shit to go this far..he started off being a fine ass barber that used to fade me up when I went to the shop..he had a girl, I had a dude, wasnt fucking around..then my boyfriend left, I then ran to the chance to holler at the barber…everything was good..he told me about the problems they was having…yada yada..then all HELL broke loose when they broke up…I then turned into the "friend in his time of need"…but I dint care casue he fine, I enjoyed his company, and he do his thang with the breast…I dont know how it got to him leaving parties while he with her to come see my chest..(No pun intended)
June 1, 2007 @ 1:42 pm
@JADAKISS…
Titty fucking is boring…. it might do something for 45 seconds… I would spend more time with em in my mouth trather than bang em…
Nothing can replace a cooch and a mouth..
Smoke and a pancake…
Cooch and a mouth …..
June 1, 2007 @ 1:44 pm
‘it bores the shit out of me.’
Not with a strategically placed dildo…
:lookscared:
June 1, 2007 @ 1:44 pm
jaedalaurez:
It’s not really the physical shit I get….
He like me to lick on his nipples while he do the shit or talk dirty to him..he likes to be called bitch, hoe, you know nasty..its a rush, especially now that we back with our partners…
June 1, 2007 @ 1:47 pm
‘especially now that we back with our partners…’
:smhfrown:
No need to even discuss it further…
you KNOW what you’re doing, and like it.
Just do you, and accept it.
but MAN LAW dictates that I must recommend if your ‘boyfriend’ is on the up and up…cut that nigga loose. Let him be.
Lunch for me!
June 1, 2007 @ 1:48 pm
But he fine as hell …..
That shit don’t add up to regular attraction.
Something ain’t right and I think you know it…
01/06 13:39:18
Are you trying to say he gay..cause I dont think that’s what it is…he dont give faggot or homo…
as far as the pills before I he left them on the table, he had said that he went to the doctor for a check up and he had a bacterial infection…I was like whatever cause we dont fuck and shit I dont really be giving you know head like that soooooo….
But when he left the bottle on the table I had to see what the shit was…See he thought I was gon ride with that infection bullshit…NOT!
June 1, 2007 @ 1:49 pm
but MAN LAW dictates that I must recommend if your ‘boyfriend’ is on the up and up…cut that nigga loose. Let him be.
I’m not getting rid og my boyfriend for that no good ass nigga..shit I gotta put the crack pipe down and I’ll be fine…
Hell Naw, I love my boyfriend..
June 1, 2007 @ 1:51 pm
willyjsimmons wrote:
‘it bores the shit out of me.’
Not with a strategically placed dildo…
Iono willy…i mean, if you have a perfectly good dick between your tits..move that thang down where we’ll BOTH be happy lol.
@ Trissa
Oh, so it’s more about the emotional feeling…that makes sense lol- although why not just get rid of your man if he’s not doing it for you like that?
June 1, 2007 @ 1:59 pm
Good question…cause I love him…
I dont want the barber..he aint shit, plus I will never be able to trust him…NEVER
but there is like 2 at my job that I’n trying very hard to stay away from…one of the dudes great boyfriend potential…and his girl lives in Maine..so its like he dont really have one…
When my boyfriend left in February, he opened up a big can of worms…the person that I thought I left in Houston, has came back and now I’m trying to put her back in the box, but she refuses to go…
June 1, 2007 @ 2:04 pm
well people I’m about to go get an ipod….i’ll holler!!!
ihadnochoice: you can still come to Chicago….I’ll make something up… :smilebig:
June 1, 2007 @ 2:07 pm
Why put yher in the box if that is really you ? u can’t suppress human instinct. That’s why I am single. Having a girl and doing the run around is too stressful and it isn’t worth it.I constantly think about wifing POCO but I know that I will cheat on her, no matter how good that cooch is . Its un natural to be monogamous but if you can do it than by all means you should do so. But you should feel like you got a crack addction just because you got a man. Get rid of you man and you can have all the crack that you want without the bullshit. Thats how diseases get spread…..
June 1, 2007 @ 2:13 pm
I dont want to let my boyfriend go and someone snatches his ass up…I’ve told him that I dont want to be "serious" right now…
I told him he’ll be the only getting the cooch, but I do want to see other people…cause emotionally he doesnt do it for me…
On the outside everybody be thinkin I gotta good man…which I do, but sometimes its emotionally straining
June 1, 2007 @ 2:16 pm
What up niggaz?
I just got finished reading this shit with Trissa. :blink:
Now Trissa you my nigga, but I’m bout to call you out. (no summer beef)
Women like you (more of your thinking than you actually) is why I treat broads like worthless pieces of shit.
Excuse me if I’m wrong, but to my understanding, you have a man. This guy spoils you and fucks the shit out of you. You say you love this nigga too. BUT, you’d rather fuck with a nigga WHO YOU SAID AIN’T BOUT SHIT. This nigga done had the claps.
And this nigga already has a girl.: :smhfrown:
THIS is the exact reason why I treat bitches like shit.
But no beef, cause you my nigga Trissa.
June 1, 2007 @ 2:22 pm
Wow!!!
I do get all that, but all comes with a price Chevy….I have to be this almost perfect person (at least that’s how I feel)and he can be emotionally abusive…so I creep…shit it aint like I’m fucking dude we just get off on each other…
the babrber helped me get my swagga back…
June 1, 2007 @ 2:23 pm
Call me what you wanna call me, dont call me collect…
June 1, 2007 @ 2:29 pm
trissa:
You ain’t gotta do shit to please somebody. Fuck whatever one of them niggaz that want you to be perfect. When both of them cats met you, you were the way you were. Now cause a nigga want you to change, you goin try to justify that shit by creeping with a nigga who has the claps.
And how the fuck can another muthafucka help you get your swagga back?
On the up and up, shit like that makes it hard for whatever good women are out there.
Let me ask you this. How would you feel if you found out that your boyfriend was getting his dick sucked by some broad cross town? And to top it off, what if the Chlamydia man told you that him and his girl was bout to get married? I know your pride ain’t goin let you admit it, but you would feel like shit.
And honestly, you would deserve that shit.
June 1, 2007 @ 2:37 pm
Why would I feel like shit…she is one gonna marry a nigga that cheats on her 24/7…I wouldnt give a rat’ass..shit I’d go to the wedding and pop the tities out…make his dick hard while he marrying her…honeslty I wouldnt care..I’d prolly ask when and what’s gonna be the colors…
As far as my boyfriend getting his dick suck…I dont know…Do I care yeah…would I be mad..sorta…would I get over it…yeah…
I’d more mad if he was "friends" with another bitch…cause that shit aint physical that emotional…that’s not cool!
June 1, 2007 @ 2:43 pm
If you say so.
I just want other women to see why some dudes treat women the way we do.
I get sick and tired of hearing bitches rambling on and on about how black men ain’t shit. Black men don’t do this. They don’t do that.
But this chick here has a nigga who she ADMITTED spoils her, tries to do something with himself, and she says she loves him
, but in the VERY SAME BREATH she justifies all the shit she does by saying "[b]I told him he’ll be the only getting the cooch, but I do want to see other people…cause emotionally he doesnt do it for me…[/b]" My goodness!
And this just took the cake…
"Why would I feel like shit…she is one gonna marry a nigga that cheats on her 24/7…I wouldnt give a rat’ass..shit I’d go to the wedding and pop the tities out…make his dick hard while he marrying her…honeslty I wouldnt care..I’d prolly ask when and what’s gonna be the colors…"
:tearssad: :sad:
June 1, 2007 @ 2:48 pm
Here we go
Latest Pew Poll results on interracial dating.
http://pewresearch.org/data...
83% of Americans find interracial dating acceptable.
81% amongst whites
97% amongst blacks
I think the only problem we have is that people who disagree, tend to be the loudest.
MAN LAW:
Trissa…stop.
If the shoe was on the other foot, you’d be callin a nigga all kinds a muthafuckaz and sonsabitches.
When’s the last time a man got away with sayin ‘I can’t help myself’ as an excuse for fuckin up?
Halle Barry’s used-to-be low confidence ass fuckin with Eric Benet…dumb nigga!
June 1, 2007 @ 2:50 pm
Chevy:
I really dont expect anyone to understand why I creep with the barber cause to be honest I dont understand.
I didnt intend on this shit going this far..hell just 3 weeks ago my ass had almost got caught. That’s when me and the barber had decided to cut the shit off..then not even 2 weeks after that he pops up at my crib at 3:30am talking about he "needed to see me" and to be honest shit I ‘needed to see him" too. When we feel asleep it was all natural and shit…that’s when I realized that I was in deep doo doo cause I was actually cheating on my boyfriend cause I like this dude…and yeah he got a lot of shit wrong and so do I…
The need to always be perfect is why when me and the barber are together we far from it…No frontin with each other…
June 1, 2007 @ 2:58 pm
Chevy:
You know I love you, but FUCK YOU…
Everything seem good to people on the outside, but when you gotta deal with somebody alomost treating you like a puppy..the shit can get on your nerves…
You need to be petted, but shit let me be…I cant explain it…
Just pray my ass dont get killed, that’s all I ask…i dont ask for ya’ll to understand or be in favor…I’m asking for prayers cause if my boyfriend find out..he gonna try to kill me!!!!
June 1, 2007 @ 2:58 pm
Trissa:
I’m goin tell you like this and I’m goin leave it right here.
The same way you doing all this "backdoor" shit, another broad is gonna do it to you when you trying to be straight up with a nigga.
I ain’t trying to understand why you fuck with a nigga with claps.
That’s you…get it how you live.
What I don’t understand is how you can be satisfied with being "the other woman" WHEN YOU ALREADY HAVE A MAN. That’s what has me puzzled.
The way you round here frontin on yourself and trying to justify bullshit is beyond my reasoning. Just let your boyfriend go. That nigga don’t deserve that shit man. Seriously.
What’s even more fucked up is that what if you end up fucking the Chlamydia man and take the claps back to your boyfriend? :scared:
June 1, 2007 @ 3:01 pm
Peace….
Oh yeah…
gettin my swagga back, the barber helped…when my boyfriend left the barber made me feel sexy…he made me feel like a lil sex kitten..that shit felt good at a time when I was feeling like shit on the inside. Now I have that feeling within me everyday…I’m a little sex kitten…they boyfriend shouldnt have never left
June 1, 2007 @ 3:03 pm
‘Just pray my ass dont get killed, that’s all I ask…i dont ask for ya’ll to understand or be in favor…I’m asking for prayers cause if my boyfriend find out..he gonna try to kill me!!!!’
:wow:
This is [i]exactly[/i] what I’m talking bout. Is all that shit even worth it? Just let your boyfriend go or be faithful. You can’t play both sides of the fence homie. You setting yourself up for the humbug.
But I’ll pray for you. Fuck it.
June 1, 2007 @ 3:06 pm
Chevy:
WE DONT HAVE INTERCOURSE..PLUS HE DONT HAVE THE SHIT NO MORE CAUSE HE WAS TAKING TREATMENT FOR IT!!!!
I DONT WANT THE BARBERS DICK..SHE CAN HAVE ALL THAT…ALL OF IT..
I’M GETTING WHAT I WANT….A PEICE OF HIS MIND…THE FACT THAT IM FULFILLING HIS SEXUAL DESIRES AND SHIT..THE FACT THAT HE COMES TO ME CAUSE SHE AINT HANDLING HERS…
THAT’S THE SHIT THAT TURNS ME ON…
*maybe its true: you cant turn a hoe into a housewife*
June 1, 2007 @ 3:07 pm
Im out…
I love ya’ll…I get every other Friday off so I’ll be back then…
June 1, 2007 @ 3:09 pm
:mutombo:
June 1, 2007 @ 3:09 pm
Be safe Trissa.
June 1, 2007 @ 3:12 pm
‘WE DONT HAVE INTERCOURSE’
:explode:
Bill Clinton says…
[img]http://tbn0.google.com/imag...[/img]Trissa buggin!
June 1, 2007 @ 3:13 pm
June 1, 2007 @ 3:40 pm
again, why I got to leave when shit gets good?
Trissa- Karma is a bitch…and that bitch is usually fucking your man behind your back. I’m not saying right or wrong here cause you grown, I’m just SAYIN. You throw that kinda shit up in somebody else’s life, it always comes back right when you think it’s all good.
June 2, 2007 @ 6:54 pm
‘You throw that kinda shit up in somebody else’s life, it always comes back right when you think it’s all good.’
That is what I was talking about. If she plans on getting married and/or settling down with someone, this shit WILL come back and bite her in the ass.
Then she’ll be saying "I can’t stand black men!"
