Terry McMilian Suing Gay Ex Husband For 40 Million
Terry McMillan is suing her former husband for $40 million, alleging that he tried to smear her reputation during their highly publicized 2005 divorce.
McMillan, 55, filed the complaint Wednesday in Contra Costa County Superior Court against Jonathan Plummer, 32, who inspired her best-selling 1996 novel, "How Stella Got Her Groove Back." The book, later adapted into a movie starring Angela Bassett and Taye Diggs, chronicled the adventures of a 40-something woman who falls for a guy half her age.
The lawsuit claims Plummer, a Jamaica native, married McMillan in 1998 only to become a U.S. citizen. He later announced that he's gay.Plummer's lawyer, Dolores Sargent, also is named in the lawsuit.
"The defendants conspired and formed a plan to threaten to humiliate and embarrass Terry McMillan," the lawsuit said, "and violate her privacy and place her in harm's way, and threatened to damage her professional and personal standing in an attempt to extort monies from her."
McMillan's allegations include emotional distress, invasion of privacy and placing her in a "false light" to harm her professionally and personally. She also claimed that Plummer violated a restraining order by calling her to speak with her son.
Ok, um………why was he calling to speak to her son? LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOO!


March 23, 2007 @ 9:54 am
The picture aint showin cause I aint got that far in the "How To Do Fancy Smancy Techy Shit" book I borrowed from Willy, but I know yall done seen this nigga before and he bout as straight as I am sober - we try, but we just cant help ourselves LOL.
March 23, 2007 @ 9:57 am
I blame her. She shouldn’t have married a flaming queer.
:laughevil:
March 23, 2007 @ 9:58 am
As you can see, I …. musta ….accidentally…. figured it out LOL
March 23, 2007 @ 9:58 am
LMAOOO! I blame her too, he look like he mighta been the guy in the public bathroom with George Michael LOL.
March 23, 2007 @ 9:59 am
Um…if the eye contacts didn’t give it away…**thinkin back to a friend I know who also wears colored contacts tryin to front**
NO COMMENT!
Lemme leave it alone.
March 23, 2007 @ 10:00 am
That GUY looks homo as hell. :blink:
March 23, 2007 @ 10:01 am
Terry.
Dude wearin eyeliner.
Knock it off.
LOL.
March 23, 2007 @ 10:08 am
That GUY looks homo as hell. :blink:
March 23, 2007 @ 10:12 am
"That GUY looks homo as hell."
He looks like he coulda designed that toothpaste suit, LOL.
"Fierce!" *snap*
March 23, 2007 @ 10:12 am
I’m thinkin:
Does he have 40 Million?
She’s better off tryin to get a Bucket of Original and some extra biscuits.
How the fuck you gonna be a ’sugar mama’ and try to sue…
And not know this guy was ’suspect’.
I know ya’ll saw her and dude on Oprah?
Terry was HEATED!!
My god!!!Shit was funny as hell.
March 23, 2007 @ 10:16 am
Yeah, I saw that shit, him wit his shells around his neck all tight LMAO! Nigga eyebrows was TIGHT! Skin just as flawless as it wanna be LMAOOOOOOO. You couldnt help but twist ya face up like "Thats some bullshit, Terry." LOL
March 23, 2007 @ 10:17 am
Mannn… this shit here.
To me thats what the lady gets… an how in the hell you didnt know that nigga was gay. I saw the interview they gave Oprah a while back and Terry and O was killin this nigga.
March 23, 2007 @ 10:18 am
"Thats some bullshit, Terry." LOL
March 23, 2007 @ 10:19 am
‘I saw the interview they gave Oprah a while back and Terry and O was killin this nigga.’
Oprah will turn on your ass in a minute won’t she.
If she hears you say something she don’t like…man…they had that nigga on the ‘HOT SEAT’.
March 23, 2007 @ 10:20 am
Thats what Im sayin, how you aint know, Terry? I could almost smell the cucumber melon thru the screen….
March 23, 2007 @ 10:22 am
‘I could almost smell the cucumber melon thru the screen….’
Aw shit!
Maybe that’s his natural scent.
Not all men smell like salty nuts.
My boss just left, so I gotta ‘act bad’.
BRB.
March 23, 2007 @ 10:23 am
WillyJ:
To this day I still dont know why niggas continue to go on that show…especially when you done got caught doing something. She’ll have you sitting between her and your girl… just fuckin your shit up. When I saw those two Rich Black Women sitting there I said…"This nigga dont stand a chance" cause whatever he say its gonna be wrong.LOL
March 23, 2007 @ 10:25 am
"Not all men smell like salty nuts."
LMAAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
Dude. LOL.
March 23, 2007 @ 10:27 am
Women smell like salty nuts too.
Equal opportunity.
March 23, 2007 @ 10:33 am
How she didnt know this nigga was gay the moment she saw him is beyond me…She should sue herself for being so dick hungry and naive…I dont feel sorry for her ass…She done it to her self…
March 23, 2007 @ 10:34 am
Salty nuts, or salty fish?
Oh boy.
Speakin of, my ex decided to ring my phone while I was mindin my business tryin to catch a buzz. :smhfrown:
Bitch stay fuckin up my high.
March 23, 2007 @ 10:36 am
What up, Triss?
I think its fucked up that women out here are being hoodwinked and bamboozled (LMAO) but Im sorry, I aint fuckin with Terry on this one. Aint no way in HELL…. and I still wanna know why dude was calling to speak to her son? LOL
March 23, 2007 @ 10:37 am
@Willy:
LMAOOOOOOO Im SOOOOO mad you go from "salty fish" to "speaking of my ex" LMAOOOOOOOOOO!
You aint shit. LOL.
March 23, 2007 @ 10:40 am
WillyJ
Please lets not even get on the ex cause i could give you a good one right now…
March 23, 2007 @ 10:46 am
These ex’s are hell.
I’m glad I’m cool with mine.



March 23, 2007 @ 10:47 am
‘You aint shit. LOL.’
@cjp
These broads man…
March 23, 2007 @ 10:47 am
Man, exes are only as much hell as you allow them to be. Learn to smack a bitch sometimes, LOL..
Kidding.
Kind of. LOL
March 23, 2007 @ 10:52 am
My ex and I are ‘cool’, I guess.
I just hate her cuz I love her still. :byself: :engarde: :hithammer: :smhfrown:
But I’m getting better.
The only bad thing is we’re all going to another MMA fight tonight, but the wives/girlfriends are going too…so no skrip club.:tearswail:
WTF!
March 23, 2007 @ 10:54 am
‘Man, exes are only as much hell as you allow them to be. [b]Learn to smack a bitch sometimes,[/b] LOL…’
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
March 23, 2007 @ 10:56 am
Yeah me and mine are still cool as well… but I guess she hasnt got use to me being good on my own
March 23, 2007 @ 11:00 am
"but I guess she hasnt got use to me being good on my own"
What she doing, sending you care packages? LOL
March 23, 2007 @ 11:03 am
dig:
Nah aint nothing like that… She just realizes the grass aint always greener on the other side… Especially when everything you deal with after is CRAB grass. LOL
March 23, 2007 @ 11:10 am
‘She just realizes the grass aint always greener on the other side…’
Ha haaaaaaaaaaaaaa!
That’s what she gets…
Crab grass!
March 23, 2007 @ 11:11 am
LMAO! Gotcha.
I always say it dont matter what side of the fence the grass is on if you aint gon take care of it. At the end of the day you still end up with asphalt.
March 23, 2007 @ 11:19 am
Dr. Dig is in the building.
sessions start now.
Get your mind right with our $20.07 special.
March 23, 2007 @ 11:24 am
Hey I dont know what it is…but I guess thats how things go.
March 23, 2007 @ 11:30 am
@ Willy
Let em know, son! I be tryna tell em! LOL
CJP: Not all things. Just the ones that aint meant.
March 23, 2007 @ 11:40 am
Well anyway speaking of squirting… I just found a new Movie and its call JADA Fire…"Squirtwoman" I will be viewing this in a couple of days an I will hit everyone back with a review… from the traileer it looks pretty nice…
March 23, 2007 @ 11:41 am
"Well anyway speaking of squirting"
*staring into the camera*
March 23, 2007 @ 11:43 am
‘JADA Fire…"Squirtwoman"’
:blink: :chacha: :coocoo: :jawdrop: :panic: :sofunny: :wow:
March 23, 2007 @ 11:44 am
@dig
He ain’t transition it like I did, did he?
Man….
March 23, 2007 @ 11:50 am
Hold up, I just saw something about Jada Fire in the recent comment section….what I miss? :blink:
And o yea, I seen a picture of homes way before they broke up…shit I thought he was a ‘mo then. Smarten up T….
March 23, 2007 @ 11:50 am
Im just saying… I just came with the first thing that popped into the head that time.
March 23, 2007 @ 11:54 am
Not at all, Willy. Not at all.
March 23, 2007 @ 11:55 am
@cjp
That was the first thing?
March 23, 2007 @ 11:55 am
@ CJP, was that from the email I sent you?
March 23, 2007 @ 11:59 am
WillyJ:
Yeah it was the first thing… Well that and Iraq… and who want to talk about that. LOL
Dig:
Yeah it was…but I bought the Movie online Monday.
March 23, 2007 @ 12:00 pm
"Yeah it was…but I bought the Movie online Monday."
Just terrible. :smhfrown:
March 23, 2007 @ 12:04 pm
Nah it wasnt terrible at all… From what I saw it looked like a good movie
March 23, 2007 @ 12:05 pm
‘Yeah it was the first thing… Well that and Iraq… and who want to talk about that. LOL’
I’m not complainin…
You already got the movie though…we need to talk.
March 23, 2007 @ 12:09 pm
WillJ:
ADULTVIDEOUNIVERSE.com
All Day everyday… Shit it even has movie ratings
March 23, 2007 @ 12:11 pm
CJP: You. Not the movie. But of course you knew that, LOL.
March 23, 2007 @ 12:12 pm
^wtf?
But on the real, nobody is fuckin with my porno collection…like 80GB…no lie
March 23, 2007 @ 12:15 pm
But on the real, nobody is fuckin with my porno collection…like 80GB…no lie
23/03 12:12:29
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
I dont download i just buy the DVDs Plus when you get the DVDs the shit has extras on it…
March 23, 2007 @ 12:16 pm
‘Nah it wasnt terrible at all… From what I saw it looked like a good movie’
ZING!
March 23, 2007 @ 12:16 pm
For real, Im curious…..
Why do yall think women dont collect that shit? (Pornos)
March 23, 2007 @ 12:16 pm
’shit has extras on it…’
There’s ‘extra’ beyond squirting?
:blink:
March 23, 2007 @ 12:21 pm
@Dig
Don’t know…I know my ex used to like watchin them, but nah she wouldn’t go out and cop.
(Side random-ass paranoid thought)
Damn, I hope if/when I get famous some of these convos never get made public
@willy
True. I done seen some wild shit…stuff that did NOTHING for me. Instead, you looking at the screen like wtf? :blink: Then look back at shorty:blink:…then the screen again:blink:, shake your head, and cut that shit off… :smhfrown:
March 23, 2007 @ 12:22 pm
dig:
Women are not as visual as men are…but there are exceptions to the rule. But for the most part i dont think women really get off into that much… and Besides Im a bit of a Voyeur So i like to watch…
WillyJ
I mean extra scenes… and trailers for more movies.
March 23, 2007 @ 12:24 pm
Here’s some shit.
My boss is a volunteer firefighter right…
dude is gone today helping with a [b]murder investigation[/b].
They done found a body out near some dam and shit.
March 23, 2007 @ 12:25 pm
‘I mean extra scenes… and trailers for more movies.’
I’m fuckin wit you.
But yeah, what ciceroe said. I’ve seen some scary shit.