Damn how many times have you looked back and wished you had kept him? How many women do you know that always go for the guy that will bust them upside the head and then walk all over the nice guy?
My issue was I do not like doormats. I don't like someone that believes everything I say and I don't like someone that thinks they must be with me 24 hours a day. I have an issue with my space being my space - I am a pretty much calm individual but my biggest turn off in a relationship is when someone wants to smother me like a fried pork chop!
What is it about a doormat that make your attitude change in a relationship? Do bad boys really get all the girls? If there is a fine line, where is it?
Describe your perfect mate? Physically and Emotionally
December 28, 2006 @ 7:52 am
Good question.
Me, I dont like bad boys. I like good guys with bad boy tendencies, LOL. Pretty much for the reason you stated above. I want a guy to be nice but nice doesnt mean doing whatever I say, whenever I say it, without question or alternate suggestion. I dont wanna feel like I can run over you because then you appear to have no backbone and the woman I am needs a man that not only compliments but supplements. You need to be a reflection of me and a doormat I aint never been LOL.
Cant say there was one I wish I had kept. I am the type that makes REAL sure before I walk away cause Im not in the habit of backtracking. All my exes are exes for a reason.
December 28, 2006 @ 8:07 am
See that is same way I feel. I was telling my sister last night that no one wants somebody to knock them out but they want a man that will knock another nigga out if he get outta pocket. I need a man to protect me but I don’t want a puppy following up behind me.
I have one regret b/c I did this guy totally wrong but he was a doormat and the more he let me do what I want the more I disrespected him - and as his friend I could not keep doing it!
December 28, 2006 @ 8:09 am
Nobody wants a pushover. Nobody wants a "yes" man. I want a man that can put his foot down, have a stance and be firm.
I love bad boys, but bad boys get a bad rap. I like to think of them as Corporate Gangstas. Gangstas with a nine to five. Someone who is of the streets but not still in the streets.
As far as physical features, I mean I am attracted to a certain type of dude, tall, dark skin, rough around the edges…but I’ve come to find that a lot of other things make men attractive, like swagger, personality, intelligence, so it’s hard to narrow that down.
December 28, 2006 @ 8:09 am
I hear you. Friendship is a funny thing, it can be the maker or breaker of a lot of relationships.
December 28, 2006 @ 8:12 am
NSite:
Yeah I have had all shapes and sizes as far as physical but they had some of the same charateristics.
But my thing would be tall dark and rough - but as I got older that was not working so as you get older your qualifications change and guys tend to change too. Their priorities change therefore the appeal switches
December 28, 2006 @ 8:15 am
Dig:
Yeah when someone is your friend it makes a difference.
I mean all oy my relationships b4 I was married never lasted past 2 years…lol I had a new dude every 18 months b/c if they ain’t complementing but 2 years - they probably won’t ever be ready to even be REAL Boyfriend status. Shit I just wanted a decent bf I was not even looking for a husband!
December 28, 2006 @ 8:16 am
@KSH
Exactly. As I’ve gotten older a lot of my preferences have changed, because I’ve started to change/grow as a person.
At this point in the game though I can even really say I have a type, LOL…at this point it’s more or less who I’m vibing with, who I feel I’m mentally compatible with, someone who shares my way of thinking…the physical thing just sort of falls in line.
December 28, 2006 @ 8:17 am
Nsite - yeah, thats what I call a good guy with bad boy tendencies. He got his shit together, and treats you good, but will not hesitate to stomp a mudhole in somebody’s ass for violating. Like you said, of the streets but not still in the streets. Knowing the game but not still playing them.
I tend to date taller guys just cause Im tall, but I really dont have a blueprint. I think even my closest friends would have a hard time picking out the guy I would date out of a room full of men if it were based on appearance alone. I could be attracted to the weirdest thing about a person physically (i.e. Fabolous’s eyebrows LOL)….. but everyone knows that with me, the gold is on the inside.
December 28, 2006 @ 8:18 am
Nsite: Ditto.
KSH: Yup.
December 28, 2006 @ 8:18 am
Top of the morning all!
I really dont have no type of guy that I am attracted to. I like them all, but no lames and no bitch made ass niggas. I dont like a nigga to "baby, baby" me all the time. I dont want a nigga to beat my ass, but I do want a nigga that aint scared to check my ass if need be. Ya Dig. I dont like mama’s boys cause they tend to be soft and listen to whatever the fuck they mama tell them to do.
Physically, I dont really care! No real big fat daddies though, cause Im big enough for the both of us! As long as you look good to me that’s all that matter. When I was younger I used to be the type that wanted the finest nigga in the school and shit. I had to realize that wasnt nothing behind that. He fucking me and 7 other hoes. Swagger is the most important thing for a nigga to have. if you aint got no swagger then please dont even try to talk to me!
December 28, 2006 @ 8:20 am
Trissa:
LMAOOOO
Yeah that is true. I was like that too. You know in high school everybody messing with the same fine dude…lol And then his ass turn out to be shit when he grow up!
December 28, 2006 @ 8:21 am
Swagger is the most important thing for a nigga to have. if you aint got no swagger then please dont even try to talk to me!
Posted by trissa at 12/28/06 08:18:24
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Girl swagger is the key…it can really tip the scale in a nicca’s favor…but it’s def something either you have or you don’t…
December 28, 2006 @ 8:24 am
And then his ass turn out to be shit when he grow up!
Posted by KSH at 12/28/06 08:20:58
Yes girl..It never fucking fails, it seems like the niggas that was the shit in high school turn out to gar-baaage afterwards…..I run into niggas now and I be like "Damn homie, in high school you was the man homie, wtf happen you"
LOL!
December 28, 2006 @ 8:25 am
LMAO!
December 28, 2006 @ 8:27 am
"Damn homie, in high school you was the man homie, wtf happen you"
LOL!
Posted by trissa at 12/28/06 08:24:08
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LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO….yeah, when you’re young, you tend to be pretty shallow. But if we knew then what we know now, shiiiiiiiiiiiit I would have made a play for the dude who won the science fair four years in a row (j/k) LOL
December 28, 2006 @ 8:27 am
LMAOOOO nigga probably work for NASA now LOL!
December 28, 2006 @ 8:28 am
Oh lawd…here we go.
As the resident quiet fellow and former "Good Guy"… I have to say that I have caught more bees with Vinegar than i could ever with Honey… When i was younger I use to wonder why was that. but now it really doesnt matter…I am what I am. I’m nice…If Im with a woman i try to give my all to her…Now could you run over me HELL NO…But I will be as good to you as I possibly can…But please dont take the kindness for a weakness.
December 28, 2006 @ 8:29 am
@CJP, what do you mean "former good Guy"…you bad boy now? You signed with Puff?
December 28, 2006 @ 8:29 am
I would have made a play for the dude who won the science fair four years in a row (j/k) LOL
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 08:27:07 | edit delete ban
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Science fair…lol
December 28, 2006 @ 8:30 am
@CJP, what do you mean "former good Guy"…you bad boy now? You signed with Puff?
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 08:29:12 | edit delete ban
You gonna need to stop that! It is too damn early…lmaooooo
December 28, 2006 @ 8:31 am
CJP:
Yeah I feel you my bf is nice ass fuck..the nigga will give anything I want as long as it aint not outlandish shit…but let me do something stupid..this nigga flips quick ass hell.. I be like where did this side of you come from, but that’s what I like about him….He can be sweet as fuck and then be rough as hell. That’s how I like it!
December 28, 2006 @ 8:36 am
CJP: Take that, take that! LMAOOOOOO
December 28, 2006 @ 8:39 am
@CJP, what do you mean "former good Guy"…you bad boy now? You signed with Puff?
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 08:29:12 |
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
I mean in the sense of just letting shit go with woman or girl shall I say…when I was much younger I was one of those guys that yall talked about… After getting completely ran over one time…Things change and so did my attitude. I mean Im still nice to women but now its not to my detriment.
December 28, 2006 @ 8:48 am
Posted by cjp at 12/28/06 08:39:54
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Ok I copy…I’m that way kinda sorta as well…been taken for a ride and now I do the drivin, feel me?
December 28, 2006 @ 8:50 am
Ok I copy…I’m that way kinda sorta as well…been taken for a ride and now I do the drivin, feel me?
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 08:48:53 |
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Coining phrases and shit, look at me rubbin off on you! LOL
December 28, 2006 @ 8:51 am
I don’t know if I’m a good guy or bad guy. :?: :oops:
But from my earlier experiences, I’ve come to the conclusion that nice/good guys will get ran over by females. 8O
I don’t understand it, but that’s the way it is. :x
December 28, 2006 @ 8:53 am
What’s up Chevy G?
Spittin Patron on ho’s classifies you as a good guy now? LOL
December 28, 2006 @ 8:53 am
Dig you wild
December 28, 2006 @ 8:54 am
I think there is a difference between a good guy and a simp. People tend to get it confused.
December 28, 2006 @ 8:54 am
Yeah once you get that taste of utter embarassment or disrespect - it can’t happen again if you are smart ya know.
You know you hate that muthfucka for doing you like that but now you thank them b/c had not it been for that ONE asshole you would not be as savy as you are now! Gotta love’em!
December 28, 2006 @ 8:56 am
NSite
I feel ya…I mean when I’m with a woman there is nothing I wont give her…Thats what I love doing…but some women dont know how to take that…and thats where things get fucked up…But when you find sombody that do…its beautiful.
December 28, 2006 @ 8:56 am
What up NSite?
You’re crazy as hell for that one.
But WHENEVER I treat a woman like shit, she’s gonna stay around. No complaints or nothing. The same thing in the streets. Women always say I’m cocky, arrogant, or nonchalant. But they like it. I’ve gotten more pussy off of being disrespectful and mannish then being nice and gentleman like.
8)
December 28, 2006 @ 8:57 am
Good guys can be rough around the edges and have that thug mentality but still be as sweet as hot apple pie!
Now simple muthas don’t have a clue - they have that dumb blonde syndrome. Mr. Simpleton can’t catch onto to shit - even obvious shit!
He will be like "Baby your phone rang at 4am, it must have been the wrong number"
A real dude will be like "Who the fuck calling you at 4am?"
December 28, 2006 @ 8:58 am
A real dude will be like "Who the fuck calling you at 4am?"
Posted by KSH at 12/28/06 08:57:07 |
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
And dare you to get another one at 4am LOL.
December 28, 2006 @ 9:02 am
A real dude will be like "Who the fuck calling you at 4am?"
Posted by KSH at 12/28/06 08:57:07 |
Shit it better be somebody calling cause they ass is dead! LOL!
December 28, 2006 @ 9:02 am
And dare you to get another one at 4am LOL.
Posted by dig at 12/28/06 08:58:52 | edit delete ban
Okay that is what I’m saying…lol Then if it’s your homegirl crying about her man "Tell that bitch to call her mama or something"…lmaoooooooo
December 28, 2006 @ 9:03 am
KSH
For the women that dont understand me…I am an asshole…Like this one chick I was getting to know…all she did was talk about herself.EVERY DAMN DAY…that shit got on my nerves. I would start to talk about myself and she would just start running her damn mouth…to this day I bet you the bitch couldnt even tell you my middle name….DUMB ASS
December 28, 2006 @ 9:03 am
@Chevy
That’s how I carry shit…it goes both ways…I dog niccas, don’t return their phone calls, talk shit, won’t come and see them…that shit drives them wild…and I can’t even say that I do that shit on purpose…that just how a nicca is going these days…but hey…they luv it!!
December 28, 2006 @ 9:05 am
But how come MOST women treat the dudes who are nice to them like that?
I know some women who will kill for their nigga, won’t cheat on him or nothing, but he’ll beat the shit out of them. And I know some women who have these niggaz who do EVERYTHING for them. Buying them shit, dealing with their woman-like attitude swings, and other ‘nice guy’ type shit. But these chicks will dog this nigga out, fuck other niggaz, and just generally make a mockery of his manhood.
And I can vouch for that. Cause I have been only ‘nice’ to two women in my whole life. And I lost both times. So from here on out, it’s me first, her tenth.
December 28, 2006 @ 9:06 am
Damn
yall already started
ahhh
don’t ya just love
Take it like a Champ Thursdays :twisted:
December 28, 2006 @ 9:07 am
Okay that is what I’m saying…lol Then if it’s your homegirl crying about her man "Tell that bitch to call her mama or something"…lmaoooooooo
Posted by KSH at 12/28/06 09:02:57 |
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
December 28, 2006 @ 9:12 am
Well dont get it twisted, men aint the only ones who get the shaft when they try to give their all to somebody. Women get burned too.
December 28, 2006 @ 9:12 am
@Chevy
Well I don’t consider it "dogging" a nicca out because I am straight up with it, no chaser…it is what it is…I’m not tryna lock niccas down and I CAN’T be locked down…so either we gonna play on my terms or we ain’t gonna play…I never set out to intentionally hurt people, but at the same time, you can’t make me the culprit because you couldn’t keep your feelings in check…
December 28, 2006 @ 9:13 am
Chevy
I feel ya…but now that think back most of those women weren’t women at all…Hell most of them never probably even seen a how a man was supposed to be treated in the first place…An I guarantee you for any woman that have done me wrong…Now they wish they didnt…
December 28, 2006 @ 9:14 am
Damn N-site..you hard on these fools..shiiit!
December 28, 2006 @ 9:15 am
Chevy:
Yeah I pust admit that I have run over a couple of dudes - when I was 20 Iwas dating this dude and he got beat up in a club - I dumoped him. I can’t have you getting yo ass beat like that.
He was under the table like a bitch in the fetal position! I can’t have you repping me like that and the dude was half his size - come on now! He was sweet but he was too sweet - I can’t do know scary nigga!
Now my last boyfriend was completely opposite - he was sweet but he would start shit in the club hitting niggas over the head with barstools - every single place we went we got barred - and if he starting shit I can’t do that! Then laugh about it - that shit ain’t right!
But if you are a straight doormat I can’t fuck with you! Simple muthafuckas get no love from me at all! I like a nigga to at least come and snatch me off the danceflo if I am getting to rowdy
December 28, 2006 @ 9:19 am
But if you are a straight doormat I can’t fuck with you! Simple muthafuckas get no love from me at all! I like a nigga to at least come and snatch me off the danceflo if I am getting to rowdy
Posted by KSH at 12/28/06 09:15:10 |
LMAOOOO
Now KSH you know that aint right…you should have enough respect for a nigga not to do shit like that…the male ego is a very fragile thing.
December 28, 2006 @ 9:19 am
I like a nigga to at least come and snatch me off the danceflo if I am getting to rowdy
Posted by KSH at 12/28/06 09:15:10 |
Let the chuuuch say amen!
December 28, 2006 @ 9:20 am
KSH:
I feel you on that one. A woman shouldn’t be with no scared ass nigga. But how can a nigga come back from getting his ass stomped out in front of his girl? She won’t take him serious no more.
NSite:
That’s real shit. If you CAN’T play the game, DON’T play the game. You already know.
Dig:
Yeah women get burned too. But it just seems like when dudes stretch out for them, they just play niggaz to the left.
But hey, "that’s life."
December 28, 2006 @ 9:21 am
@Trissa
You gotta be…sad to say…
December 28, 2006 @ 9:23 am
@KSH
HAHA Why you Dumpin hdz for losin fights
December 28, 2006 @ 9:24 am
Don’t no woman wanna see her man get floored or crouched down in a corner like a lil bitch…if that should happen to a dude I’m with…I’ma need to check his pants and see if he got balls…
December 28, 2006 @ 9:27 am
CJP:
I know the male ego is like crystal but you know if a dude at least bust in the ckub and snatch you off the danceflo you ain’t really trying that shit no more. The Barstool we had the roughest relationship but the best damn sex! He would not beat my ass - we would straight up fight!
I mean he was 250lbs 6′5 - how much fighting was I really doing and how much was he letting me get away with. He could be sweet as hell then be cold as ice! But I’m rowdy so if you put yo hands on me you better be willing to take a hit…lol
But if you and dude have an altercation and he hiding his face and shit - Ima laugh! If I can possibly beat yo ass - you don’t stand a chance. If I am leaving and you jump on my car for me not to leave Ima spin tires like a mad woman - that shit is not cute and degrading to yourself!
December 28, 2006 @ 9:28 am
Nah, Chevy, I cant ride with that one.
December 28, 2006 @ 9:29 am
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 09:21:37 |
I dont know..maybe that’s why I am in my real first relationship at 25. Yes there were guys that I liked in undergrad and things like that but I’ve come to realize that I wasn’t ready to give 100%. Shit when I first got into this relationship it took like a year for me to finally realize that I was doing a lot of taking and not enough giving. I dont like the word "Game". That shit is stupid, that’s how people get killed and shit trying to run "game" and shit…just be open and honest with that person.
I think a lot of the times when people try to run "game" is because they scared of getting hurt and shit. I’ve realized getting hurt is the risk you take when are in a relationship…It’s all apart of the "game". I’ve never even dealt with niggas that try and run "game" on me cause dumb ass nigga you think you the first one to say or do that shit..Hell no!
December 28, 2006 @ 9:29 am
@KSH
HAHA Why you Dumpin hdz for losin fights
Posted by banga at 12/28/06 09:23:37 | edit delete ban
Say if you get ambushed by 2 or 3 dudes I can see but if one on one you go in bitch mode and start acting like a pussy when I dude is testing your manhood - I might help that nigga beat you ass!
I need a man that if his homeboi is getting beat down by 3 dudes he say "Baby hold my wallet" - and he all in it - then we good! And if a dude check you and you don’t handle him - dude you can’t handle no parts of KSH!
December 28, 2006 @ 9:29 am
I used to bounce at a club called Europa
Alot of times its the females that get their mans ass whooped
some of yall just make matters worse
December 28, 2006 @ 9:32 am
Dig:
8O 8O 8O
I don’t know how you could say that. It ALWAYS happens.
December 28, 2006 @ 9:32 am
He could be sweet as hell then be cold as ice! But I’m rowdy so if you put yo hands on me you better be willing to take a hit…lol
Posted by KSH at 12/28/06 09:27:17 |
Hells yeah!
But I have acted a fool with the boyfriend when he was talking bout leaving..i was like nigga you finna either beat my ass or sit your ass down and let’s make this shit work..I dont play that..I finna walk out bullshit…you better mean that shit.on the real! I take relationships too seriously for that!
December 28, 2006 @ 9:33 am
what up peoples…
I learned the game from fuckin w/ shiesty broads, I used to be that super doormat nigga, all chivelrous and shit. Never a captain save a hoe but not "Nilla Wafers".
Isn’t it a big cluster fuck when you think about it, women say all men are dogs, but a lot of them dudes were good niggas who got done dirty, by chicks who can’t trust niggas who can’t trust women…it just goes on and on.
"the Mirror on a mirror effect"
December 28, 2006 @ 9:34 am
I need a man that if his homeboi is getting beat down by 3 dudes he say "Baby hold my wallet" - and he all in it - then we good! And if a dude check you and you don’t handle him - dude you can’t handle no parts of KSH!
Posted by KSH at 12/28/06 09:29:46 |
Hell naw…If his boy getting his ass whooped by 3 other niggas aint no since in my nigga being number 2. he better just pull his boy out the fight…Cause we all know that mofo’s dont fight no more..they wanna shoot and shit if they got they as beat!
December 28, 2006 @ 9:34 am
Posted by trissa at 12/28/06 09:29:25
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Yeah I feel you…relationships are a beautiful thing…they just aren’t for me…I like my freedom, I like my space…I like to be drama free and I’ve found that they best way to keep those things in the forefront is for me to roll dolo…
December 28, 2006 @ 9:35 am
KSH
Now an asswhoppin in the club is one thing…
but If i have to snatch your ass off the dance floor I aint fucking with you…I feel if I’m doing my job i shouldn’t have to worry about shit like that… You got one time to disrespect me…and all bets are off…cause I’ll have another bitch all in the bed we sleep in…Just off General Principal…LOL
December 28, 2006 @ 9:35 am
Banga:
You ain’t lying. I remember when I was at this club in Orlando. This nigga got into it with some dude. Now the nigga was WAY bigger than the nigga he was arguing with. I turned around to get my cell phone from my nigga. By the time I turned back around, this big ass nigga was laid out. The lil nigga had done stepped. And this big ass nigga’s girl standing over him saying, "you always wanna push and choke me, but you let THAT nigga knock your punk ass out!"
His life will NEVER be the same.
December 28, 2006 @ 9:39 am
Chevy:
No not always. Men like to blame the woman, but a lot of times its their own doing that things dont work out for them. Im not sayin some women aint just trifling, but I know from my own experience that some men cut their own throats taking shit for granted. And sometimes its just karma coming back at you. You can only dog so many women until one day your own nose is wide open and it comes back at you.
December 28, 2006 @ 9:39 am
naj
When women say all men are dogs…man I just tell em…"Naw sweetie all the men YOU PICK are dogs…You might need to do something about your selection process"…They never have shit to say after that…
December 28, 2006 @ 9:43 am
cosign CJP
I don’t date chicks that are prone to beef like that
I date women that don’t turn the other cheek
if your the type that beef Im only steppin if I think its gettin outa hand or the odds are against you
other than that you gotta man up and fight your own battles ma
I find chicks that beef like that will have you in court on day
As far as Beefin wit me
I don’t beef wit any woman
I just seen to many cases where it escalates and evolves into a problem
so I check chicks up front
you can kus me out and toss a tantrum whatever
but don’t hit me and if you feel like throwin something aim at the wall
Im just not gonna be one of dudes in a domestic situation cause we all know which one of us is going to jail.
December 28, 2006 @ 9:43 am
Dig:
Aint that the truth…EVERY dog has it’s day!
CJP:
And when my older cousin told me that..that’s when I decided to stop all the shit I was doing and find a "real nigga"
December 28, 2006 @ 9:45 am
KSH
Now an asswhoppin in the club is one thing…
but If i have to snatch your ass off the dance floor I aint fucking with you…I feel if I’m doing my job i shouldn’t have to worry about shit like that… You got one time to disrespect me…and all bets are off…cause I’ll have another bitch all in the bed we sleep in…Just off General Principal…LOL
Posted by cjp at 12/28/06 09:35:08 | edit delete ban
Most of time you know dudes call themselves breaking up with you b/c he got caught fucking up - then you gotta do something that will get his attention!
I did that when I was younger but I don’t play with my hubby like that b/c he is a shooter so I don’t even play like that anymore.
December 28, 2006 @ 9:47 am
His life will NEVER be the same.
Posted by Chevy at 12/28/06 09:35:41 | edit delete ban
I suppose not 8)
December 28, 2006 @ 9:49 am
Posted by banga at 12/28/06 09:43:13 |
Thats whats up dawg…I dont play that shit. I’ll deal with alot ya know but all that extra shit I just dont do… Its like what Willie D said…"I treat a bitch like a Queen…but she got to realize that I’m the gotdamn King"
December 28, 2006 @ 9:51 am
…"I treat a bitch like a Queen…but she got to realize that I’m the gotdamn King"
Posted by cjp at 12/28/06 09:49:58 | edit delete ban
Awww damn you better be glad I married you and Dig the other day or I would be committing bigomy!
December 28, 2006 @ 9:54 am
Awww damn you better be glad I married you and Dig the other day or I would be committing bigomy!
Posted by KSH at 12/28/06 09:51:18 |
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
LMAO, Yeah and on that note, Ima need you to stop issuing marriage licenses and room keys in the same sentence, mmkay? I know there is something morally corrupt about that process, LOL.
December 28, 2006 @ 9:58 am
Dig:
I think it all depends on your definition of ‘dogging’ women. If you’re up front with your shit, you ain’t dogging her.
And I KNOW that women think that ‘taking someone for granted’ is COMPLETELY the opposite of what a guy thinks.
December 28, 2006 @ 9:59 am
KSH
Married? When did I get married…
December 28, 2006 @ 10:02 am
CJP:
LOL! Niggas is scared of that word!
December 28, 2006 @ 10:03 am
LOL! Niggas is scared of that word!
Posted by trissa at 12/28/06 10:02:43
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Shit I am too!!
December 28, 2006 @ 10:04 am
Chevy:
True, on the first point. As far as women and men and how they think, yeah they see things completely different nine times outta ten, but aint too much gray area in taking something for granted…
December 28, 2006 @ 10:05 am
KSH
Married? When did I get married…
Posted by cjp at 12/28/06 09:59:08 | edit delete ban
Men! Nigga been pronounced married 2 days 12 hours 32 mins & 6 secs and he is oblivious…lol
December 28, 2006 @ 10:07 am
Dig:
It could be a lil gray area. A person could really appreciate something, but not know how to use it to their advantage.
Does that mean that they’re taking the person for granted?
December 28, 2006 @ 10:07 am
Trissa
LMAOOOOO…
Scared is not on the menu…I just wanna know when this got set up
December 28, 2006 @ 10:07 am
"Stop wait a minute…"
Marriage ain’t for the faint at heart…lol
Me and hubby are cool most of the time but I KNOW I get on his nerves and he get on mine too - ain’t shit changed but if one of us die the other one is gonna "…be rich biyaattccchh" - He be wanting to choke me daily…lol
December 28, 2006 @ 10:08 am
CJP
we on the same page
I treat women how they act
act like a lady you get treated like one
act like a hoe Ima treat you like one
act like a queen Ima treat you like one
you act like a bitch
and Ima treat you like one too
and if you act like a bitch too often
then got damn it you are one!
pretty sure women feel the same about men
I ain’t no expert on women
but I pay attention to detail
most women will tell you what they’re really about with their actions
If their full of sht if your payin attention you’ll catch on real quick.
Same for men cause I never understand how women can’t tell their man is full of it
December 28, 2006 @ 10:08 am
Men! Nigga been pronounced married 2 days 12 hours 32 mins & 6 secs and he is oblivious…lol
Posted by KSH at 12/28/06 10:05:16 |
Shit I didnt know….Yall know I be trying to play the back…LOL
December 28, 2006 @ 10:08 am
LOL! Niggas is scared of that word!
Posted by trissa at 12/28/06 10:02:43
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Shit I am too!!
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 10:03:20 |
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Y’all niggas need garlic necklaces and wooden crosses? I’m got them shits 2 for $5.
Use on of them plastic cups Trissa keeps handy and take some of this holy water!
December 28, 2006 @ 10:09 am
Dig:
It could be a lil gray area. A person could really appreciate something, but not know how to use it to their advantage.
Does that mean that they’re taking the person for granted?
Posted by Chevy at 12/28/06 10:07:15
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Yes, because it’s not about "using it for your advantage" it’s about it being your passion, your desire, your pleasure…not a tax deductible, LOL
December 28, 2006 @ 10:10 am
Posted by banga at 12/28/06 10:08:03 |
Yeah its just like the Roles I wrote about…Women put themselves in those roles…We just play it that way.
December 28, 2006 @ 10:13 am
Chevy:
I think when youre given the pen, you write your own endings. But I digress.
December 28, 2006 @ 10:14 am
NSite:
This is why we fight every week.:x
I didn’t mean ‘advantage’ in those terms. I meant to fully commit to something. It’s not taking it for granted.
Bad choice of words.
December 28, 2006 @ 10:14 am
Yes, because it’s not about "using it for your advantage" it’s about it being your passion, your desire, your pleasure…not a tax deductible, LOL
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 10:09:18 |
^^^^^^^^^^^^^
You are so damn stupid LMAOOOO!
December 28, 2006 @ 10:14 am
Use on of them plastic cups Trissa keeps handy and take some of this holy water!
Posted by naj at 12/28/06 10:08:59 |
uhmm why the fuck my cups gotta be plastic..you trying to call me cheap nigga..LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
December 28, 2006 @ 10:14 am
Yeah its just like the Roles I wrote about…Women put themselves in those roles…We just play it that way.
Posted by cjp at 12/28/06 10:10:36 | edit delete ban
No joke women ain’t stupid but some think they smart enough to fool a guy into changing the role for them.
My friend is a straight booty call but she pretend to be homegirl #1 - this dude don’t even talk to you when you are out - he might speak and he only calls after 1am - and he NEVER spends the night. How you gonna upgrade yourself? Damn why must I channnel my "Inner Nigga" to let her know this shit. If you are 25 and you don’t knoe this shit - you need to upgrade your brain cells for real!
December 28, 2006 @ 10:16 am
I think when youre given the pen, you write your own endings. But I digress.
Posted by dig at 12/28/06 10:13:18
That’s true. But if all the characters don’t understand the plot, the story is bound to be fucked up.
December 28, 2006 @ 10:16 am
Chevy:
You cant segment a situation, you have to look at the entire thing. Its all cause and effect. You cant take out what you did right about something and ignore what was done wrong. In most cases there is right and wrong on the part of both people, and when thats the case, you just gotta chalk it up to experience cause its not always somebody else’s fault.
December 28, 2006 @ 10:18 am
Ya’ll niggas is real deep today!
December 28, 2006 @ 10:19 am
Yeah its just like the Roles I wrote about…Women put themselves in those roles…We just play it that way.
Posted by cjp at 12/28/06 10:10:36
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Hold the line a minute cowpoke…cause y’all niggas be quick to over step ya bounds too…
@Chevy
Hey, I just took what you said as what you meant homey, LOL
December 28, 2006 @ 10:20 am
uhmm why the fuck my cups gotta be plastic..you trying to call me cheap nigga..LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
Posted by trissa at 12/28/06 10:14:26
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Nah…but I remember back in the day on myspace, a good chunk of your pics had the "plastic cup look"-LOL
You know it’s all love Triss.
BTW
Nothing wrong w/ plastic cups…I hate washing dishes, so a nigga will buy the plasticware…
December 28, 2006 @ 10:21 am
Posted by KSH at 12/28/06 10:14:47 |
Its cause whoever she’s fkin
has a strong pipe game
happens everytime
its like a chick wit good psy
you over look sht
like the huge overbite starts lookin kinda cute
that patch over the right eye becomes a fashion statement
the inabilty to match their shirt and sneakers becomes artistic
the constant drool is now lubricant
that 1oclock phone call is because hes scared of the dark and likes your company
you forgive sht
haha
December 28, 2006 @ 10:21 am
Hey, I just took what you said as what you meant homey, LOL
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 10:19:53
December 28, 2006 @ 10:24 am
Eh Chevy…you know GA ain’t nothin’ but a hop, skip and a jump…don’t make me come down there, LOL
December 28, 2006 @ 10:25 am
Hold the line a minute cowpoke…cause y’all niggas be quick to over step ya bounds too…
@Chevy
Hey, I just took what you said as what you meant homey, LOL
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 10:19:53 | edit delete ban
Okay see now I will say that most of the time dudes can hold there role better than us women folk - I have guy friends and I tell them all the time - the worst thing to do is to lead a female to water you REALLY don’t want her to drink - don’t tell her you love her when you just love the fie head!
Niggas usually keep their roles - the problem is that they don’t let homegirl know what that role is…lol
Niggas talk to much shit after fucking for one thing. "Girl I could stay here all night, but I gotta take my mom to church in the morning" - that is some bum shit right there!
Or "I want you to meet my momma, on day soon" - Sometime you need to keep those lies to yourself b/c that be bullshit!
December 28, 2006 @ 10:27 am
Posted by naj at 12/28/06 10:20:16 |
Oh yeah well in that case I keeps me a cup! LOL!
December 28, 2006 @ 10:28 am
KSH: HALLELUJAH AND AMEN!
You can just go on head and cut and past that into your 360 and we’ll call it even LOL.
December 28, 2006 @ 10:28 am
Posted by KSH at 12/28/06 10:25:41
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I have to disagree…I lot of dudes that I have dealt with line jump…nicca, it’s not your turn…it’s only Wednesday, your day is Friday…be easy…
It does happen…there are just as many men out here tryna "lock" a good woman down as there are women tryna "lock" ANY nigga down, LOL
December 28, 2006 @ 10:28 am
paste*
December 28, 2006 @ 10:29 am
NSite:
Alright tough guy, don’t make me do it. :?
December 28, 2006 @ 10:29 am
Posted by banga at 12/28/06 10:21:25 | edit delete ban
LMAOOOO The eye patch Banga? LOL Damn yeah i hear you but that late night creeping and shit has gotta be a wake up call. I told her that nigga swoop through like Vampire In Brooklyn -
"You don’t want no problems"…lol
December 28, 2006 @ 10:31 am
"Girl I could stay here all night, but I gotta take my mom to church in the morning" - that is some bum shit right there!
Posted by KSH at 12/28/06 10:25:41 |
What dumb ass female really truley believes that shit. The problem with females is that we have "hoop dreams" and shit. If this you and this nigga started off just cutting then 9 times outta 10 that’s how that shit gonna stay! Most niggas is not galing they cut. Females be wishing on stars and shit..Bitch ya’ll is just fuck buddies.. We need to wake up and be real with ourselves…and stop thinking that we can hanlde just being fuck buddies with niggas when in reality we really want more!
December 28, 2006 @ 10:34 am
It does happen…there are just as many men out here tryna "lock" a good woman down as there are women tryna "lock" ANY nigga down, LOL
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 10:28:37 | edit delete ban
Now I wish I could agree but I can’t. There are guys out there like that but for every guy I know I could name 5 women that try to make a dude want them. How you gonna pop up at a nigga church and think he gonna want you to sit with him? I think women take that shit to a whole other level - and Lord don’t let him have a woman - some women think that is "America’s Best Man Catcher" game show. "Ima show that ho that her man want me" - Women be on some other shit.
Dudes are more sneaky and laid back with theirs. Women are good at their but I have seen more women begging a nigga than I have vice versa and I lot of niggas do secret begging but if you beggin outside the club in front of 300 people while holding on to his leg…hell no women!
December 28, 2006 @ 10:35 am
We need to wake up and be real with ourselves…and stop thinking that we can hanlde just being fuck buddies with niggas when in reality we really want more!
Posted by trissa at 12/28/06 10:31:53
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Shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit…fuck buddies is where it’s at…the problem is finding a nicca that can hold up the "fuckin" end of the bargain…I don’t ask for much..shit you do you, I’ma do me and when we together, we bring that shit together…we ain’t gotta wear matching sweatsuits and have t-shirts printed with our picture at the mall…
December 28, 2006 @ 10:37 am
KSH/NSite:
There are definitely men out there that fit the bill, but Ima say women are way more prone to that shit.
December 28, 2006 @ 10:38 am
Shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit…fuck buddies is where it’s at…the problem is finding a nicca that can hold up the "fuckin" end of the bargain…I don’t ask for much..shit you do you, I’ma do me and when we together, we bring that shit together…we ain’t gotta wear matching sweatsuits and have t-shirts printed with our picture at the mall…
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 10:35
I know fuck buddies is the shit, but what fucks the shit is when one person starts to have feelings for the other person and they want to have a "real relationship"..it dont work like that…how you start is how you finish..
BTW:
that matching shit is gay as fuck!
December 28, 2006 @ 10:40 am
KSH:
I’m goin be dead serious with y’all. No disrespect to any of the females on here, cause y’all know I love y’all.
But the fact of the matter is there are a lot of shiftless women in the world. Now don’t get me wrong, cause a LOT of niggaz ain’t bout shit. But it’s WAY more females that ain’t bout shit.
MOST females are on some sell me a dream type shit. Meaning that most would rather a nigga lie to them than be straight up and down. That’s where men get that bad rap from.
I MIGHT BE WRONG, BUT THAT’S MY OPINION.
December 28, 2006 @ 10:42 am
Niggas usually keep their roles - the problem is that they don’t let homegirl know what that role is…lol
Sorry KSH
that ain’t always true
I don’t know what all women experience
but some of yall will think what you wanna think
Especially if you’ve been kickin it for a while
Once some of yall get confortable the expectations just change
I tell women all the time that Im not tryin to be tied down
I just wanna kick wit and hump
the issue I find is the expectations will change Im still kickin it business as usual and Im gettin sht back like we agreed to date exclusively or Im hearing shorty pop off like Im bonded to her. And it becomes clear at some point you developed feeling but you never opened your mouth and said
I want to be more than a smash partner.
Some of yall (and I can’t speak on how it is for women vs men) when yall like someone even if he tells you up front
yall try to lock him down anyway and get your feeling hurt in the process.
And this sht happens alot
Its a convo ngz have often cause you like shorty and don’t wanna cut her off but you know once it gets to that point
its a wrap.
December 28, 2006 @ 10:42 am
So KSH…here’s the question:
Isn’t that shit damned if you do damned if you don’t?
Like I said earlier, I learned that pimpin shit from females, all those loopholes and shit from broads. When I was honest about what the position was she would play on the team, she called it arrogance, but still fucked with me, then said "you stringin me along".
But then when I’m not lettin her know that there’s really a team, she called me sweet. But when she found out I was the owner of the greatest legal stable of broads known to mankind, I wasn’t shit for stringing her along…
Either way the Loose Ends song plays at the end of the movie and I ain’t shit.
December 28, 2006 @ 10:43 am
know fuck buddies is the shit, but what fucks the shit is when one person starts to have feelings for the other person and they want to have a "real relationship"..it dont work like that…how you start is how you finish..
BTW:
that matching shit is gay as fuck!
Posted by trissa at 12/28/06 10:38:57
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Yeah I feel you…sometimes that can happen…
Oh yeah and the matching outfits thing is sooooooo wack…I think that’s for oldheads, LOL
December 28, 2006 @ 10:45 am
Some of yall (and I can’t speak on how it is for women vs men) when yall like someone even if he tells you up front
yall try to lock him down anyway and get your feeling hurt in the process.
And this sht happens alot
Its a convo ngz have often cause you like shorty and don’t wanna cut her off but you know once it gets to that point
its a wrap.
Posted by banga at 12/28/06 10:42:00
Damn young man. Speak to em.
December 28, 2006 @ 10:46 am
Either way the Loose Ends song plays at the end of the movie and I ain’t shit.
Posted by naj at 12/28/06 10:42:48
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See ain’t nobody gonna have me hangin by a string…I’m in control of when to let go and when to hold on…that’s the problem…people give the other person way too much power…in the end, it’s always gonna be MY decision…
December 28, 2006 @ 10:47 am
Oh yeah and the matching outfits thing is sooooooo wack…I think that’s for oldheads, LOL
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 10:43:23
NSite you frontin. Remember when me and you took those pictures in the mall with the matching leather outfits with the black and red throwback Jordans on.
You told me that was cute.
December 28, 2006 @ 10:48 am
Shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit…fuck buddies is where it’s at…the problem is finding a nicca that can hold up the "fuckin" end of the bargain…I don’t ask for much..shit you do you, I’ma do me and when we together, we bring that shit together…we ain’t gotta wear matching sweatsuits and have t-shirts printed with our picture at the mall…
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 10:35:13
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I have to believe that there is at least one bad broad for every super hard rock nigga.
You might dog hoes all your life and meet a good ride or die chick who can practice tai chi, roll some good weed and make the perfect sammich after fuckin for hours.
Fuckbuddies can be cool but I swear there’s no such thing as simultaneous feelings in that dynamic. Somebody’s gonna want to call the other one "boo" first…
December 28, 2006 @ 10:48 am
See ain’t nobody gonna have me hangin by a string…I’m in control of when to let go and when to hold on…that’s the problem…people give the other person way too much power…in the end, it’s always gonna be MY decision…
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 10:46:03 |
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Thats SO true.
December 28, 2006 @ 10:50 am
NSite you frontin. Remember when me and you took those pictures in the mall with the matching leather outfits with the black and red throwback Jordans on.
You told me that was cute.
Posted by Chevy at 12/28/06 10:47:00
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December 28, 2006 @ 10:53 am
Posted by banga at 12/28/06 10:42:00 |
And let me tell ya..that’s not a good feeling…The dude from N.O. had me caught up like that…and that shit is not cool. I kew what it was, but I started wanting more and more…but I would never say anything from fear of him cutting my ass off, but I think he knew I was falling for him. What’s fuck up is that when I told him I was leaving to move to Chicago he was all like Why you moving type shit and we could have had a future…get the fuck outta here nigga..I’ve been fuckign with your ass off and on for like 4 years and NOW you wanna say that shit…
December 28, 2006 @ 10:53 am
Chevy:
I think there are more men out there that don’t know they ain’t shit cause bitches ain’t letting them know they ain’t shit! they giving pussy, know he fucking your best friend, let him knockem upside the head - and still saying "that’s my man right there"
Banga & Naj:
I here what you are saying and it can be somewhat different for us then for you guys - and I don’t even wanna work the double standard b/c we know there is one -
But for instance - if I am chilling with you, Banga, Chevy and CJP - and I tell you that I am cool with all of them and I am fucking all of them on occasion I mean not everyday a different day but - I get with either of you every now and again - I am not exclusive with any of you and you are not exclusvie with me b/c you all have your stable -
(damn that’s a lot fucking…but anyway)
Would you be more inclined to be cool with me if I told you about them or if you happen to find out? I mean if you ain’t feeling me like that then it should not matter, right? Yeah we say that but most of the time it matters how many pussies a dude is dicking down and vice versa.
Most of the time you can not have any contact male and female with some sort of feelings to be there but how you control them the key! You really just chilling with me til you find who you really want and I can deal as long as you can.
But you can’t say one thing and do something else. You can’t ask to come over on Friday and get mad if I tell you that "You know I am hangin out with a friend" - but women and men do that, just to check the dick or pussy status!
"Lemme see if she will tell that nigga Banga to stay at home so I can blow her back out"…lmaooooooo
December 28, 2006 @ 10:54 am
Fuckbuddies can be cool but I swear there’s no such thing as simultaneous feelings in that dynamic. Somebody’s gonna want to call the other one "boo" first…
Posted by naj at 12/28/06 10:48:43 |
Yes sir! It never fails!
December 28, 2006 @ 10:55 am
I have to believe that there is at least one bad broad for every super hard rock nigga.
You might dog hoes all your life and meet a good ride or die chick who can practice tai chi, roll some good weed and make the perfect sammich after fuckin for hours.
Fuckbuddies can be cool but I swear there’s no such thing as simultaneous feelings in that dynamic. Somebody’s gonna want to call the other one "boo" first…
Posted by naj at 12/28/06 10:48:43
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See that’s my problem…why can’t I call him "boo" (and by the way, I hate that term)…why can’t we really be on that level where we are friends, I mean cool ass friends who are fucking? I don’t get it? Every man/woman you meet and fuck is not automatically a candidate for your life-long partner…sometimes people just come into your life for that moment/season and they serve their purpose and move on…I just wish people would realize that…
December 28, 2006 @ 10:56 am
See ain’t nobody gonna have me hangin by a string…I’m in control of when to let go and when to hold on…that’s the problem…people give the other person way too much power…in the end, it’s always gonna be MY decision…
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 10:46:03
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Maybe those niggas on the way to Foot Locker were saying that a week ago but now are saying "y’all got this in women’s sizes?"…
Like that Erykah Badu song "Certainly"…
December 28, 2006 @ 10:58 am
KSH:
Why did my name have to be in the equation? :|
But in that situation, I could really care less. Hell, ain’t no feelings attached (at least not on my end). In the end, a female goin fuck who she wanna fuck and you MAY NEVER find out bout it.
So you gotta play the game how it go. Stay in your lane, drive your car, get where YOU need to go, and let the other drivers get road rage.
December 28, 2006 @ 10:59 am
"Lemme see if she will tell that nigga Banga to stay at home so I can blow her back out"…lmaooooooo
Posted by KSH at 12/28/06 10:53:19
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See that’s different if everybody knows everybody…but I talk about my friends to other friends and vice versa…only the strong can handle that type of relationship ON BOTH ENDS, MALE AND FEMALE…you have to really be mature and comfortable with yourself and most importantly, honest with yourself about what you REALLY want/expect from the opposite sex…
December 28, 2006 @ 11:01 am
I mean cool ass friends who are fucking? I don’t get it? Every man/woman you meet and fuck is not automatically a candidate for your life-long partner…sometimes people just come into your life for that moment/season and they serve their purpose and move on…I just wish people would realize that…
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 10:55:39 | edit delete ban
LMAOOOOOO Yeah but if you a bad bitch and you know you a bad bitch then - friends are kinda easy to keep at arms length!
I have 2 women friends that I hang with and I have about 5 guy friends - 2 of them I have fucked but we are still friends - i mean they know me and they know that if you ain’t boyfriend material Ima let you know. Hey we can be cool. SOme dudes yoiu find are rare and those are friends. They were all there when I got married and my hubby knows that they are my homies so they are his homies. I don’t chill with them like I did when I was single but they can call me at home…at a decent time…and we will talk on the phone about women. money and life - if you single and you a bad bitch real niggas gonna want to wife you! Niggas got a realize if you a bad muthfucka bitches gonna wanna hubby you up - get use to the shit and drink a mojito! 8)
December 28, 2006 @ 11:02 am
NSite:
I agree. If a female tells me, "I fuck with this other dude. But I wanna fuck you too." I’ll respect it. And she would never become ‘girlfriend’ status anyway. Just for the fact that she’s willingly fucking two niggaz at the same time.
But if a person tells you from jump how the movie is gonna end, will you go to the movies expecting a different outcome?
December 28, 2006 @ 11:03 am
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 10:59:49 |
That’s so true..But I used to lie to myself like I could handle it. But let me see this nigga talking to another bitch on the yard. Let me see another bitc in his truck. OMG! Im making sure he see me looking at him talking to her. Even though he wasnt the only nigga I was fucking, but I had STRONG feelings for that nigga. I would have flush the lil black book down the toilet had he said the word. The power of some good dick…
December 28, 2006 @ 11:04 am
So you gotta play the game how it go. Stay in your lane, drive your car, get where YOU need to go, and let the other drivers get road rage.
Posted by Chevy at 12/28/06 10:58:24 | edit delete ban
You know I couldn’t leave you out nigga! Married don’t mean dead!
But that’s what I mean you don’t ever know what the other is doing so DO YOU!
December 28, 2006 @ 11:04 am
I agree. If a female tells me, "I fuck with this other dude. But I wanna fuck you too." I’ll respect it. And she would never become ‘girlfriend’ status anyway. Just for the fact that she’s willingly fucking two niggaz at the same time.
But if a person tells you from jump how the movie is gonna end, will you go to the movies expecting a different outcome?
Posted by Chevy at 12/28/06 11:02:08 | edit delete ban
So if a woman is single and yall jsut fucking she can be fucking no other dudes?
December 28, 2006 @ 11:07 am
But if a person tells you from jump how the movie is gonna end, will you go to the movies expecting a different outcome?
Posted by Chevy at 12/28/06 11:02:08
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That’s the problem…buying the movie hoping it’s got alternate endings on the DVD…
December 28, 2006 @ 11:08 am
So if a woman is single and yall jsut fucking she can be fucking no other dudes?
Posted by KSH at 12/28/06 11:04:54 |
I did that stupid shit too in high school and my freshman year in college for for awhile…My dumbass..while this nigga fucking every bitch on campus..after that nigga I went on a fucking spree…never made that dumb ass mistake again!
December 28, 2006 @ 11:08 am
That’s the problem…buying the movie hoping it’s got alternate endings on the DVD…
Posted by naj at 12/28/06 11:07:48
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LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
December 28, 2006 @ 11:08 am
Posted by Chevy at 12/28/06 11:02:08 | edit delete ban
So if a woman is single and yall jsut fucking she can be fucking no other dudes?
Why can’t she be girlfriend material?
December 28, 2006 @ 11:09 am
KSH:
If she ain’t my girl, she can fuck whoever she wanna fuck. It’s her pussy.
December 28, 2006 @ 11:12 am
Sorry trissa
Most dudes can’t front
don’t know how to say that sht
and they’ll just stop takin chicks calls. Me Im too straight forward I tell you and everytime they just gradually disappear.
Honestly he was jus tryin to have his cake and eat too
If you really do got some good psy I’d pull the same sht
and so would any negro on the planet.
@KSH
Here’s my dating rules
1. don’t date any of dogs
outside of that do what you want
I won’t blow your spot if I see you and I expect you to do the same.
If you see me wit a chick fall back your not my girl. I will embarrass you
If your on another date at the movies. I ain’t gonna hate
you know what time it is and I know the same
do you cause Im most def gonna do me.
Date who want, when you want I don’t give a sht really I dont. Your not wifey!
Respect my time or your going to the back of the list. If you say your gonna do something do it and if you can’t call me and let me know. Word!
When your wit me I expect your undivided attention.
I don’t carry on convos with other chicks when Im wit you show me the same respect or its to the back of the list!
and last if you feel like changing the status of this
want to date exclusively see if this can develop into anything
Just please say something
play by these rules and no one gets hurt
so KSH I wouldn’t have the problem
why cause if I catch feeling I make em know and ask shorty to date exclusively.
Plus I tend not to fall for chicks that are dating other dudes this is not on purpose it just works out that way some how.
December 28, 2006 @ 11:12 am
KSH:
If she ain’t my girl, she can fuck whoever she wanna fuck. It’s her pussy.
Posted by Chevy at 12/28/06 11:09:36 | edit delete ban
So why can’t she be girlfriend material? If she is dealing with 2 dudes and you might be one of them - she could never be girlfriend material?
December 28, 2006 @ 11:14 am
made a typo on number one
don’t date any of "my" Dogs
December 28, 2006 @ 11:15 am
KSH:
I’m not saying she can’t be girlfriend material. But if she’s like I’m fucking 2 or 3 dudes BESIDES you, it’s gonna be damn near mission impossible for her to convince me that she’s capable of just fucking one nigga at a time. I’m not saying it’s not possible, but it damn sure won’t be easy.
But nothing you ever wants, should come to you easy.
December 28, 2006 @ 11:15 am
So why can’t she be girlfriend material? If she is dealing with 2 dudes and you might be one of them - she could never be girlfriend material?
Posted by KSH at 12/28/06 11:12:28
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Because his male ego training won’t allow him to view her as anything other than a "ho" or a "slut" for being involved with two dudes sexually…but they can do that shit all day…that’s why I don’t follow rules…I make them muhfuckas up as I go along…
December 28, 2006 @ 11:17 am
Banga!
Damn I like those rules!
But I am trying to figure out how in the world you can instantly shut your heart off to somebody that is dealilng with another?
I mean when I met my hubby I was dealing with him and another dude - he was dealing with me and another lady - so how is it possible that you can’ t find a woman or man in that way or you choose not too?
B/c no matter what I don’t have a dick counter on my forehead so you don’t know what I have done in the past - so what give with that?
December 28, 2006 @ 11:20 am
Banga:
Shit I know that about dude…but he was real slick…if I asked him about another bitch that I heard he was fucking or whatever he would tell me straight up…yes I fucked with her or no that bitch lying…whatever…I mean I think it was feelings there from both sides, but just like Chevy said he knew that I was fucking other niggas, but I never told him how I felt about him. I always used to TRY and play it cool, but I used to make sure that he KNEW I knew what the fuck he was doing…the worst thing a nigga can do to me is lie to me… that shit will get your balls cut off on the real…Homie dont play dat!
December 28, 2006 @ 11:20 am
But nothing you ever wants, should come to you easy.
Posted by Chevy at 12/28/06 11:15:00 | edit delete ban
Yeah b/c if you never really know - if you single shit you really fuck until you find the right one - and we all know that.
December 28, 2006 @ 11:21 am
running out for falafel…be back in 2 and 2
December 28, 2006 @ 11:25 am
Because his male ego training won’t allow him to view her as anything other than a "ho" or a "slut" for being involved with two dudes sexually…but they can do that shit all day…that’s why I don’t follow rules…I make them muhfuckas up as I go along…
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 11:15:27 |
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Yall know that ego is a muthafukka….I try not to let that shit really affect me. Cause it cant stop you from being with the ONE…just because of some pass discretion …
December 28, 2006 @ 11:26 am
In and out!
Bad boys are what women like because they have that motherly need to "change" or "re-raise" them. Plus that inherent need for some form of drama in an otherwise dull existence resides in everyone. I have no preference for my female physically but I do care about her emotional stability. I don’t need a woman that can’t make it without me.
As far as the prior thread regarding her fucking more than one at a time. She can never be wifey. Her penchant for variety will always be in the back of my mind. If I’m not important enough while dating to be exclusive, then what could possibly happen during the course of our manogamous relationship that may force her to explore her options. It will always be in the back of my mind and I’m not stressing over anyone.
Peace
December 28, 2006 @ 11:27 am
@KSH
Thats why before I make any chick my girl
I make sure we’ve dated exclusively for awhile
the thought that my girl was fkin someone at the same time as me
just fks wit me
at least I know if you agree to that
I have a better sense of loyalty
I have had one I was really feelin but she was just wit too many dudes
and a couple people I know
had to let her go even though she was cool
Honestly never been emotionally tied up in more than one women at the same time
typically one will just stand out
and the rest are just cool
December 28, 2006 @ 11:30 am
As far as the prior thread regarding her fucking more than one at a time. She can never be wifey. Her penchant for variety will always be in the back of my mind. If I’m not important enough while dating to be exclusive, then what could possibly happen during the course of our manogamous relationship that may force her to explore her options. It will always be in the back of my mind and I’m not stressing over anyone.
Peace
Posted by ernest frazier at 12/28/06 11:26:39 | edit delete ban
Awe damn my long lost ex husband…lol
You know you are dead wrong though! I mean if you are single you can do WHATEVER you want! So if you meet me we are not going to become instantly exclusive - I mean the pussy good but it ain’t that good (well actually it is…lmaoooo but let’s say it is normal) Shit I am not going to stop getting mine just b/c you show up - we gotta get to know each other then after some months maybe we will be man/woman exclusive - how you know I ain’t wifey material if you are counting me out on some bullshit?
December 28, 2006 @ 11:33 am
Posted by banga at 12/28/06 11:27:57 | edit delete ban
Damn Banga! Yeah that is what I am saying. If we are vibing and just fucking then it should not matter but if you feeling me and I am feeling you then Ima say "You need to tell them other hoes they gotta go b/c I gotta have you and only you" - I told my husband that - I said "I don’t know how much pussy you getting but you gonna have to make time to get this one all the time" - so we did the damn thing - we dated for 2 years then got married! And I am qunitessential wifey material!
"I make it rain"…lol :twisted:
December 28, 2006 @ 11:34 am
Initially, I won’t be invested enough to be concerned about your activities outside of me. But, if we connect on "that" level, shit is copacetic and I express my desire to be #1 then I either am or I am not. At that point, if there is a hesitation on your part then I’ll consider other options. Sure, we’ll keep fucking but that will be the extent of our relationship.
I’m always around KSH, you know that.
December 28, 2006 @ 11:35 am
Posted by KSH at 12/28/06 11:33:17
That’s pretty much how I did the boyfriend….Im gon need you to call them hoes and tell them its been one…and Im gon need you to delete them hoes outta yo phone
December 28, 2006 @ 11:38 am
I’m always around KSH, you know that.
Posted by ernest frazier at 12/28/06 11:34:55 |
Okay now that is a little better! I been missing you man! I been busy myself though so it’s cool - you are excused this time :P
But now you see what I am saying. I am cool but that don’t mean b/c I am dealing with you an another in the beginning - does not mean I am not wifey material - when we get closer then you get to decide if I am or if I am not.
December 28, 2006 @ 11:40 am
Because his male ego training won’t allow him to view her as anything other than a "ho" or a "slut" for being involved with two dudes sexually…but they can do that shit all day…that’s why I don’t follow rules…I make them muhfuckas up as I go along…
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 11:15:27
Come on man. You know me better than damn near anybody else. I don’t label women "ho’s" and "sluts" to begin with. Fuck it you’re grown, fuck who you wanna fuck.
But put it like this, if you meet a dude. And you’re CONSIDERING being in a relationship with this guy, and he told you "I’m fucking you, this chick I stay next door to, and another broad cross town", would you still STRONGLY CONSIDER being this nigga’s main girl? Probably not. I’m not saying that maybe down the line, it won’t happen. But it will GRADUALLY happen. And your ass will be cautious with dude too.
Don’t front for the fans. :? :? :?
December 28, 2006 @ 11:42 am
If I’m not important enough while dating to be exclusive, then what could possibly happen during the course of our manogamous relationship that may force her to explore her options. It will always be in the back of my mind and I’m not stressing over anyone.
Peace
Posted by ernest frazier at 12/28/06 11:26:39
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Key term "dating"…there is a fine line between dating and cutting…
December 28, 2006 @ 11:42 am
Trissa:
That is the way you do it! You can’t expect them to be Virgin Mary and John the Baptist when you meet them - how do they know you are the one on date one - I can’t be letting my back breaker go unless I have a certified #1 Draft Pick - all around!!!
December 28, 2006 @ 11:44 am
Posted by KSH at 12/28/06 11:42:33 |
Shiiit I’m saying
Dont fuck ya fo sho fo some mo!
December 28, 2006 @ 11:45 am
Don’t front for the fans.
Posted by Chevy at 12/28/06 11:40:00
Most men you meet are fucking somebody so you take it as okay he fucking her but if I like him he gonna hve to stop fucking broad across town, girl next door and chick across the street - if he ain’t willing then move on.
December 28, 2006 @ 11:48 am
But put it like this, if you meet a dude. And you’re CONSIDERING being in a relationship with this guy, and he told you "I’m fucking you, this chick I stay next door to, and another broad cross town", would you still STRONGLY CONSIDER being this nigga’s main girl? Probably not. I’m not saying that maybe down the line, it won’t happen. But it will GRADUALLY happen. And your ass will be cautious with dude too.
Don’t front for the fans.
Posted by Chevy at 12/28/06 11:40:00
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I’m not going to base my decision on whether or not to be in a "relationship" with someone based on who they are fucking…they were fucking like that before me and nine times outta ten they will be fucking like that after me…it’s a small part…
I can’t be letting my back breaker go unless I have a certified #1 Draft Pick - all around!!!
Posted by KSH at 12/28/06 11:42:33
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Exactly…I’m not giving up my #1 Draft "Dick" LOL…for a nigga who may have road the pine his entire college career…
December 28, 2006 @ 11:53 am
NSite:
Don’t fuck with cats who ride any type of wood. :-(
Not a good look
December 28, 2006 @ 11:54 am
Don’t fuck with cats who ride any type of wood.
Not a good look
Posted by Chevy at 12/28/06 11:53:47
You know what…
December 28, 2006 @ 11:54 am
NSite:
Don’t fuck with cats who ride any type of wood.
Not a good look
Posted by Chevy at 12/28/06 11:53:47
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LMAOOOOOOOOOOO…yeah you right…LOL
December 28, 2006 @ 11:55 am
NSite:
Don’t fuck with cats who ride any type of wood.
Not a good look
Posted by Chevy at 12/28/06 11:53:47 |
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LMAOOOOO…
Damn dawg…
December 28, 2006 @ 11:55 am
haha
December 28, 2006 @ 11:59 am
I have a question that I would like to pose to the men on this blog, I’d also like to know how the ladies feel about it…
Do you consider a woman a whore if she sleeps with you on the first night :?:
December 28, 2006 @ 12:00 pm
I have a question that I would like to pose to the men on this blog, I’d also like to know how the ladies feel about it…
Do you consider a woman a whore if she sleeps with you on the first night
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 11:59:02 |
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No.
December 28, 2006 @ 12:00 pm
Well I’ll say this…I date and if I so happen to find that special someone…and she feels the same…its on I can give a damn about what she done before we met…As long as she come with it when she with me then its all good…
December 28, 2006 @ 12:02 pm
I have a question that I would like to pose to the men on this blog, I’d also like to know how the ladies feel about it…
Do you consider a woman a whore if she sleeps with you on the first night
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 11:59:02 |
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HELL NO…Just let me know that knew what she wanted and went after it…You dont have to hold out on me…I want mine now.
December 28, 2006 @ 12:02 pm
Well I’ll say this…I date and if I so happen to find that special someone…and she feels the same…its on I can give a damn about what she done before we met…As long as she come with it when she with me then its all good…
Posted by cjp at 12/28/06 12:00:26
Damn CJP I am impressed…lol
NSite:
No I don’t think that. As long as she aint "passing the pussy" to the dude and his 3 friends then she is cool in my book
December 28, 2006 @ 12:02 pm
Key term "dating"…there is a fine line between dating and cutting…
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 11:42:10 |
The only difference is semantics. People use distinctions in order to get away with questionable shit all the time. It’s kind of like the Bill Clinton theory, "is may not necessarily mean is". If I’m dating someone then she is exclusive unless we both decided otherwise from the beginning.
December 28, 2006 @ 12:04 pm
Where do women get this 3 month rule shit? (besides Joan Carol Clayton) - I mean if I have not given it to you after 2 weeks then I don’t want you - simple math
2weeks - no pussy = move the fuck on
1 date + pussy = damn, even if you don’t work out that was some good chemistry 8)
December 28, 2006 @ 12:05 pm
The only difference is semantics. People use distinctions in order to get away with questionable shit all the time. It’s kind of like the Bill Clinton theory, "is may not necessarily mean is". If I’m dating someone then she is exclusive unless we both decided otherwise from the beginning.
Posted by ernest frazier at 12/28/06 12:02:21
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There is a clear distinction between dating and cutting…how it’s defined is exactly how it’s defined…dating is going out together, talking on the phone, really spending quality time trying to get to know each other…cutting is fucking when horny, typically after 2AM…there is a big difference.
December 28, 2006 @ 12:05 pm
I have a question that I would like to pose to the men on this blog, I’d also like to know how the ladies feel about it…
Do you consider a woman a whore if she sleeps with you on the first night
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 11:59:02
Hell nah. :x
It just shows me that she goes for what she wants.
December 28, 2006 @ 12:06 pm
@Everybody
Yeah I don’t think that sleeping with someone on the first "date" makes a woman a whore, but like KSH said, you can’t be sleeping with every Tom, Dick and Harpo…
December 28, 2006 @ 12:06 pm
Do you consider a woman a whore if she sleeps with you on the first night
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 11:59:02 |
Hell fkin NO!
Sometimes the vibe is just right for sht like that
If your feelin me like that
Go for it!
I’ve done it and if more people stopped
calling chicks hoes for the wrong reasons it would be easier for me to get my sht off again
matter of fact
You takin any applications?
Im jus playin
unless you gon do it :P
December 28, 2006 @ 12:07 pm
Where do women get this 3 month rule shit? (besides Joan Carol Clayton) - I mean if I have not given it to you after 2 weeks then I don’t want you - simple math
2weeks - no pussy = move the fuck on
1 date + pussy = damn, even if you don’t work out that was some good chemistry
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LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO…KSH, girl you speak my language…LOL
December 28, 2006 @ 12:08 pm
Posted by ernest frazier at 12/28/06 12:02:21 |
Now to me there is a big difference between dating and fucking -
Dating: we are cool you know my daughter, you know my moms, we hit the movies, the mall, you buy me stuff I buy you stuff.
Fucking: you can only come over if my baby is at her gram’s house, you seen pics of the family but you don’t know them personally, we hang out after hours, you spend the night but you leave b4 daylight. We are cool and you can count on me but don’t let me be your ‘emergency contact’
December 28, 2006 @ 12:08 pm
matter of fact
You takin any applications?
Im jus playin
unless you gon do it
Posted by banga at 12/28/06 12:06:22
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December 28, 2006 @ 12:09 pm
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 12:06:00 |
just don’t do that sht too often
and strap up and its whatever
if your on the prowl too many times like that then yeah your a HOE
thats my only disclaimer
December 28, 2006 @ 12:09 pm
KSH
Life is too short to be worring about all that other shit…who cares what somebody did before we met… That past shit kills and future you want to have with someone…hell I’ve done some fucked up shit in my time and I wouldnt want anyone to hold that against me…So why should I do the same.
December 28, 2006 @ 12:09 pm
I have a question that I would like to pose to the men on this blog, I’d also like to know how the ladies feel about it…
Do you consider a woman a whore if she sleeps with you on the first night
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 11:59:02 |
Good one Nsite…good one! LOL!
To answer your question hell no.."wait broke the wagon"..ya feel me.. shit if you wait 6 months yous till taking a chance on being treated like a hoe…shy should I deprive myself, plus why wait 6 months to fuck a dude only to find out his dick is wack as fuck…hell you could have fucked him a long time ago and found out and got rid of this nigga and found somebody else!
December 28, 2006 @ 12:09 pm
Do you consider a woman a whore if she sleeps with you on the first night
Posted by NSite at 12/28/06 11:59:02
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I consider her a smart woman-LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Nah, it ain’t that deep to me. I now realize that because a woman has a sexual appetite does not necessarily mean she’s a whore.
Freaky broads can be just as selective as the prude ones. Just know that if she gives it up to you the first night, to be safe about that shit. Your luck could be bad.
I do hate when a nigga uses that as part of his reasoning when shit falls apart. She fucked on the first night…nigga you fucked her…y’all both in the wrong!
Nigga logic is fan-tastic!
December 28, 2006 @ 12:09 pm
*past shit kills any
December 28, 2006 @ 12:10 pm
We are cool and you can count on me but don’t let me be your ‘emergency contact’
Posted by KSH at 12/28/06 12:08:02 |
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Yes, do not ring nare one of my phones needing bail money…I’m not gonna do it…I’m not loanin you money…you are not borrowing my car…it’s not going down…